[bgbusiness]

Can explicit pre-selection hurt my chance w/ a girl?
Is it over-gaming and killing comfort level to the point that a girl doesn't feel safe meeting me again?

Maybe I was a dumbfuck, but I had a girl with a nice booty and I just put a snapchat story of her naked ass with panties on.
I captioned it something along the lines of "she says she squats" and I was tapping her ass slightly.

After putting this on my story, I had couple girls just unfriending me on snapchat, stopped checking my story or when I message some of those who still check my story later, they just don't respond or respond in one words...

On the other hand, I had few girls whose interest actually "sparked" after this, couple sorority girls...
This human nature/psychology shit is really interesting to me...

How the F does Dan Bilzerian or other high-status celebs do it?
He still does these shit and get laid...Do I just not have enough value?
Am I coming across as a provider type and then when girls see this shit, they are surprised?
Do girls (my leads) not feel "special" when they see this?
Should I just put girls when I am having a normal dinner with them? Just "passive" pre-selection and social proof?

TLDR: Putting girls on my social media hurting my game with most of girls, some girls' attraction towards me goes up, but don't know how to deal with this. Should I just quit social media and stop?

[LINUX]

I don't know what you mean by pre-selection but as far as them going cold on you by posting other women in their underwear, of course, it's going to happen.

When jealousy kicks in, the natural emotion is to walk away, instead of thinking that maybe you aren't good enough. Jealousy is also a natural trait, dogs feel it when you pet another dog more than them, and no one taught them how to feel jealous, it's just nature.

Women feel it. And men sure as hell feel it too. People who are very lonely and broken, feel it a bit more than someone who has options.

The Dan Bilzerian thing isn't real life. How does he get away with it -- by picking women who want exposure to 23 million followers.

I do post women on my social media also but I'm probably not going for the same type of women as you. The girls who follow me are down with the things I do, and I'm down with the things they do -- no judgment. If I wanted to please the most people and collect the most followers, I would have a bland innocent social media account with a neutral interest like traveling or fitness, with no women in their underwear, but that's not what I'm going after. I don't know how this relates to snapchat since I've never used it but I'm sure you can figure out a way to relate it.

[Fightersword]

I think you're focusing on the negative part of this too much. That sounds like a fine result to me.

You sparked interest in a few sorority girls, and some others unfriended you. If the sorority interest gets carried into lays, it doesn't matter if some leads dropped due to it.

Think of it like this, the girls turned away by it probably weren't going to be successful leads anyway if they were so easily turned away, so you sacrificed some of your cards to makes some other ones better.

I mean hell, they could've already lost interest in you and just decided to unfriend you when they saw a new post, and if they thought it was disgusting or whatever they weren't gonna bang you anyway.

Danny-boy is a special case. Don't compare yourself to him.

[Jetset]

Do what you want. There's nothing wrong with this. Some plates will get dropped and broken.

However, I think you're going to spike interest a lot more by showing off a female "friend" enjoying an enviable lifestyle moment with you. Even if it's just somebody's leg in heels with a martini glass, then their hamster can go into overdrive trying to decide whether or not this mystery woman is a threat and if they need to blow you more often to get themselves into that picture.

I've posted about this before, but I've had women change their entire demeanor to submission when I tell a story about opening a bottle of wine with a vague, gender-nonspecific "friend". You can hear the gears grinding if you do this right. "Wait, it had to be a woman. Did he fuck her? Was she important? Where is she now? Are her tits bigger than mine? Do they still talk? I don't know. I can't ask or I'll look crazy! Oh God, I'll bet everybody else gives him anal and that's still not good enough."

Whip out your phone and show her a picture of this broad sucking your dick and that spell is broken. Keeping some blanks for her to fill in also teaches her that you're discrete and won't tell all her friends how much she likes to get choked out with your belt.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

(01-20-2018 06:52 PM)bgbusiness Wrote:  

After putting this on my story, I had couple girls just unfriending me on snapchat, stopped checking my story or when I message some of those who still check my story later, they just don't respond or respond in one words...

On the other hand, I had few girls whose interest actually "sparked" after this, couple sorority girls...
This human nature/psychology shit is really interesting to me...

How the F does Dan Bilzerian or other high-status celebs do it?
He still does these shit and get laid...Do I just not have enough value?
Am I coming across as a provider type and then when girls see this shit, they are surprised?
Do girls (my leads) not feel "special" when they see this?
Should I just put girls when I am having a normal dinner with them? Just "passive" pre-selection and social proof?

TLDR: Putting girls on my social media hurting my game with most of girls, some girls' attraction towards me goes up, but don't know how to deal with this. Should I just quit social media and stop?

When you say pre-selection in this context it rather means a form of passive pre-selection of girls who are interested in your online profile.

There are active forms of pre-selection when you for example do Daygame and become acutely tuned into recognizing female state and behavior - you select a girl who seems to have time, who is possibly in her fertile stage and longing for dick (visible sometimes by the way she dresses, her makeup, how she looks around and walks) etc. You can even select girls on the ones who usually go for you. Thus when you approach only women like that, then your chances based on your experience are maximized so that you can get the most numbers and finally bangs out of the least approaches.

Passive pre-selection that happens depending on your public persona. Dan Bilzerian has a certain lifestyle and his exploits are in the public life - the girls he shacks up with are highly pre-selected:

+ star-fuckers
+ Instagram beauties
+ Instagram escorts who may or may not fuck Bilzerian for free (they can get added business just by being on his Instagram - there are rich men contacting every girl who pops up on Bilzerian's account)
+ girls who want to have fun and have zero qualms about getting her face and tits plastered all over the internet
+ girls who want to get rich no matter what - even if Bilzerian does not pay them, hanging around rich people will get you in contact with other ones
+ usually the women he has there have huge tits, huge asses, are well-worn seasoned carousel sluts

What you don't see on his site are actresses, models who may gobble lots of dick too, but don't want her parents to see it all online (or have it heavily implied by posting next to Bilzerian). You also won't see the glorious pretty or beautiful young girls who may occasionally want some adventure, but who usually desire simply a good solid life.

So essentially Bilzerian has an enormous pre-selection with a huge number of girls never wanting to get near him and his Instagram persona. Some of the selection is highly helpful since all feminists and SJWs won't go near him.

You get this:


Instead of this:





There are guys out here who even design their Instagram so as to appeal to the highest number of girls - and also various types of girls.

Your booty-video slants your selection towards the Bilzerian crowd, thus no surprise that party-loving cock-hopping sorority girls would be into it while girls who might have fancied you as potential boyfriend were no longer into that. In addition you may also lose girls who don't want their asses plastered on the net after they have fucked you.

As Jetset put it - alluding to something is probably the better option since most men don't have the money-fame-appeal of Bilzerian to catch all the Instagram rifraff out there that men without millions cannot get.

Ah - one thing - there are even rich Instagram men beyond 55 (still in shape) who post zero pictures of girls, just them on luxury travels across the world - those men get approached about the same as Bilzerian - dozens of 8+ girls are commenting on his posts because they want to get paid by him for sex. In a way it's similar to a whore picking the man she wants (or at least tolerates) to fuck - thinking that he is still bangable while making dough. I am sure that this even would not work if the man was otherwise fat, disgusting etc. (or he would get bottom-barrel interest)