[Menace]

(10-24-2012 10:47 AM)Menace Wrote:  

Alright, I shall do as you suggest EM.

Clearly I got too cocky and careless bc she just texted me claiming age difference was too much and that it's not a good idea to see each other again. Oh well. It was a great learning experience for sure. I did not respond.

[iknowexactly]

(10-24-2012 01:40 AM)1bliss Wrote:  

Sup guys, need a bit of help here.

No one can help you when a girl is not interested.

(10-24-2012 01:40 AM)1bliss Wrote:  

met a girl I know through mutual friends randomly one night out in the town, she was drunk, fully opened up to me and showed me her interest. Asked for my contact info, we continued talking, we hit it off and flirted alot. She came out once, ......

Anyway, I know she is interested and attracted she has told me numerous times,.....

Thoughts?

Why on earth would you believe what a girl tells you verbally? What she says is simply her selfish effort to make the interaction enjoyable for her.

(10-24-2012 01:40 AM)1bliss Wrote:  

This was 1.5 months ago, in that time we tried to set something up every weekend but I flopped once, she flopped a couple times, and the rest we just kind of played the ignoring game,

There is no "we." You tried, and failed because she's not interested. It's not your fault. Womant has many manifestations and only some want to fuck a particular guy at a particular time. Just pick another one.

They are all essentially identical except for minor variations in shape size color and willingness to fuck. They are all the same irrational status seekers.

THE THREE RULES FOR NOT WASTING TIME:

1) Never believe excuses
2) Focus on chicks who physically express interest ( proximity, pupil dilation open posture) and quickly offer isolation to find out fuck-ready chix.
3) Always be opening more chicks.
4) NEVER believe excuses.

[FretDancer]

(10-24-2012 05:35 AM)Blaze Frazier Wrote:  

Samseau, that is gold! I laughed at the 'Bundy' response to your last name.

Haha that Bundy response was pure gold.

[rationalize_this]

Her: Hi, since you haven't contact me, I decided that I'll shoot you one last message. Do you really think I went out until early morning Friday? I wouldn't j eopardize my training for nothing, not even for a f? I just wanted to test you to see how you'll react, but as I thought you didn't even care? i didn't b elieve the fact that you'll leave me to go to work? or I guess you have other priorities? guess what so do I,so let's call it quit? but I doesn't matter we never had anything anyway...

one week later

Her: What are you doing?
Her: It is ok if you are mad!! I just was thinking of you and wanted you to know
Her: I'll be going to Bardot if u want to come. We have to talk

[Matt3B]

Got a monster of a hamster text last night. Went out last Wednesday with this girl for the first time who was a real hard ass with shit tests which I breezed through, and we arranged to meet up again last night for drinks. I changed the plan at about 4pm yesterday afternoon and said we're going to a bar where my mates are for his birthday, she agreed.

Met up, got to the bar, she was laughing at my jokes, holding on to me and kissing me all night. Everyone could tell she really liked me. We all walked to get some food later on and she stopped me in the street away from the others to kiss me etc etc. Anyway, we got to a kebab shop, she ordered a taxi home and I was going to my mate's all confident in the next time we met up I'd get the lay (she invited me over next week when she gets into her new place to cook for me). Her taxi got there, I walked her outside and kissed her before she got in and that was that. 15 minutes later I get this text:

"Just a heads up, don't think we'll be seeing each other again. Let me think on it and I will text you in the week".

I didn't reply.

Half an hour later:

"I just got home. I'm not even going to play games, I don't want to see you again. It was only our second date and it showed no consideration for what I'd like, how I'd feel, getting to know me, doing something nice, making me comfortable and even in the end making sure I was safe - you left me to get a taxi home without even checking I had the money to cover it. Just because you can put on a facade, does not make you a man. A man, alpha, beta, whatever form, still pays attention, puts in effort, protects and provides. You did none of those. Good luck in your search, if this is how you treat women, especially on a second date. I'm not what you're looking for."


Hahaha. Any suggestions of a reply welcome.

[Balkanite]

Don't take the bait, take the high road. Short, quick witty reply

[Matt3B]

Mulling over just replying "okay" unless someone's got something better.

[Menace]

Say nothing. Move on.

