Can explicit pre-selection hurt my chance w/ a girl?
Is it over-gaming and killing comfort level to the point that a girl doesn't feel safe meeting me again?
Maybe I was a dumbfuck, but I had a girl with a nice booty and I just put a snapchat story of her naked ass with panties on.
I captioned it something along the lines of "she says she squats" and I was tapping her ass slightly.
After putting this on my story, I had couple girls just unfriending me on snapchat, stopped checking my story or when I message some of those who still check my story later, they just don't respond or respond in one words...
On the other hand, I had few girls whose interest actually "sparked" after this, couple sorority girls...
This human nature/psychology shit is really interesting to me...
How the F does Dan Bilzerian or other high-status celebs do it?
He still does these shit and get laid...Do I just not have enough value?
Am I coming across as a provider type and then when girls see this shit, they are surprised?
Do girls (my leads) not feel "special" when they see this?
Should I just put girls when I am having a normal dinner with them? Just "passive" pre-selection and social proof?
TLDR: Putting girls on my social media hurting my game with most of girls, some girls' attraction towards me goes up, but don't know how to deal with this. Should I just quit social media and stop?
Is it over-gaming and killing comfort level to the point that a girl doesn't feel safe meeting me again?
Maybe I was a dumbfuck, but I had a girl with a nice booty and I just put a snapchat story of her naked ass with panties on.
I captioned it something along the lines of "she says she squats" and I was tapping her ass slightly.
After putting this on my story, I had couple girls just unfriending me on snapchat, stopped checking my story or when I message some of those who still check my story later, they just don't respond or respond in one words...
On the other hand, I had few girls whose interest actually "sparked" after this, couple sorority girls...
This human nature/psychology shit is really interesting to me...
How the F does Dan Bilzerian or other high-status celebs do it?
He still does these shit and get laid...Do I just not have enough value?
Am I coming across as a provider type and then when girls see this shit, they are surprised?
Do girls (my leads) not feel "special" when they see this?
Should I just put girls when I am having a normal dinner with them? Just "passive" pre-selection and social proof?
TLDR: Putting girls on my social media hurting my game with most of girls, some girls' attraction towards me goes up, but don't know how to deal with this. Should I just quit social media and stop?
"Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner."
- Heat
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