Hello guys,
This community helped me so much and challenged a lot of my beliefs so that's why I'm starting a journal. Hopefully we can both learn more from each others.
I'm still amazed when I wander here: in real life, you rarely can find someone to discuss this kind of issue (average joe is blue pill and well pretty uneducated of the realities of the world), but here you find a surprisingly big group of smart and creative guys. Anyway, shall we begin ?
About me
I'm an almost 30 y.o. french, white. I'm currently employed as an engineer, but working like hell to have financial independence.
Used to live in the capital, but I think it's the worst for men like us (migrants, sluttiest girls, unhappy people, etc). Now I live in 2nd tier city and am happier.
However I'm a very direct masculine guy, and the older I become, the more I think I'm not made to live in France. There's beta almost everywhere and even among player, true masculinity is extremely hard to find.
I was discussing it with an RVF friend the other day : there is a 2 parts of the game: learning to pickup girls AND finding your masculinity. I would say a lot of "players" are good at the 1st, but sadly don't care about the 2nd.
For french girls, you will have more success being a kind of slightly feminine alpha (hurt just to write that) than what we're preaching here.
Girls & Game
I definitely had some success with the fair sex, but I'm not satisfied. I'm currently in phase 6 (see here : thread-51119.html ) as I lost the drive to bang every hot chick in sight.
When I look back, I think only 4 girls were worthy of all the efforts. The rest, while being funny stories, count for nothing to me. Some guys here wanna bang hundreds of girls, but all I want is a regular feminine presence with a quality girl. I'm not necessarily meaning a GF, as I like hours without seeing of speaking to no one.
However my international travels opened my eyes and now I'm tweaking my game to do it in other spots. I used to do almost exclusively nightgame (clubs & salsa/bachata bars) but now I'm starting to focus on spots where I have chances of finding quality girls. If you guys complain about only finding sluts, maybe you should think it too: "am I gaming in spots where my kind of girls have a good chance to be ? ".
Sluts are easier to find and game, yes, but I find them empty, especially for a demanding guy like me. They appear to you in the club sexy as hell, know how to increase your temperature and how to make you wait. But when it's time to show (i.e. the bedroom), they just think being a girl is enough, don't know how to do a blowjob (even though they probably sucked dozens), have a low sex drive and worst of all, are not invested in our pleasure.
I hate that because I know I bring more than I get. BTW guys, you should read Sex God Method from D.ROSE, it really improved my friend and my sex game.
Jobs & Finance
As I said I'm employed as an engineer. While I did like my job at the beginning (short hours, good pay, nice boss), I'm finding it more and more difficult to work for somebody else. I know that if I work like hell or just average, it doesn't change my pay so why hustling ?
However recently I found the joy of working for myself. I just lauched a website (in french, sorry) thanks to Thisistrouble (see here : thread-65448.html ). It's a tool with paid subscriptions and I plan to take it as far as I can.
I'm gonna start to do guest posting and use adwords to generate initial traffic, outside of that I don't know how to market it more. Ideas ?
Btw for those who plan/have a website, maybe I can help you in sharing my idea. Do you know the character Saul in Breaking Bad ? If you remember, he created awesome video advertisement, not by using facts but with showmanship, selling dreams. We often forget that people (not just girls) react more with emotions than facts. I plan to do exactly the same for my website, and I hope it will increase the flow. About the video, remember : if it finish with a rhyme, it's convincing all the time...
Outside of the website, I'm doing a bit of buying reselling and plan to go in real estate mid-2018. I bought my apartment and found out it's actually pretty easy. So I read a lot on the subject, go to group meetings on this subject and will buy a studio as soon as I can.
I like real estate: how you can negotiate, that no matter what happens, people always need a roof and that it's a physical value, not a virtual one. Besides, it's perfect for automation (Cf the 4 hours workweef - T.FERRIS).
Other bonus, it's a good way to get rich and hide your money from taxes (cf another great read : Rich dad, poor dad). It's funny because I'm not actually rich, but I'm feeling a mindset shift. It's like the difference between being red pill and blue pill. I read the thread about the 21 differences between average and rich people ( thread-21869.html ) and check 18 out of 21. I'm already sensing more and more jealousy even from family that made me realize that usually, people want you to fail. When you do succeed, you're like a reminder to them that they didn't work hard or smart, that they have regrets or don't follow their dreams.
That's a sad reality : for men like us, it's increasingly difficult to find like-minded people. People are offended when you drop game truth, people are offended when you explain your right-wing political views and people are jealous when you express your desire to get out of the rat race and become rich. All three subjects combined make us solitary. But aren't we always alone on the (way to the) top ?
My plans for the future
I'm a strong believer of "grow or die" so whatever is or will be, I will continue to hustle. I plan to continue traveling and finding good spots to live (russia is on top of my list), meeting you guys as much as I can and finding other masculine guys (I plan to go to MMA class soon, so it should be ok), meeting quality girls and doing everything I can to quit my job ASAP.
Remember guys, life is hard, but with work and brain, we can achieve our dreams. That's why I live my live with the motto "easy choices, hard life - hard choices, easy life".
Will keep you posted !
