This post is for the guys who spend a good amount of time in Bangkok but are too busy with their businesses or whatever else to hit the clubs several times a week or pound the pavement during the day.
Or if you just aren't a huge party bar/club type guy, and I certainly am not, this will work for you too.
I imagine this would work well in a few different big cities but I've only verified it in BKK.
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When I first got set up in Bangkok all I had was a shitty $15 nokia phone. All I could do with it was send text messages. But I was banging at least a new a girl a week despite being incredibly busy working on my online biz.
When I finally got an iPhone I got carried away with all the messaging apps. Meanwhile I was spending way too much time getting girls to meet up on my terms.
So I've reverted to my '1.0' system and I'm back to ruthless efficiency.
The problem with smart phones
In a word, fragmentation.
You've got Line, Tinder, WeChat, whatsapp, Viber, and a million other apps. And if you try to follow up with girls on each of these platforms you're going to lose your mind.
It's very inefficient.
Instead, the trick is to harvest phone numbers.
Use all of these platforms to say "hi", have a short back and forth, and go for the number. Don't forget to use DateInAsia.com, Plenty of Fish, ThaiFriendly and other thai dating sites.
As soon as you get a chick's number, send a hello text like "hey cutie, it's Vincent. Talk soon...jub." So when she sees your text later she'll sort of remember who you are.
Mass Texting
Come thursday you send out a mass text to all the girls in your phone. Something like "hey cutie ;-) what's your plan this weekend?"
Avoid committal messages such as "meet for a drink tonight?" because if several girls say yes, and you double or triple book these dates, you run the risk of burning the girls you didn't meet.
It's better to feel them out first. Then you're not extending yourself prematurely.
Anyway, depending on how many numbers you have in your phone, a pattern will emerge. You send out your mass text on Thursday and a few girls might be down to meet that very evening. Several others might be down to meet Saturday or Sunday.
At the very least, they know you're an option. And if you've subtly but clearly indicated your sexual intent with the use of "cutie", "babe", "sexy", "spank", and other sexualized language, she'll know she has a booty call in her pocket for when she's drunk and horny.
I suggest messaging ALL of the girls in your phone, even if you've already received some promising replies. This is basic lead nurturing in the marketing world. Keep your leads warm so that they don't forget who you are or what you're offering.
I don't even bother to delete the girls who don't reply or reply with some kind of rude or dismissive message. I've had girls not reply to a single message of mine for months and then all of a sudden enthusiastically agree to meet me for a drink...at 11pm...near my place.
They're not stupid. They know what I want. It's just a matter of if/when our interests finally align.
If you have the volume, you can easily have a date Thursday, Friday, Saturday and Sunday. And then still have spillover from girls that were busy or out of town who are keen to meet up early next week.
If you follow this system, you're more likely to run out of energy from too much banging before running out of DTF girls.
Why is this system so effective and efficient?
Quick distinction: efficiency is doing something well, even if it's the wrong thing (e.g. trying to message a million girls on all these different apps).
Effectiveness is doing the right thing to begin with, e.g. communicating along an uncluttered medium like text.
The intersection of effectiveness (doing the right thing) and efficiency (doing a thing well) is where the magic happens. (Is there a word for 'efficient effectiveness'?)
So:
1. It's efficient because you're batching.
Instead of interrupting your day to day life to follow up with this girl or that girl, you're doing it all at once, with every girl in your list. You're also giving this one particular task your singular focus.
2. Text messaging is how now become a low signal to noise ratio medium.
Consider this: Everybody's on Line or Whatsapp or whatever other app. You, on the other hand, are cutting right through the noise of every other dude messaging these girls on the apps and going where nobody else is holding her attention. You thus become the equivalent of the annoying internet popup that she can't help but click.
Some girls will be reluctant to give out their numbers, preferring to push you onto Skype or Line instead. Insist on the number and if they refuse, next them.
This system depends on volume and benefits you by wasting as little of your time as possible. If you start making too many exceptions you'll destroy your profit margin in terms of reclaimed free time.
3. You can play a sloppy game thanks to depersonalization and still get the P.
You're not going to remember which girl corresponds with which name in your phone once you have over a hundred numbers. So you can treat every girl the same. This is good, it keeps you objective.
