Do you really get tired of banging a 9 after a while?
03-17-2017, 06:13 PM
I filter more than anyone I know.
For my last two LTR's, both of which lasted about 3 years, the difference between the first day I fucked them and the last day I fucked them was having sex 4 times on the first day versus 3 times most days in between and on the last day.
Maybe I'm just really into young, 5'2", half-Asian girls that love me and do anything for me, in or out of bed, have small breasts, nice butts, melodic voices, small mouths, perpetual smiles, and faces that could be on the cover of a makeup magazine.
To me, that's a 9 or 10. When they walked in the room, I was instantly aroused, every time. They make my blood pulse, my heartbeat starts accelerating and I just have the urge to dominate them. They would get aroused by how intensely I wanted them and by how I dominated them. My heart is beating faster right now just from my mind wandering back to them.
Whenever I browse over any pics I may still have of either of them, I still get instantly aroused.
Other guys like taller girls with large breasts, that's cool, but neither of those traits is a plus for me, they're both a -1 for me, and I've been with tall girls and girls with C and D cups. I'm very specific about the shoulder-to-hip ratio I like, things like that, if a girl doesn't have wider hips compared to her shoulders, or a very small, beautiful nose, I'm just not attracted.
These two girls not only brought a viselike grip to the table, they also brought a perpetual willingness to please. I mean, they would crack entire bags of pistachios open for me and my apartment would miraculously be clean every time I took a nap.
Life can be really, really, really good with a girl like that, a 9 or 10.
I use a two-tier system to rate girls, 1-10 on looks and 1-10 on values. Let's say one of these girls was a 10 on looks, because they have my ideal type, then if they were a 5 on values (infrequent drama versus zero drama, mood swings, etc.), then they would be a 7.5 to me, for example.
Some guys use a one-tier system, based on looks, but I don't really understand that, because I find it impossible to separate a person's values from the experience of having sex with them. If her values are a 5, you're going to be dealing with drama and mood swings. That lowers your quality of life. If her values are a 1 (a murderer, for example), you may get poisoned, blackmailed, or end up in prison due to false charges of one kind or another.
So, in that sense, did you really sleep with a 9?
It just doesn't make sense to me to give someone a flat rating of, say "10," based solely on looks, unless you're paying to have sex with her and don't interact with her for a single other second. If you interact with her in any way outside the bedroom, you're going to be dealing with her values, and if they are not good, they will affect your life.
Many guys don't get this and they end up not filtering out lots of beautiful women than they would have filtered out had they understood this. They could have dated women just as beautiful, but of a better quality, if they had just understood that values matter.
Of course, if your values are in the gutter, a girl with low values that are still higher than yours might actually bring you up.
So there's that.
But no, I don't get tired of banging 9's.
But IF I banged 9's that were only based on looks...
Then, in that case, I would get tired of banging the ones with shitty values before I even banged them, or as soon as they revealed their negative qualities.