Been going back and forth with a girl on Bumble for a couple days. Real cute but a bit older than I like.
Supposed to have a date tonight. Good stuff.
Messaging is per the usual, date is setup, then she asks me right out of the blue before the date:
"How tall are you?"
"5'5. that a dealbreaker?"
"Yeah, it kind of is, I'd be taller than you in heels."
"cool. take care."
"You too."
Granted, your buddy Hank probably could have salvaged that. If I wanted to at least try, I should have responded to the question "How much do you weigh?" "What is the balance of your bank account?" or "How many dudes have you banged?" Or I could have just said "Why does that matter?" and shamed her for even asking, or "10 feet fall, and I consume the English with fireballs from my eyes, and bolts of lightning from my arse."
But honestly, it felt like too much work, and I was sort of looking for a reason to keep playing Playstation and not leave my house tonight (or stop posting on the RVF).
In any event, this is my point -- online dating favors men who are tall, physically fit, have tattoos, and a big dog. It's a total waste of time for us "average" guys who rely on charisma, charm, dress, and success.
Put me in a bar face to face, and I'll usually walk out with a hot chick. But online dating is just a black hole these days. Why waste the time giving into this superficial bullshit?
I'm disappointed that I wasted about an hour of my time that could have gone just about anywhere else, or nowhere. I'd of been better off just talking to women in my local watering hole. Or not hitting the pause button to send messages.
Supposed to have a date tonight. Good stuff.
Messaging is per the usual, date is setup, then she asks me right out of the blue before the date:
"How tall are you?"
"5'5. that a dealbreaker?"
"Yeah, it kind of is, I'd be taller than you in heels."
"cool. take care."
"You too."
Granted, your buddy Hank probably could have salvaged that. If I wanted to at least try, I should have responded to the question "How much do you weigh?" "What is the balance of your bank account?" or "How many dudes have you banged?" Or I could have just said "Why does that matter?" and shamed her for even asking, or "10 feet fall, and I consume the English with fireballs from my eyes, and bolts of lightning from my arse."
But honestly, it felt like too much work, and I was sort of looking for a reason to keep playing Playstation and not leave my house tonight (or stop posting on the RVF).
In any event, this is my point -- online dating favors men who are tall, physically fit, have tattoos, and a big dog. It's a total waste of time for us "average" guys who rely on charisma, charm, dress, and success.
Put me in a bar face to face, and I'll usually walk out with a hot chick. But online dating is just a black hole these days. Why waste the time giving into this superficial bullshit?
I'm disappointed that I wasted about an hour of my time that could have gone just about anywhere else, or nowhere. I'd of been better off just talking to women in my local watering hole. Or not hitting the pause button to send messages.