Is it possible to get into a Christian girls pants?
09-07-2011, 03:52 PM
Most of the other posters have made some great points. I'll add a few things.
1. SOCIAL CIRCLE. As was said earlier, you'll have to take the social circle angle. You'll have to go to a few of these meetings, get to know the group, make the group comfortable with you, and observe and understand the dynamics of the group members. After you've been to a few meetings and the group is comfortable with you, push for everyone to go out together after a meeting. By 'go out' I don't mean the club or bar. I mean go to a coffee shop, ice cream, a park/lake, someone's apt to watch a movie, etc. These will be situations where people will loosen up, you can crack jokes, and you can start zeroing in on your prey.
2. Evangelical Christianity is based around redemption. Redemption and second chances are a huge theme, so use it to your advantage. It's good to come with a 'former bad boy, dark and haunted past' vibe. Girls in the group will take notice and will be more curious about you than the choirboy choads who are super nice guys. I unknowingly took this angle before and got success in a Christian group. Curiosity leads to temptation for these girls...so be different from all the other guys in the group.
3. Intel on the girls
Spot the girls that you want to go after. When you small talk with them at meetings ask them "So when did you come to Christ or the church?" (I'm assuming an evangelical Christian church and setting).
If she says, "I came from a very Christian family and church and the faith has always been important to us, so I accepted Christ when I was six. We've always been involved in missions trips, retreats, etc." you should move on. The younger she was when she made her conversion, the higher chance that she has been conditioned to view sex and sexual feelings as very bad. There is a huge feeling of guilt with sex, masturbation, and horniness in these specific girls. They are the ones most likely to be on the 'no sex before marriage' tip.
*HOWEVER, if she is a preacher/pastor's daughter then feel her out a little bit more. To an extent, it is true what they say about preacher/pastor's daughters. But not all of them will be secret freaks. So feel her out by asking her about her favorite types of music, places she wants to travel to, her experience growing up with parent as pastor, what she likes to do for fun, etc. Especially ask her if she likes to go to clubs/bars to hang out and dance. If she says yes to that, there is a good chance she's a secret freak.
If the girl says, "I came to Christ/the church in high school/college" then keep gaming and focus on her. This means that before her conversion, she had normal feelings about sex and being horny. She's had sex before and it's felt good to her, so you won't be dealing with a crazy person who's been conditioned to associate sex with guilt and horror. There's a chance she may be a reformed slut trying to turn good. When you ask her questions, look for commonalities. And slyly ask her about her time in high school or college before her conversion. You'll be able to get a good feel if she was a wild child. So concentrate on girls who didn't convert until later in life.
4. Screening. A phrase that I've used before to screen hardcore Christian chicks for freakiness is: "I believe in all our main beliefs and I have great faith...I just don't agree with some of the rules" (I used to be heavily involved in the church and still believe much of the main stuff, so this phrase is actually true for me.) Stare into her eyes when you say this. She'll be able to tell what you mean by the rules (no sex before marriage/monogamy/etc). Some super hardcore chicks will turn cold after you say this. Forget them and move on. Some hardcore chicks will smile and tell you "I totally understand and can relate. It's hard." She's open to getting tempted and banged by the right dude. Get her number later (away from the eyes and ears of every person in the group). Then start meeting up outside of the group. And treat every other person in the group as a possible snitch who can't be trusted.
*When you start meeting up with her away from the group and you keep your meetings and communication on the DL, she may ask you why the both of you are doing everything secretly and away from everyone. Just tell her "Look, I'm a very private person. I've always been that way. I hope you can respect that." She will.
5. Isolate her from the group! Always try and meetup with her away from the group. At the beginning, don't hold hands or any shit at group meetings that will give away what the both of you. Just give each other looks and smiles at most at the meetings. After a few dates, invite her over to your place to watch a movie. This will be when you test how far she's willing to go at first. Move slowly and try to at least get some making out and some feeling up (remember these are hardcore Christian chicks, so patience). You may be surprised (as I was) and the chick will start getting hot and heavy on you without much pushing (all that pent up and repressed sexual hunger, and she's attracted as fuck to you). If she bites your ear, starts kissing on your neck, anything like that, PUSH ON and go for the fucking bang that night. You'll get some LMR once the clothes come off, but keep pushing. It may take a few hours, but eventually the both of you will end up naked and she'll take your cock inside of her. Make it seems like this rarely ever happens with you (you're trying to stay strong in the faith and all that, remember?) and tell her 'someone hasn't made me feel like this in a long time' and 'I feel such a strong connection with you'. You've got to create some feeling of intimacy with these broads before they'll comfortably let you insert your cock.
6. If the night at your apartment watching a movie doesn't lead to a bang, then be patient.
Don't make a big deal about what happened that night or she may get a huge case of guilt and stop seeing you. Proceed to meetup again at your place. Make sure no roommates are there and meetup around 7:30 or 8. Meeting up early gives you plenty of time to combat LMR (can sometimes be hours with these girls) and it makes sure that she doesn't get tired and just zzzz before the bang. Once you start making your moves and getting hot and heavy, you may have to stop and go quite a few times. Then as you slowly start removing pieces of clothing piece by piece, you may find yourself shirtless for a while as you play around and ramp it up. Then you may find yourself in your boxers for an hour or two as she keeps giving LMR and fighting what she feels. But once you get all the clothes off and slowly get it inside her, you'll feel like a fucking conquistador. Bang her good and encourage her to let go.
Hopefully this helps. Good luck getting the bang with this Christian chick