I didn't want to derail or distract from another thread, and I don't know that I'm the only one that might have this stumbling block.
This post is a little long in the tooth, I just want to make clear what this thread is about.
Most of the time when I meet up with a woman, I go with the flow, and just enjoy myself. I've also got quite a few 'go to' phrases, jokes, and statements as part of my script with women, and so far most of them have been (or seemed to be) effective.
But there are a few statements that I'd like to incorporate into my script. A sentence or two that conveys what I need it to, without fumbling for the right words. A line or statement that I can ingrain into my script that takes my mind out of not only how to say it right, but how it might be perceived.
A sentence that will give me maximum returns on that specific topic.
For example:
While telling a woman the above can make their 'ginas tingle (and I've used the second bold one with success), my dilemma is that some women can be skiddish with that statement. As one chick will love the idea of my blasting inside her, another won't be too keen on it (and doesn't want to get pregnant).
Here's the catch. I've had a vasectomy, so my getting a chick pregnant is off the table.
Conversely, some chicks are more open to banging raw if they know they can't get pregnant, while others can be apprehensive about closing, because it couldn't possibly lead to "us" having kids together.
A brief example of a typical conversation I might have:
Her: "Do you have kids ?"
Me: "Yeah, three."
Her: "Oh, that's cool. I've got (X)." or "Cool. I've got X brothers and/or sisters."
Me (depending on the numbers): "Yeah, I can't imagine (>3), three was enough for me." or "My ex and I stopped at three, because (insert game show reference)."
Her: "What do you mean ?"
Me: "I had a vasectomy. Wearing that cone around my neck was a pain, though."
Her: "Lol you're funny. You should come over and fuck me until you fill my pussy up." or "That's too bad, I wanted to fuck you until I found out you couldn't knock me up. Bye."
*(Those last ones were extreme, but I've gotten responses ranging all over the spectrum).
The potential problem I see with my example above is that it comes across somewhat 'beta', or that I'm seeking her approval or trying to qualify myself.
My post/thread isn't so much wanting to 'cater' to chicks, but I also don't want to 'trick' a woman. I'd rather she know before the bang that there's no chance of procreation. This can work both ways, could be a turn off, but can also seal the deal.
The raw (pun intended) numbers are there. Out of all the notches over the past thirteen months, only two asked me to wear a rubber (and one put that to the wayside after a couple of bangs). And all of them are/were aware pre-bang that I'm fixed.
I'm trying to come up with a smooth, one sentence version of a combination of the bold in the quote above, and my history of dialogue regarding this topic. Ideally it'd be a line that I'd use when there's a sense of whether or not that could be the determining factor.
Best I've got so far:
- "I'd have my vasectomy reversed just to pass our genetics on to our children".
- "I want to fuck you until my vasectomy wears off just so you can have my babies."
I'm hoping the members here can help me polish one of those lines up and make it smoother, or come up with something entirely different that conveys the same thing.
Not sure if this will take off as an ongoing thread, but I'm looking forward to reading the responses.
This post is a little long in the tooth, I just want to make clear what this thread is about.
Most of the time when I meet up with a woman, I go with the flow, and just enjoy myself. I've also got quite a few 'go to' phrases, jokes, and statements as part of my script with women, and so far most of them have been (or seemed to be) effective.
But there are a few statements that I'd like to incorporate into my script. A sentence or two that conveys what I need it to, without fumbling for the right words. A line or statement that I can ingrain into my script that takes my mind out of not only how to say it right, but how it might be perceived.
A sentence that will give me maximum returns on that specific topic.
For example:
Quote: (05-15-2017 11:47 PM)Oilrig Wrote:
I like to run passionate intense Latino game. I'll tell girls all kinds of crazy shit on the first date: I'll tell them I'm going to get them pregnant, I'll be their sugar daddies, I'm going to wife them up, cum in their pussy raw etc. Girls LOVE this, very few guys talk to them like this. Girls love the passion and he intensity.
While telling a woman the above can make their 'ginas tingle (and I've used the second bold one with success), my dilemma is that some women can be skiddish with that statement. As one chick will love the idea of my blasting inside her, another won't be too keen on it (and doesn't want to get pregnant).
Here's the catch. I've had a vasectomy, so my getting a chick pregnant is off the table.
Conversely, some chicks are more open to banging raw if they know they can't get pregnant, while others can be apprehensive about closing, because it couldn't possibly lead to "us" having kids together.
A brief example of a typical conversation I might have:
Her: "Do you have kids ?"
Me: "Yeah, three."
Her: "Oh, that's cool. I've got (X)." or "Cool. I've got X brothers and/or sisters."
Me (depending on the numbers): "Yeah, I can't imagine (>3), three was enough for me." or "My ex and I stopped at three, because (insert game show reference)."
Her: "What do you mean ?"
Me: "I had a vasectomy. Wearing that cone around my neck was a pain, though."
Her: "Lol you're funny. You should come over and fuck me until you fill my pussy up." or "That's too bad, I wanted to fuck you until I found out you couldn't knock me up. Bye."
*(Those last ones were extreme, but I've gotten responses ranging all over the spectrum).
The potential problem I see with my example above is that it comes across somewhat 'beta', or that I'm seeking her approval or trying to qualify myself.
My post/thread isn't so much wanting to 'cater' to chicks, but I also don't want to 'trick' a woman. I'd rather she know before the bang that there's no chance of procreation. This can work both ways, could be a turn off, but can also seal the deal.
The raw (pun intended) numbers are there. Out of all the notches over the past thirteen months, only two asked me to wear a rubber (and one put that to the wayside after a couple of bangs). And all of them are/were aware pre-bang that I'm fixed.
I'm trying to come up with a smooth, one sentence version of a combination of the bold in the quote above, and my history of dialogue regarding this topic. Ideally it'd be a line that I'd use when there's a sense of whether or not that could be the determining factor.
Best I've got so far:
- "I'd have my vasectomy reversed just to pass our genetics on to our children".
- "I want to fuck you until my vasectomy wears off just so you can have my babies."
I'm hoping the members here can help me polish one of those lines up and make it smoother, or come up with something entirely different that conveys the same thing.
Not sure if this will take off as an ongoing thread, but I'm looking forward to reading the responses.
