[BetaNoMore]

I thought it'd be good to share and brainstorm quick things we can do to spike emotions and elicit attraction. The more experience we get, the more reference points we have to piece together what works. Advanced guys, please chime and correct as you see fit. Here's a few things I've realized:

1. Misinterpret when you can.

Nothing worse than being straight to the point and logical. When she says something, misinterpret it playfully and try to use your creative juices to make it ridiculous and light-hearted.

Ex: girl tells me she was recently living in the wilderness for a month and learned how to do various survival skills like bake muffins without eggs. She also mentioned that here were a lot of wolves. Instead of saying something logical, I told her that I have a few trips too coming up and we care share stories but "I'm not sure I can top taming packs of wild wolves with muffins." I try to be as imaginative as possible now when talking to girls. Keeps me self amused and makes the convo fun.

2. Speak slowly but give off a good vibe

Most of the best players I know speak slowly but not robotically. They give off high energy but are not "hyper." I think this comes with time and needs fine tuning based on your personality.

3. Dress well

It'll take time to develop your style but I just don't see guys kill it if they dress like absolute bums (unless they're physically in the top 5%).

[Dalaran1991]

Roosh should have stickied some of his earlier blog posts. they are the best game-wise

http://www.rooshv.com/7-things-a-guy-can...-right-now

Wont respost it here cause I think Roosh would prefer that people go see for themselves, but really go check out all his blog posts fom 2007-2010 before he got into the political thing.

[lowside]

Immediately? Above points are very good, in addition:

1. Have a straight posture. I see way too many guys walking around with their shoulders hanging in front of them like a zombie. Don't be like that.

2. Have eye contact everywhere. When you're walking to somewhere and you lock eyes with a girl don't look away, instead smile and wink. She'll either look away or smile. In both cases you win.

[Suits]

I've got an idea. You can approach. Right now.

[Vill@in]

First thing I would recommend? LIFT.

Go the gym and start a routine lifting weights. The dividends will pay off in numerous ways. Game wise, you will literally feel better. That will translate into confidence which will make approaching easier.

When you approach that 8, just think: "Bitch I could put you on my back and squat your ass for 50 reps. You don't intimidate me."

[asdfk]

Ignore all internet advice and find a non-natural who can teach. Pay him his fee and have your problem solved

Or approach for a month. Didn't get it yet after making approach after approach in a month? No internet advice is going to help you then. Prepare to put in the time (3-5 years usually).

[whiteknightrises]

Read less

Approach more

Screen more (do things that signal your interest in BANGing her like calling her sexy, putting your hand on her leg, butt, making out, etc - sounds impossible I know but do it)

[Fortis]

Approach. You will learn more about where you stand after a few approaches than you will dressing better.

After a while, your vibe sorta "self-corrects" unless you're autistic as hell like Suits. If you're like suits, then all your approaches are terrible.



But seriously, do the big things you're clearly afraid to do: approach. Push your interactions.

[Chris Brown]

Use ugly girls as a stepping stone.

[Jameson Ranger]

Accept that failure is part of this. In some cases overwhelmingly so. Get over it. Strike out but keep stepping up to the plate. Approach.

[Lawrence of A Labia]

What do you do when you're getting no results in the beginning?

I like Chris brown's answer "use ugly girls as a stepping stone" but it seems like the easier choice and thus counter productive.