[xxx]

Does knowing too much much about women make it impossible to fall in love? I've cared deeply about some girls I've dated, which you can call love, but I haven't been 'in love' in what seems like a century. I rather cared about them like you care for your little sister, rather than respecting them in any way.

I remember in my late teens, love felt truly wonderful. Of course it didn't last very long, but I don't want it to last, I just want to feel that infatuation again.

Women seem so pedestrian nowadays... they have no mystique, no charm, I see what they're going to do 10 moves before they do it.

[realologist]

You deeply you care for women you're banging like you care for a sister...



If you aren't a troll, what you are experiencing is normal. Don't expect to click and love a chick that often but if you are dating enough chicks you should run into some girls that you have some love for at least every couple years.

[Mercenary]

"A man is given the choice between loving women and understanding them."

Ninon de L'Enclos

[LINUX]

Having women hasn't prevented me from falling in love.

But a lifetime of options has prevented me from sacrificing what it takes to remain in love.

I also do not believe that men can understand women completely since the feminine is not a logical concept. It's irrational and ever-changing, the people who do get it, don't get it because they understand women, they get it because the accept the feminine and don't get frustrated when things are illogical. Of course you can understand a few aspects of the feminine like; seeking attention, desiring to maintain social relationships, changing their mind rapidly, etc, but as a whole, the feminine just can't not be understood; It can only be accepted. And when you do accept it, you get to choose how it will effect you.

The mind is a reflex organ, with millions and millions of synapses and connections determined by all sorts of stimulus. You can have the most perfect women in front of you, someone who gets all the checks on all your boxes, but there is no guarantee, as perfect as she is, that her love toward you will remain the same tomorrow nor your love toward her. And that's just a fact of life. So we make the best memories that we can and accept the uncertainty.

[meetjoeblack]

(12-07-2017 08:30 PM)xxx Wrote:  

Does knowing too much much about women make it impossible to fall in love? I've cared deeply about some girls I've dated, which you can call love, but I haven't been 'in love' in what seems like a century. I rather cared about them like you care for your little sister, rather than respecting them in any way.

I remember in my late teens, love felt truly wonderful. Of course it didn't last very long, but I don't want it to last, I just want to feel that infatuation again.

Women seem so pedestrian nowadays... they have no mystique, no charm, I see what they're going to do 10 moves before they do it.

We are both plagued by the gay male feminist tag in our side panels #UGH!

Have you read "A New Earth" by Ecky?

He speaks of a Spanish word for love and I love you. One meaning rarely used which he says is the portrayal thereof a lack of actual IN LOVE.

Mate, I am 30. I've never been in love EVER. I've liked women. I fell in love with my first ever gf or so, I had thought. She was blonde, beautiful, and extremely manipulative to the point I was clueless. It was not love.

Look, if you were born at the top of the dominance hierarchy, old money, really good looking, tall, huge porn star dick, and an abundance of talent; how hard would it be to find a wife? Leonardo Dicaprio is running through models. Any man with that bank, social status, and amount of options refrains from monogamy. Now, if you are on the bottom of the dominance hierarchy, you are basically clinging to scraps like a dog. If born with a facial disfigurement, low IQ, poor, broke ass, shitty genetics and aesthetics, etc. how do you think one fairs in the dating market?

I've realized as I got older that, if a woman loves you, very little else matters. The thing is that, a woman's love in this day and age is very floating. Hypergamy is what most women love. Men hold hope that one will love him despite his flaws and insecurities and she will be attractive and not a whore. Not been what I have seen nor am accustomed too.

Those laws about going first are true. Give love. Get love. Put self out. Do your best.

[xxx]

(12-08-2017 12:02 AM)LINUX Wrote:  

Having women hasn't prevented me from falling in love.

But a lifetime of options has prevented me from sacrificing what it takes to remain in love.

I also do not believe that men can understand women completely since the feminine is not a logical concept. It's irrational and ever-changing, the people who do get it, don't get it because they understand women, they get it because the accept the feminine and don't get frustrated when things are illogical. Of course you can understand a few aspects of the feminine like; seeking attention, desiring to maintain social relationships, changing their mind rapidly, etc, but as a whole, the feminine just can't not be understood; It can only be accepted. And when you do accept it, you get to choose how it will effect you.

The mind is a reflex organ, with millions and millions of synapses and connections determined by all sorts of stimulus. You can have the most perfect women in front of you, someone who gets all the checks on all your boxes, but there is no guarantee, as perfect as she is, that her love toward you will remain the same tomorrow nor your love toward her. And that's just a fact of life. So we make the best memories that we can and accept the uncertainty.

