So I was under emotional distress yesterday morning.
I calmed down and five hours later I said I want to leave the house she said "I'm calling the police" for no reason and she started crying and manipulating the police and when they came the police took a dig and me thinking I was some sort of criminal and was being sarcastic. She definitely lied to the police.
I've never been so embarrassed in my life yesterday and I almost got a criminal record ending my hopes for the future. The police also seemed sarcastic.
Also, my dad phoned my uncle saying "he's going to give the house to my sister" and my uncle said at the Christmas party to my sister why does my dad say that and my other uncles started humiliating me. Why does he do that?
My dad also said "he suffered for me and my sister".
This is totally wrong, he's in charge of his own happiness. My dad:
1) He told my uncles' a few times he's going to give the house to his daughter embarrassing me in front of everyone and humiliating me. Also I believe he did that to spread rumours about me to protect his ego if I failed in life.
2) Whenever something happened on TV, he would turn around and look at me saying "see" in front of everyone. I was so shy and he put me on the spot.
3) He shouted at me harshly when I did not want go to the pub even though I did not want to go to the pub.
4) He would tell me to not to go out, not to even to make friends and stay at home and clean up over the weekend when it was my turn to go out. So every weekend involved staying at home and not going out like over teenagers would do.
5) He would blame me for everything in the house when I was in my early 20s.
6) When I dropped out of uni, he would deliberately ignore me in front of other family members.
7) When I was younger, he would laugh at me when I was reading a book and get angry if I wanted a education book to help me in school-this was incredibly harsh and lowered my self esteem.
8) My mother passed away a long time ago, he does the 'roti' thing manually where he struggles for one hour everyday where he could buy it from the shop at a cheap price and he complains "I'm dying for both of you". It's up to him to make it easier.
9) He put me down when I was in my early 20s which hurt.
10) He would tell me all the time in a harsh way I want you married at 24. And when my sister made trouble, he would say I want you married.
My sister is on high income but she never gives money to him. And I'll give money to him.
He says he's dying for us and we've never helped out but this is so absolutely not true, I've helped out around the chores many times and I'll help him out with income.
Also when I was younger he used to worry a lot who's going to look after him and when my sister goes out a lot he worries what people think of him.
Do you think my dad is manipulating me saying "he's dying for us".
I calmed down and five hours later I said I want to leave the house she said "I'm calling the police" for no reason and she started crying and manipulating the police and when they came the police took a dig and me thinking I was some sort of criminal and was being sarcastic. She definitely lied to the police.
I've never been so embarrassed in my life yesterday and I almost got a criminal record ending my hopes for the future. The police also seemed sarcastic.
Also, my dad phoned my uncle saying "he's going to give the house to my sister" and my uncle said at the Christmas party to my sister why does my dad say that and my other uncles started humiliating me. Why does he do that?
My dad also said "he suffered for me and my sister".
This is totally wrong, he's in charge of his own happiness. My dad:
1) He told my uncles' a few times he's going to give the house to his daughter embarrassing me in front of everyone and humiliating me. Also I believe he did that to spread rumours about me to protect his ego if I failed in life.
2) Whenever something happened on TV, he would turn around and look at me saying "see" in front of everyone. I was so shy and he put me on the spot.
3) He shouted at me harshly when I did not want go to the pub even though I did not want to go to the pub.
4) He would tell me to not to go out, not to even to make friends and stay at home and clean up over the weekend when it was my turn to go out. So every weekend involved staying at home and not going out like over teenagers would do.
5) He would blame me for everything in the house when I was in my early 20s.
6) When I dropped out of uni, he would deliberately ignore me in front of other family members.
7) When I was younger, he would laugh at me when I was reading a book and get angry if I wanted a education book to help me in school-this was incredibly harsh and lowered my self esteem.
8) My mother passed away a long time ago, he does the 'roti' thing manually where he struggles for one hour everyday where he could buy it from the shop at a cheap price and he complains "I'm dying for both of you". It's up to him to make it easier.
9) He put me down when I was in my early 20s which hurt.
10) He would tell me all the time in a harsh way I want you married at 24. And when my sister made trouble, he would say I want you married.
My sister is on high income but she never gives money to him. And I'll give money to him.
He says he's dying for us and we've never helped out but this is so absolutely not true, I've helped out around the chores many times and I'll help him out with income.
Also when I was younger he used to worry a lot who's going to look after him and when my sister goes out a lot he worries what people think of him.
Do you think my dad is manipulating me saying "he's dying for us".
