[Thinking Out Loud]

(07-11-2017 11:58 AM)agskor Wrote:  

(07-11-2017 11:49 AM)Thinking Out Loud Wrote:  

1. Fuck relationships
2. 10 pounds isn't that much, but if it's too much for you, why even fuck her?
3. Just keep fucking her and avoid relationships

I think it's time for you to stop thinking out loudly and start doing the thinking thingy quietly on the inside first

What a nonsense post.

[Steelex]

Losing battle here.

If 10 lbs overweight is why you won't get married, then you don't need to period. Just wait till she gets pregnant, cancer, car accident, older, etcetera.

The truth is that you don't love her, which is the only reason to get married period, and its still a crappy reason at that.

Why did this thread get revived?

[Sebastian]

Pretty immature question to ask. Don't worry I was like this when I was in college.

I am guessing you want to be that narcissistic jerk who can tell women what you don't like about them but still manages to slay after another.

but I am guessing you are not this type since you are asking this question.

If you ask this to girls, they will probably rage and say 'leave her if you can accept who she is'

You are free to do whatever you like. She is too fat to do outdoor activities? leaver her ass home and go outdoor with other chicks.
She is too fat to be seen with you in public? stay home watching netflix with home cooked meal and go out with different girls.

She might want to get in shape to stay with you or figure it's not worth her time getting in shape to be with you.
'I need to shape up to keep up with this guy' Vs 'If I was hotter, I wouldn't date this guy'

[RatInTheWoods]

(07-11-2017 11:36 AM)GreenHills Wrote:  

(07-11-2017 12:33 AM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  

Much easier to find another slimmer woman than to convince her to lose it, and then maintain it off.

Is it? I'm looking for a lifetime partner, wife, however you wanna call it. People on this forum are going all over the globe looking for the same and it doesn't exactly seem easy. I can get a thin woman, but she might be a bitch. Replace her. Another slim woman, but she's addicted to her career. Replace her. A nice woman, but she's a bit overweight. Replace her. etc. etc.

I rather put maximum effort into what I have to work with then restart again on someone with a new set of problems.

You are venturing into Oneitis land here my friend. She is not a special snowflake you have to accept overweight for the rest of your life.

There is another, better, slimmer woman just around the corner, that will make you laugh at the thought you were going to settle for fatty.

And if she's a bit fat now, you can just bet that she will be a lot fatter after the wedding....

[Kynial]

I think it's necessary to say this directly, but try to do it gently. A girl can be offended, but then she will understand what you had in her...