That's a way of saying that you don't understand women. They have behavioral patterns, just like chimpanzees, and are predictable. As far as her loving you? That's a funny one. Women love your emotional strength and influence/power over others, or what they think you have the potential to be. They can never love you like you can or could love them.

Lucky you, ignorance is bliss while it lasts.

[Suits]

10/10 thread title.

[blck]

(12-07-2017 11:02 PM)Mercenary Wrote:  

"A man is given the choice between loving women and understanding them."

Ninon de L'Enclos

This is so true that it hurt and if you read enough manosphere writing there is a striking fact about this:
"Men either fuck women or try to understand them" and usually women would die without a second thought for the first and kill the latter remorselessly.

[droughtmeat]

Yes, I agree that knowing too much prevents me fall falling in love. But in my case it's mainly because imo man - woman relationships tend to get worse over time, unlike other relationships. I feel as though romantic relationships "peak" pretty early and it's very difficult to maintain the high level of excitement you get at the beginning of a relationship and after a certain point everything becomes predictable.

I'm at a stage where I can truly appreciate women and can view some of them as beautiful creatures, but my "knowledge" will always stop me from falling in love and I can't fool myself into loving girls.

[Cane Toad]

(12-08-2017 10:02 AM)droughtmeat Wrote:  

I'm at a stage where I can truly appreciate women and can view some of them as beautiful creatures,

[DraperJ.hank]

Im parafracing but Patrice Oneal said something like:
Only love a girl 80%, Leave 10% for yourself and 10% so you can fuck her properly

[droughtmeat]

Hahaha thanks for the support

[meetjoeblack]

(12-07-2017 08:30 PM)xxx Wrote:  

Does knowing too much much about women make it impossible to fall in love? I've cared deeply about some girls I've dated, which you can call love, but I haven't been 'in love' in what seems like a century. I rather cared about them like you care for your little sister, rather than respecting them in any way.

I remember in my late teens, love felt truly wonderful. Of course it didn't last very long, but I don't want it to last, I just want to feel that infatuation again.

Women seem so pedestrian nowadays... they have no mystique, no charm, I see what they're going to do 10 moves before they do it.

There is a chance. I've seen quite a bit of female nature spamming cold approach since 2009 having read the Game, taken the red pill, and unplugged form the Matrix.

I posted a thread about the past. About shedding my beta male provider genes which is a constant on going battle. One that I could easily fall back into like any other man if I didn't stay on my purpose, live at my edge, and keep my eye on the prize.

I remember being 15/16, a girl grabbed IT, and laughed in my face. I think I might have just hit puberty around the time. A real late bloomer. I didn't get what she thought was funny until I measured. I felt shame, embarrassment, and like I had gotten beaten up. I didn't think about the fact she was a huge slut, that her rep was ruined, that she left school because she was a whore, and fisted at 16. But imagine now, trying to esculate with girls after? Imagine beta male provider genes? Imagine the first shot women take at you when things end or don't workout?

Fast forward to the present day. Spam cold approach everywhere. Talk to everyone. Make friends with guys. Pull girls. Number flakes or a girl ghosts, NEXT SET! Wash/Rinse/Repeat! A girl ghosts me, without a doubt, she is banging a series of men or is hooking up with another guy. When she starts calling again, she got chucked, and is looking to fallback on a guy. This is female nature.

Society promotes fat is beautiful, anti slut shame - essentially a piss poor attempt to mitigate declining sexual market value. Hollywood also is pushing this cuck fest with tv shows like Breaking bad/HIMYM/SHameless/Stranger Things/House of cards whereby Male lead is cucked by the woman. Hollwood is attempting to normalizing cucking. Society is pedaling that it doesn't matter how high her kill count is and of course raising the alpha male's children with a single mom when SMV has cratered, when playboy stops calling, and the BULKING SEASOn has kicked off.


Reflecting back, a girl emasculates me laughing in my face grabbing it as a teen. In 2017, I was getting a throater by a girl age 21. Another college girl, I picked up at the gym, finger banged her in a parking lot, got head, doggy style banged, and nutted on her face and in her mouth. Its fucked how far I've gone from the hungry don't get fed to SNL/ONS bar pull. Meanwhile, more guys my age are cucks raising babies with a hog of a wife after years of skiing down cawk mountain.

As for love, I've met a couple girls throughout my life that I could love though, I've never been in love. I thought I was in my teens but, it was infatuation. TS, the only way I would fall in love with a woman at this point is TOP FORM SMV, thin/young/attractive 18-23. At the very least, the early side of her 20s, no LTR ambiguity, cucking or weirdness. Otherwise, my genes will be weeded out of existence.