Quote: (12-06-2016 06:45 PM)zphyer7 Wrote:
Time to move on buddy. If she really wanted to meet you I can guarantee she wouldn't have flaked in the first place. If it was Brad Pitt you think she would have canceled?
I appreciate the sentiment, and ive heard the same thing in many threads in this forum.
But i think its irrelevant. Hes not Brad Pitt. And neither are we.
I dont expect to be treated like Brad Pitt by girls neither do i want to be.
If i have to work harder to get a girl in bed, thats just the way it is.
Sometimes it means chasing, making the extra effort, etc...
Now i totally agree with chasing other girls, etc.... but, you can do both. I agree on having 0 investment in the girl and the outcome, but many times in these positions, i think the smart thing to do is:
"Now that were in this position, whats the best way to get the result we want?"
If you delete nb/next/whatever, 0 percent chance of getting what you want (excluding the NC where shes possible to contact u herself)
If i have to keep the conversation going and ask again later, its no big deal.
My ego doesnt depend on the girl saying yes or no, nor does it depend on anything she does.
Ive nexted plenty of girls, but ive persisted with plenty as well. And it can get results. A few lines on whatsapp take like 10 seconds from my day.
I was in Romania this september and i met this girl my 2nd night there. Kept trying to get her out for 10 days straight. She was saying she cant but she was replying. SHe finally came over to my place 2 hours before i had to leave.
Did i waste my days on her? No, just threw out some messages every day. Maybe 1 minute a day was spent on her. Did i stop chasing other girls? No. Was my ego ever on the balance because of a random girl i met a week before? Hell no.