Quote: (09-30-2011 10:33 AM)WhiteMonk Wrote:
you're self-selecting for sluts.
Yesterday's Twitter update by Roosh is a prime example:
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The moment I realize a girl isn't DTF I go silent & stare blankly into space. Girls are quick: takes them 30-60 secs to get it & walk away.
If you go out and only give attention to the girls who are down to fuck that night, then all the girls you're with are going to be sluts.
If you reject a girl because she doesn't have sex with you by the 2nd or 3rd date, then eventually all the girls you're with are sluts.
Basically you're self-selecting for the sluttiest girls possible.
There's nothing wrong with that, especially if all you want to do is get laid and party, but please don't assume that all girls are like that. Don't get jaded about the quality of American girls, simply because the ones you choose are the sluttiest girls in your town.
There are lots of "good girls" out there, who are very feminine and would make great wives, but if all you do is chase after the easy girls, then you won't be meeting them.
Let me give you some background on me, since I'm new here. I'm 36 years old and recently married to a "good girl". Back in my 20s and early 30s, I chased lots of slutty girls and had tons of fun, but eventually I hit a point where I wanted to settle down. I didn't want to be a 40-year-old guy still going out and hitting on girls, and I wanted some stability in my life. So I changed my methods, and stopped worrying about whether a girl would sleep with me right away and instead started looking for real compatibility and femininity.
I met a girl who is amazing in every way, and we are perfect for each other, so we got married.
But I still have to use "game" with her to keep the relationship strong, and I enjoy reading the various game blogs and forums to keep me on my toes. Now that I'm married, it's more important than ever to maintain my masculinity and keep the attraction going forever. I'm in this for life.
I know this may not resonate with most of you, since we're at different places in our lives, but I've seen threads here about "end game" and the like, and I hope this contributes to the discussion.
To the majority of women, every man is a rapist, an abuser, a cheater until proven otherwise. For those of us in the game, we understand that women are all bitches, sluts, whores, gold diggers etc until proven otherwise.
Men of the game, understand that men have something to offer women, far more valuable than they have to offer us. For lack of a better word, we give women purpose and passion, something that their feminized world, regardless of how powerful and significant it becomes, has failed to give them. And unlike most betas, we put a value on that.
As a man, whether you're married or not, a woman serves as an accomplice to your goals. To upgrade her to a level of WIFE, means that she aught to have overcome several obstacles to reach such a high level in your life. No army, or commander in chief, looks for some random dude off the street, and says to himself, "I want this bum to be my general." No, that bum needs to move up the ranks and start at the bottom, no matter how strong or tall he might appear. He has to go through the obstacles so when he reaches the top, he'll value the position that's been given to him.
Now when you're sitting back a couple months or years from now, , and your woman's either being a pain, or she's handing you divorce papers; don't you dare cry. Stand up, go to your bathroom, and look in the mirror; then say to yourself, "It's my fault." It will be your fault because you gave a woman a position in your life, that she didn't earn. And the reason why you gave her that position wasn't because she was great, but because you my friend, were mentally weak.