[Vadar]

Hi Guys,

Currently I am sharing a house with 2 other guys and a girl. Usually on the weekend, myself and girl are alone in the house. All of them are my friends, and study the same course as me.

Any idea on how to get the lay from the girl or turn her into a fuck buddy? She does seem pretty sexually adventurous.

I was wondering if this was possible? I wouldn't mind, pushing it a bit haha.

[kinjutsu]

Dont shit where you eat.
There are plenty of better options than fucking a girl that sleeps under the same roof as you do.
Befriend her and date/fuck her friends but she shouldn't even be an option unless you or she is leaving the house in the near future.

As far as i'm concerned fucking chicks you work with = fucking female roommates.
No Bueno.

[Leonard D Neubache]

If you haven't fucked her in the first week you're not fucking her at all.

Nor should you unless you're planning on moving soon.

[Rawmeo]

Unless you're moving in a very near future, do not shit where you eat. If things go sour, you won't feel at home at home.

[Gmac]

(04-28-2017 11:01 PM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:  

If you haven't fucked her in the first week you're not fucking her at all.

Nor should you unless you're planning on moving soon.

Speaking from experience, this couldn't be further from the truth... albeit in my case I knew it was a longshot and she was rare in that we were both cool and low-key afterward.

But I agree with the overall assessment that it's not wise to attempt unless your game is air tight and you're on your way out (or she is). Will only screw up your home-life atmosphere and add potential cockblocking.

[Leonard D Neubache]

I was speaking on the grounds that she was deemed "sexually adventurous".

That term lends itself to my impression that if OP wasn't on the menu from an early stage (and noted no serious IOIs) then it wasn't going to happen.

Good game is always relevant, but guys with good game don't ask about banging their room-mates so I ruled that out.

Added to the fact that there are two other guys in the place, most girls will be less inclined to hook up with one of them because there's no real expectation of privacy and the two being left out are going to look at her like the village bike.

But overall my sense of the situation was a gut call and I'd stick by it.

[Latan]

OP, best way to get her attention is to bring many other sluts "sexually adventurous" at home.
With 3 other room mates, this won't go unnoticed, she'll feel compeled to be the next one to get fucked.

[Slam]

(04-28-2017 08:58 PM)kinjutsu Wrote:  

Befriend her and date/fuck her friends but she shouldn't even be an option unless you or she is leaving the house in the near future.

^ This. Your timeline is a wild card.

If you are stuck in the same place with her for a year, that's different from leaving in a month.

Regardless, I'd try to keep a degree of sexual tension with her... i.e. don't be too friendly.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

(04-29-2017 07:58 AM)Gmac Wrote:  

(04-28-2017 11:01 PM)Leonard D Neubache Wrote:  

If you haven't fucked her in the first week you're not fucking her at all.

Nor should you unless you're planning on moving soon.

Speaking from experience, this couldn't be further from the truth... albeit in my case I knew it was a longshot and she was rare in that we were both cool and low-key afterward.

But I agree with the overall assessment that it's not wise to attempt unless your game is air tight and you're on your way out (or she is). Will only screw up your home-life atmosphere and add potential cockblocking.

I agree. Usually the best is instantly showing interest, starting flirting. You get the bang over with in the first week, then you can move it to something casual.

Since you already started out in the friend-zone/asexual room-mate zone, it would tense things up if you suddenly tried to bang.

However this would be different if you showed interest right away. That way if she said no, you would laugh it off, shake hands and it would be done.

[crispytaco]

Right. You didn't mention if any of you is leaving soon.

[Suits]

OP, what's your notch count?

[RatInTheWoods]

Don't bang the roommate unless she is moving out shortly.

"My friend" really wanted to stress this advice to you, "he" had a very traumatic experience....

[Rekk'd]

After I brought two good looking girls home and one of them moaning so loud the whole apartment could hear her, my female roommate started to hit on me aggressively every time she got drunk. Always wanted my dick after that, and always complimenting my looks, attractiveness, etc.. Hope you got the message!

[XXL]

Behave in a way that implies that there is nonjudgmental atmosphere at the house. What happens here stays here kind of thing.

A lot of it is just how you come across in general day to day. You dont even have to game the girl hard. Just you yourself act sexual. The way to convey sexual intent is to act like you are that secret society guy. This is what she needs to recognize at first. From there you focus on the girl and the FUN.

[Vadar]

Thanks guys! Very informative Not bothering with her. But she is leaving in 2 weeks.

[Snowflake]

If she's leaving soon just go for it.