After nearly 5 months in South East Asia my trip will come to an end soon. I found out a lot about myself and the world that surrounds me and I still know that I don't know much.
I will do long trips like this every year for the next few years at least. I want to do that as long as I am young and as long as I can bring it in order with my main job.
The thing is, just living in a nice, modern, small apartment with swimming pool and gym in a big (maybe even shitty) city for meeting and fucking girls, doesn't satisfy me. I need something else to do there that has some meaning to me. (Btw: Just traveling for the sake of traveling also doesn't satisfy me for too long)
Doing the stuff that you can find when you search for something like "What to do in Bangkok (insert any city)" on google does satisfy me even less. Going to a temple or other touristy stuff in most cases isn't worth the money, time and effort for me anymore. It gets old. It's more like doing something so I've done something... like it would be for the most locals.
Even if I would try to convince myself that hanging out with girls and fucking them would be enough, every person and every girl that I get to know will remind me with questions like "What did you do yesterday?" "Why are you in this city?" that this isn't what satisfies me.
So let me tell you, what I did on this trip to handle it and I hope there are other people with thoughts like this and some solutions.
A really good friend visited me in the middle of the trip for four weeks and we did a motorbike tour around Vietnam. - It was an awesome time, but to have a good time with a friend, you need such a friend who has time etc. I also didn't fuck girls at this time. It was nice to spend time with him, it was also nice to get rid of him after four weeks (I don't mean that in a bad way). That's always my dilemma, I always need changes. I handle it while combining traveling by myself or with strangers and traveling with good friends. Normally I focus on the girls most of the time when I'm by myself and don't travel that much anymore.
I did two massage courses in Bangkok. - It was lots of fun, I learned a lot, I met cool people, it got me out of my comfort zone. This is something I really can recommend, if you think you could like to do massage. That's what I mean, something that lets you live in a more or less pussy paradise city, gives you some purpose that you enjoy doing, that lets you meet cool people and that still lets you enough time left for the girls.
I am going to do a diving course in Koh Tao. - I'm sure it will also be fun and all the other stuff I mentioned for the massage course, but it's something that doesn't let me live in a big more or less pussy paradise city.
Of course I also did stuff like hiking etc. but there is no routine to that.
The problem is, costs for stuff like this will add up. I can do it, but I can't do it all the time. I'm looking for other ideas that don't cost (that much) or maybe even let me earn some money or let me have something (lessons, accommodation, food, etc.) for free. It would also be cool to be part of something like a yoga school or whatever which can also lead to social connections.
Groups, activities and meetups that you can find on couchsurfing.com , meetup.com , or internations.com can sometimes also be nice.
What comes to my mind is doing volunteer work or internships at stuff that seems interesting to me. I just don't know how to find something like that in pussy paradise cities.
Having friends and a social circle at the place would also help, but it's very hard to find someone, that interests me and to whom I can talk openly about all my views on the world. I'm very picky when it comes to people I spend my time with. Girls have it a bit easier in this case because of their pussy, but in the end I also don't want to spend time with them anymore. Of course being alone isn't nice either, that's also an underlying reason of everything written here, so it's new contact after new contact after new... Sounds arrogant, but I'm sure there are guys that have the same problem.
I hope you guys have some ideas and opinions to share and discuss about how to get some meaningful activities and interesting and inspiring contacts, when spending time in pussy paradise.
I will do long trips like this every year for the next few years at least. I want to do that as long as I am young and as long as I can bring it in order with my main job.
The thing is, just living in a nice, modern, small apartment with swimming pool and gym in a big (maybe even shitty) city for meeting and fucking girls, doesn't satisfy me. I need something else to do there that has some meaning to me. (Btw: Just traveling for the sake of traveling also doesn't satisfy me for too long)
Doing the stuff that you can find when you search for something like "What to do in Bangkok (insert any city)" on google does satisfy me even less. Going to a temple or other touristy stuff in most cases isn't worth the money, time and effort for me anymore. It gets old. It's more like doing something so I've done something... like it would be for the most locals.
Even if I would try to convince myself that hanging out with girls and fucking them would be enough, every person and every girl that I get to know will remind me with questions like "What did you do yesterday?" "Why are you in this city?" that this isn't what satisfies me.
So let me tell you, what I did on this trip to handle it and I hope there are other people with thoughts like this and some solutions.
A really good friend visited me in the middle of the trip for four weeks and we did a motorbike tour around Vietnam. - It was an awesome time, but to have a good time with a friend, you need such a friend who has time etc. I also didn't fuck girls at this time. It was nice to spend time with him, it was also nice to get rid of him after four weeks (I don't mean that in a bad way). That's always my dilemma, I always need changes. I handle it while combining traveling by myself or with strangers and traveling with good friends. Normally I focus on the girls most of the time when I'm by myself and don't travel that much anymore.
I did two massage courses in Bangkok. - It was lots of fun, I learned a lot, I met cool people, it got me out of my comfort zone. This is something I really can recommend, if you think you could like to do massage. That's what I mean, something that lets you live in a more or less pussy paradise city, gives you some purpose that you enjoy doing, that lets you meet cool people and that still lets you enough time left for the girls.
I am going to do a diving course in Koh Tao. - I'm sure it will also be fun and all the other stuff I mentioned for the massage course, but it's something that doesn't let me live in a big more or less pussy paradise city.
Of course I also did stuff like hiking etc. but there is no routine to that.
The problem is, costs for stuff like this will add up. I can do it, but I can't do it all the time. I'm looking for other ideas that don't cost (that much) or maybe even let me earn some money or let me have something (lessons, accommodation, food, etc.) for free. It would also be cool to be part of something like a yoga school or whatever which can also lead to social connections.
Groups, activities and meetups that you can find on couchsurfing.com , meetup.com , or internations.com can sometimes also be nice.
What comes to my mind is doing volunteer work or internships at stuff that seems interesting to me. I just don't know how to find something like that in pussy paradise cities.
Having friends and a social circle at the place would also help, but it's very hard to find someone, that interests me and to whom I can talk openly about all my views on the world. I'm very picky when it comes to people I spend my time with. Girls have it a bit easier in this case because of their pussy, but in the end I also don't want to spend time with them anymore. Of course being alone isn't nice either, that's also an underlying reason of everything written here, so it's new contact after new contact after new... Sounds arrogant, but I'm sure there are guys that have the same problem.
I hope you guys have some ideas and opinions to share and discuss about how to get some meaningful activities and interesting and inspiring contacts, when spending time in pussy paradise.