Disclaimer: I have very little game and consider myself super rusty as I was in a nearly 10-year relationship with my ex.
On Thursday, I arrived in Chiang Mai for the first time. slightly before 10 p.m. I walked into a restaurant. I was the only customer there. This meant that the server could give all her attention to me. Her English was not so great, but it was understandable, and when I spoke slow she understood me as well. She was in regular work attire, no makeup and hair not done, so she looked like a 5, but her smiles and kind demeanor bumped her up to a 7 for me. She is originally from the Chiang Rai and has been in Chiang Mai for about 6 years
Eventually, I asked her for her LINE ID. She gave it to me and said after "don't take this the wrong way, but I thought you were gay." (maybe I came off as gay, due to my super slow and kind speech that I use with ESL students, and due to the fact that I was smiling a lot as I'm told that's what you do around these parts.).
I told her that I'm just visiting for a short amount of time and that I would be heading back to New York within the week. I know that you guys say that you need to fake as if you're already living here, but I'm not at that level of game yet, and I would only use that on the girls that seem bitchy. Also, I did tell her that I will be coming back to Chiang Mai for about 3 months later in the year, because that is actually what I plan to do.
She is either 22 years old or 26 (can't recall). I am 33 years old. I asked her to guess how old I am and she said 26 or 29 I believe. We left it at that.
My goals: I don't need to go for the bang, but would at least like to get the end of the date kiss to plant the metaphorical seed in her for when I come back.
Following is our text exchange up to the moment:
Edit: How can I display the edited LINE messages in the body of the text? I don't want to have to type the whole thing out, and it's telling me that when I try to put it as an attachment the file size is too large.
If that doesn't work, if one of the trusted forum members here can provide me with their line or Whatsapp info, then I can just send you the messages and you can post them up.
On Thursday, I arrived in Chiang Mai for the first time. slightly before 10 p.m. I walked into a restaurant. I was the only customer there. This meant that the server could give all her attention to me. Her English was not so great, but it was understandable, and when I spoke slow she understood me as well. She was in regular work attire, no makeup and hair not done, so she looked like a 5, but her smiles and kind demeanor bumped her up to a 7 for me. She is originally from the Chiang Rai and has been in Chiang Mai for about 6 years
Eventually, I asked her for her LINE ID. She gave it to me and said after "don't take this the wrong way, but I thought you were gay." (maybe I came off as gay, due to my super slow and kind speech that I use with ESL students, and due to the fact that I was smiling a lot as I'm told that's what you do around these parts.).
I told her that I'm just visiting for a short amount of time and that I would be heading back to New York within the week. I know that you guys say that you need to fake as if you're already living here, but I'm not at that level of game yet, and I would only use that on the girls that seem bitchy. Also, I did tell her that I will be coming back to Chiang Mai for about 3 months later in the year, because that is actually what I plan to do.
She is either 22 years old or 26 (can't recall). I am 33 years old. I asked her to guess how old I am and she said 26 or 29 I believe. We left it at that.
My goals: I don't need to go for the bang, but would at least like to get the end of the date kiss to plant the metaphorical seed in her for when I come back.
Following is our text exchange up to the moment:
Edit: How can I display the edited LINE messages in the body of the text? I don't want to have to type the whole thing out, and it's telling me that when I try to put it as an attachment the file size is too large.
If that doesn't work, if one of the trusted forum members here can provide me with their line or Whatsapp info, then I can just send you the messages and you can post them up.