This community helped me so much and challenged a lot of my beliefs so that's why I'm starting a journal. Hopefully we can both learn more from each others.
I'm still amazed when I wander here: in real life, you rarely can find someone to discuss this kind of issue (average joe is blue pill and well pretty uneducated of the realities of the world), but here you find a surprisingly big group of smart and creative guys. Anyway, shall we begin ?
About me
I'm an almost 30 y.o. french, white. I'm currently employed as an engineer, but working like hell to have financial independence.
Used to live in the capital, but I think it's the worst for men like us (migrants, sluttiest girls, unhappy people, etc). Now I live in 2nd tier city and am happier.
However I'm a very direct masculine guy, and the older I become, the more I think I'm not made to live in France. There's beta almost everywhere and even among player, true masculinity is extremely hard to find.
I was discussing it with an RVF friend the other day : there is a 2 parts of the game: learning to pickup girls AND finding your masculinity. I would say a lot of "players" are good at the 1st, but sadly don't care about the 2nd.
For french girls, you will have more success being a kind of slightly feminine alpha (hurt just to write that) than what we're preaching here.
Girls & Game
I definitely had some success with the fair sex, but I'm not satisfied. I'm currently in phase 6 (see here : thread-51119.html ) as I lost the drive to bang every hot chick in sight.
When I look back, I think only 4 girls were worthy of all the efforts. The rest, while being funny stories, count for nothing to me. Some guys here wanna bang hundreds of girls, but all I want is a regular feminine presence with a quality girl. I'm not necessarily meaning a GF, as I like hours without seeing of speaking to no one.
However my international travels opened my eyes and now I'm tweaking my game to do it in other spots. I used to do almost exclusively nightgame (clubs & salsa/bachata bars) but now I'm starting to focus on spots where I have chances of finding quality girls. If you guys complain about only finding sluts, maybe you should think it too: "am I gaming in spots where my kind of girls have a good chance to be ? ".
Sluts are easier to find and game, yes, but I find them empty, especially for a demanding guy like me. They appear to you in the club sexy as hell, know how to increase your temperature and how to make you wait. But when it's time to show (i.e. the bedroom), they just think being a girl is enough, don't know how to do a blowjob (even though they probably sucked dozens), have a low sex drive and worst of all, are not invested in our pleasure.
I hate that because I know I bring more than I get. BTW guys, you should read Sex God Method from D.ROSE, it really improved my friend and my sex game.
Jobs & Finance
As I said I'm employed as an engineer. While I did like my job at the beginning (short hours, good pay, nice boss), I'm finding it more and more difficult to work for somebody else. I know that if I work like hell or just average, it doesn't change my pay so why hustling ?
However recently I found the joy of working for myself. I just lauched a website (in french, sorry) thanks to Thisistrouble (see here : thread-65448.html ). It's a tool with paid subscriptions and I plan to take it as far as I can.
I'm gonna start to do guest posting and use adwords to generate initial traffic, outside of that I don't know how to market it more. Ideas ?
Btw for those who plan/have a website, maybe I can help you in sharing my idea. Do you know the character Saul in Breaking Bad ? If you remember, he created awesome video advertisement, not by using facts but with showmanship, selling dreams. We often forget that people (not just girls) react more with emotions than facts. I plan to do exactly the same for my website, and I hope it will increase the flow. About the video, remember : if it finish with a rhyme, it's convincing all the time...
Outside of the website, I'm doing a bit of buying reselling and plan to go in real estate mid-2018. I bought my apartment and found out it's actually pretty easy. So I read a lot on the subject, go to group meetings on this subject and will buy a studio as soon as I can.
I like real estate: how you can negotiate, that no matter what happens, people always need a roof and that it's a physical value, not a virtual one. Besides, it's perfect for automation (Cf the 4 hours workweef - T.FERRIS).
Other bonus, it's a good way to get rich and hide your money from taxes (cf another great read : Rich dad, poor dad). It's funny because I'm not actually rich, but I'm feeling a mindset shift. It's like the difference between being red pill and blue pill. I read the thread about the 21 differences between average and rich people ( thread-21869.html ) and check 18 out of 21. I'm already sensing more and more jealousy even from family that made me realize that usually, people want you to fail. When you do succeed, you're like a reminder to them that they didn't work hard or smart, that they have regrets or don't follow their dreams.
That's a sad reality : for men like us, it's increasingly difficult to find like-minded people. People are offended when you drop game truth, people are offended when you explain your right-wing political views and people are jealous when you express your desire to get out of the rat race and become rich. All three subjects combined make us solitary. But aren't we always alone on the (way to the) top ?
My plans for the future
I'm a strong believer of "grow or die" so whatever is or will be, I will continue to hustle. I plan to continue traveling and finding good spots to live (russia is on top of my list), meeting you guys as much as I can and finding other masculine guys (I plan to go to MMA class soon, so it should be ok), meeting quality girls and doing everything I can to quit my job ASAP.
Remember guys, life is hard, but with work and brain, we can achieve our dreams. That's why I live my live with the motto "easy choices, hard life - hard choices, easy life".
Will keep you posted !
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