At first I tried to categorize the numbers in my phone and give girls a hotness rating (1 being a 'must bang hottie', 2 being a 'could bang
, and 3 being an 'I'd bang if it were handed to me on a silver platter', e.g. she agrees to come straight over).
But even that fell by the wayside. Because A) pictures aren't necessarily representative of how a girl looks in person and B) there's a chemistry element that you can't quantify beforehand. (See: The Boner Test.)
4. You're not spending hours upon hours on your phone engaging in stupid chit chat with a bunch of unproven prospects, i.e. wasting your time.
You're treating the numbers, in aggregate, like a marketplace, which is in fact what they are.
Some girls are available, some girls aren't. Some girls are newly single, some are newly attached. Some are horny, some are on their period. Some are out of town. Some are lonely, some are out with their friends. Some are drunk, etc.
These are the same girls that at one point want nothing to do with you, and then the next week, through whatever change of circumstances, want to ravenously devour your cock.
If you systematically, consistently put your offer out into the marketplace, some percentage of your leads will probably take the bait at some point.
On that note, remember to switch up the wording of your weekly mass text.
A note on volume
Assuming you're a decent looking white guy and putting that factor aside, your ability to make demands is directly proportional to the volume of girls you've cultivated.
If you have 5 girls in your phone it's unlikely that you'll make outlandish suggestions like "let's meet at the bar near my place at midnight". It's too risky with such a small pool; you have to play more strategically.
But if you have 200 girls in your phone and ask them all to meet you where YOU want, when YOU want, and essentially on your terms, the girls who agree are most certainly going to be DTF.
Logistics
As good as this system is, if you live out in the boonies, it's not going to do you much good. You need to be at least within the city.
I used to live in Ladprao which is a bit out of the way but it also meant that when a girl decided to meet me, she was basically investing so much time and energy to get there that to NOT get the pipe would be a terrible waste. Thai women are practical creatures after all.![[Image: tongue.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/tongue.gif)
Anywhere along the BTS or MRT should be fine. Find a bar near your place, make it your spot, and learn to operate from there. It's also not really necessary to go out of your way to hook up a bartender or door man. You just need a good spot to operate from.
Ideally, a corner table in an airy bar where you can amp up the touching and maybe even get a little naughty before bouncing to your grotto of love.
Now go slay that Thai pizzle.
Questions?
Or if you just aren't a huge party bar/club type guy, and I certainly am not, this will work for you too.
I imagine this would work well in a few different big cities but I've only verified it in BKK.
***
When I first got set up in Bangkok all I had was a shitty $15 nokia phone. All I could do with it was send text messages. But I was banging at least a new a girl a week despite being incredibly busy working on my online biz.
When I finally got an iPhone I got carried away with all the messaging apps. Meanwhile I was spending way too much time getting girls to meet up on my terms.
So I've reverted to my '1.0' system and I'm back to ruthless efficiency.
The problem with smart phones
In a word, fragmentation.
You've got Line, Tinder, WeChat, whatsapp, Viber, and a million other apps. And if you try to follow up with girls on each of these platforms you're going to lose your mind.
It's very inefficient.
Instead, the trick is to harvest phone numbers.
Use all of these platforms to say "hi", have a short back and forth, and go for the number. Don't forget to use DateInAsia.com, Plenty of Fish, ThaiFriendly and other thai dating sites.
As soon as you get a chick's number, send a hello text like "hey cutie, it's Vincent. Talk soon...jub." So when she sees your text later she'll sort of remember who you are.
Mass Texting
Come thursday you send out a mass text to all the girls in your phone. Something like "hey cutie ;-) what's your plan this weekend?"
Avoid committal messages such as "meet for a drink tonight?" because if several girls say yes, and you double or triple book these dates, you run the risk of burning the girls you didn't meet.
It's better to feel them out first. Then you're not extending yourself prematurely.
Anyway, depending on how many numbers you have in your phone, a pattern will emerge. You send out your mass text on Thursday and a few girls might be down to meet that very evening. Several others might be down to meet Saturday or Sunday.
At the very least, they know you're an option. And if you've subtly but clearly indicated your sexual intent with the use of "cutie", "babe", "sexy", "spank", and other sexualized language, she'll know she has a booty call in her pocket for when she's drunk and horny.
I suggest messaging ALL of the girls in your phone, even if you've already received some promising replies. This is basic lead nurturing in the marketing world. Keep your leads warm so that they don't forget who you are or what you're offering.
