[trust_ted]

So, I'm balls to the walls in university work in a major west coast city.

Don't have much time for thots, but maybe I'm making excuses.

Regardless, this is the last time in my life I'll realistically be surrounded by so many girls my own age.


What compromise should I make between studies and thottery?

[Jetset]

Fuck bitches, get money.

[RatInTheWoods]

Allocate 10 hours a week for love.

You need time for fun, to thrive and succeed at work and study.

[The Alpha Virgin]

Many girls on an engineering college?

I don't know. Sounds like BS to me unless you're into that chemical field. The most knowledgeable and skilled woman I ever met at engineering college was a 50-year-old trans dude with balls who used to put make up on to look like a woman. And the only real girls I saw had small tits, were kinda shy and not really the type of girls you easily sleep around with. The parties used to be a sausage fest for incels and nothing like that kind of shit you seen in Hollywood movies like American Pie where everyone is sleeping around.

Maybe you could try and find a wife there or try and build connections which could land you a decent job in the future, focus on that. In my experience engineer girls tend to be very nice and polite (perhaps a bit boring, but if you're the kind of stereotype introverted boring engineer too, that would work, right?). Or just plan to have a few nights a month where you roll out at the night clubs and hit on girls.

I think you'd be silly to go on college parties and shit though considering the horrible ratios. On the other hand, you see some nice girls there it wouldn't be hard at all to stand out among a bunch of autistic engineers.

[trust_ted]

Haha Alpha, my bad. I'm not at an engineering college, I'm merely at a normal college (~20,000 students), majoring in engineering.

Yeah, there aren't many girls in my major, and the ones that are have princess mentality (go figure, 90% guys in the major kissing their ass).

You reckon this is a good time to find a wife? (Given its a west coast college and all). That strategy would probably involve joining Christian clubs or something.

[King of Monkeys]

I'd recommend taking classes outside of engineering to meet more people. The thing about engineering classes is they're almost purely going to lecture then leaving, unless you've also got a laboratory class as well. I'd suggest taking a one or two elective classes if you can afford to. I've been taking a non-music major singing class, and I've also taken an acting and an improv class. The ratios for guys to gals is usually a lot better, but it's often a mixed bag of hot, average, and below average looking girls.

Or you could find a club or some kind of coed sports thing that meets once a week. Any class or activity where socializing with everyone is encouraged is what you want to look for.

[Jetset]

King of Monkeys is giving legit advice. I wouldn't compromise your degree program to be around more women, but definitely look for coed activities for your spare time and also to round out your background. To the extent you need non-STEM electives, use those.

[bootyhuntah]

My advice? Coming from someone who was in your shoes almost 15 years ago...

Option A: Once you're able to do a co-op or internship rotation, take that opportunity and apply to and interview for as many as you can in your area. Get a decent suit you cheap skate. Or buy a cheap one and have it tailored. Usually during the end of sophomore year is when you can start applying.

It will be good for a few reasons. Depending on where you get in, you can pull in anywhere from $15-40/hr working as a co-op student, while living on campus, but not having any exams or homework to worry about. Gets you $$$, experience (this is great for resume once you're nearing graduation and want to put yourself in a good position to make bank with a solid company if that's the route you want to go), and you can ball out (sushi dates, affording good drugs/alcohol, buying decent clothes, weekend getaways with a lady, etc.) without worrying about going broke. Or you can just bank cash and live frugally while still gaming and doing cheap dates.

Do day-gaming on campus on weekends with your free time. You can party your ass off on the weekends (and during the week, just set at least 2 alarms to wake up) too without having to worry about homework or having to go to the library.

Just make sure you get yourself to work on time on Monday and during the rest of the work week and actually produce while you're there or they will fire your sorry ass, and/or disinvite you from coming back the next rotation...

Option B: Look into study abroad programs to fulfill those humanities requirements if you've been able to bank some decent cash from your internship/co-op. Think something along the lines of Baroque architecture classes, Russian folklore, or whatever the hell they're teaching now that you're into and cute chicks like. Most study abroad programs are like 5:1 girls to guys, just sayin...

Option C: Probably the least responsible option, but still likely a lot of fun. Move to the beach for the summer to a known party town with other young people and rent a party house with some of your crazy buddies and work a shitty job or sell weed or something to get by and bang sluts who are there to party too. I didn't do that but some of my good friends did and they absolutely killed it.

[Stealth]

Also one thing to be aware of are the pros/cons of dating girls who are studying engineering. While there are the occasional hot ones, and being surrounded by beta orbiters means that awareness and average game can often pull them, be in mind that success doesn't mean just getting the girl, it also often results in no shortage of passive-aggressive hate and jealousy from the other orbiter guys.

Now while normally I wouldn't care (every hot girl in non-poosy paradises has orbiters), in this case these guys can often give you great hookups for jobs/insider info/networking during school/after graduation/later career, which given the big picture may be scarcer than pussy.

I say this having been on both sides of the fence during undergrad (got the girl, pissed off the guys) and postgrad (classmates helped me unfuck my career, and I got laid from outside sources).