I don't even bother to delete the girls who don't reply or reply with some kind of rude or dismissive message. I've had girls not reply to a single message of mine for months and then all of a sudden enthusiastically agree to meet me for a drink...at 11pm...near my place.
They're not stupid. They know what I want. It's just a matter of if/when our interests finally align.
If you have the volume, you can easily have a date Thursday, Friday, Saturday and Sunday. And then still have spillover from girls that were busy or out of town who are keen to meet up early next week.
If you follow this system, you're more likely to run out of energy from too much banging before running out of DTF girls.
Why is this system so effective and efficient?
Quick distinction: efficiency is doing something well, even if it's the wrong thing (e.g. trying to message a million girls on all these different apps).
Effectiveness is doing the right thing to begin with, e.g. communicating along an uncluttered medium like text.
The intersection of effectiveness (doing the right thing) and efficiency (doing a thing well) is where the magic happens. (Is there a word for 'efficient effectiveness'?)
So:
1. It's efficient because you're batching.
Instead of interrupting your day to day life to follow up with this girl or that girl, you're doing it all at once, with every girl in your list. You're also giving this one particular task your singular focus.
2. Text messaging is how now become a low signal to noise ratio medium.
Consider this: Everybody's on Line or Whatsapp or whatever other app. You, on the other hand, are cutting right through the noise of every other dude messaging these girls on the apps and going where nobody else is holding her attention. You thus become the equivalent of the annoying internet popup that she can't help but click.
Some girls will be reluctant to give out their numbers, preferring to push you onto Skype or Line instead. Insist on the number and if they refuse, next them.
This system depends on volume and benefits you by wasting as little of your time as possible. If you start making too many exceptions you'll destroy your profit margin in terms of reclaimed free time.
3. You can play a sloppy game thanks to depersonalization and still get the P.
You're not going to remember which girl corresponds with which name in your phone once you have over a hundred numbers. So you can treat every girl the same. This is good, it keeps you objective.
At first I tried to categorize the numbers in my phone and give girls a hotness rating (1 being a 'must bang hottie', 2 being a 'could bang
, and 3 being an 'I'd bang if it were handed to me on a silver platter', e.g. she agrees to come straight over).
But even that fell by the wayside. Because A) pictures aren't necessarily representative of how a girl looks in person and B) there's a chemistry element that you can't quantify beforehand. (See: The Boner Test.)
4. You're not spending hours upon hours on your phone engaging in stupid chit chat with a bunch of unproven prospects, i.e. wasting your time.
You're treating the numbers, in aggregate, like a marketplace, which is in fact what they are.
Some girls are available, some girls aren't. Some girls are newly single, some are newly attached. Some are horny, some are on their period. Some are out of town. Some are lonely, some are out with their friends. Some are drunk, etc.
These are the same girls that at one point want nothing to do with you, and then the next week, through whatever change of circumstances, want to ravenously devour your cock.
If you systematically, consistently put your offer out into the marketplace, some percentage of your leads will probably take the bait at some point.
On that note, remember to switch up the wording of your weekly mass text.
A note on volume
Assuming you're a decent looking white guy and putting that factor aside, your ability to make demands is directly proportional to the volume of girls you've cultivated.
If you have 5 girls in your phone it's unlikely that you'll make outlandish suggestions like "let's meet at the bar near my place at midnight". It's too risky with such a small pool; you have to play more strategically.
But if you have 200 girls in your phone and ask them all to meet you where YOU want, when YOU want, and essentially on your terms, the girls who agree are most certainly going to be DTF.
Logistics
As good as this system is, if you live out in the boonies, it's not going to do you much good. You need to be at least within the city.
I used to live in Ladprao which is a bit out of the way but it also meant that when a girl decided to meet me, she was basically investing so much time and energy to get there that to NOT get the pipe would be a terrible waste. Thai women are practical creatures after all.
Anywhere along the BTS or MRT should be fine. Find a bar near your place, make it your spot, and learn to operate from there. It's also not really necessary to go out of your way to hook up a bartender or door man. You just need a good spot to operate from.
Ideally, a corner table in an airy bar where you can amp up the touching and maybe even get a little naughty before bouncing to your grotto of love.
Now go slay that Thai pizzle.
Questions?
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