[el mechanico]

Her : "I just got home. I'm not even going to play games, I don't want to see you again. It was only our second date and it showed no consideration for what I'd like, how I'd feel, getting to know me, doing something nice, making me comfortable and even in the end making sure I was safe - you left me to get a taxi home without even checking I had the money to cover it. Just because you can put on a facade, does not make you a man. A man, alpha, beta, whatever form, still pays attention, puts in effort, protects and provides. You did none of those. Good luck in your search, if this is how you treat women, especially on a second date. I'm not what you're looking for."


You: Retarded

[MrXY]

"Gay"

[Parlay44]

(11-17-2012 11:41 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Her : "I just got home. I'm not even going to play games, I don't want to see you again. It was only our second date and it showed no consideration for what I'd like, how I'd feel, getting to know me, doing something nice, making me comfortable and even in the end making sure I was safe - you left me to get a taxi home without even checking I had the money to cover it. Just because you can put on a facade, does not make you a man. A man, alpha, beta, whatever form, still pays attention, puts in effort, protects and provides. You did none of those. Good luck in your search, if this is how you treat women, especially on a second date. I'm not what you're looking for."


You: Retarded

She's been reading too much Cosmo.

[Branimir]

These text messages are too hilarious.
Seriously , are american girls THAT damaged?
I can't ever imagine something like this happening with german girls, or even other european chicks.
Sure, some can get quite clingy, but they don't flip the shit out if you play the bad "not giving a fuck" guy.
Maybe I've just too little experience overall but still.

Shit what's happening over there ..

[Samseau]

Quote:

"I just got home. I'm not even going to play games, I don't want to see you again. It was only our second date and it showed no consideration for what I'd like, how I'd feel, getting to know me, doing something nice, making me comfortable and even in the end making sure I was safe - you left me to get a taxi home without even checking I had the money to cover it. Just because you can put on a facade, does not make you a man. A man, alpha, beta, whatever form, still pays attention, puts in effort, protects and provides. You did none of those. Good luck in your search, if this is how you treat women, especially on a second date. I'm not what you're looking for."

Let me guess - she was over age 28.

[Matt3B]

(11-17-2012 07:41 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

Quote:

"I just got home. I'm not even going to play games, I don't want to see you again. It was only our second date and it showed no consideration for what I'd like, how I'd feel, getting to know me, doing something nice, making me comfortable and even in the end making sure I was safe - you left me to get a taxi home without even checking I had the money to cover it. Just because you can put on a facade, does not make you a man. A man, alpha, beta, whatever form, still pays attention, puts in effort, protects and provides. You did none of those. Good luck in your search, if this is how you treat women, especially on a second date. I'm not what you're looking for."

Let me guess - she was over age 28.

22 mate. Feminist which says it all.

[Samseau]

(11-17-2012 07:51 PM)MattC Wrote:  

(11-17-2012 07:41 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

Quote:

"I just got home. I'm not even going to play games, I don't want to see you again. It was only our second date and it showed no consideration for what I'd like, how I'd feel, getting to know me, doing something nice, making me comfortable and even in the end making sure I was safe - you left me to get a taxi home without even checking I had the money to cover it. Just because you can put on a facade, does not make you a man. A man, alpha, beta, whatever form, still pays attention, puts in effort, protects and provides. You did none of those. Good luck in your search, if this is how you treat women, especially on a second date. I'm not what you're looking for."

Let me guess - she was over age 28.

22 mate. Feminist which says it all.

My guess is she was abused as a child

[WesternCancer]

If that were me and I REALLY wanted to bang her and had no other prospects I'd reply with "cool" In this situation its almost an agree and amplify. Shes bitching about how you dont care etc and you reply with nothing but cool meaning you didnt get angry, you didn't try to convince her, you truly don't give a fuck. Like samseau said she was probably abused or had a bunch of shitty relationships. You're obviously turning her on and shes getting scared. Depending on her response just plow through and invite her out again.

[Matt3B]

(11-17-2012 08:03 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  

If that were me and I REALLY wanted to bang her and had no other prospects I'd reply with "cool" In this situation its almost an agree and amplify. Shes bitching about how you dont care etc and you reply with nothing but cool meaning you didnt get angry, you didn't try to convince her, you truly don't give a fuck. Like samseau said she was probably abused or had a bunch of shitty relationships. You're obviously turning her on and shes getting scared. Depending on her response just plow through and invite her out again.

I'll give it a go tomorrow. Got another girl I'm fucking at the moment so I'm not dry and meeting up with some other one next Sunday. Would quite like the lay from this one though...nothing to lose I suppose.

[Matt3B]

Sent her "okay" this morning. She replied 10 minutes later with "okay". Salvageable.

[freshcream]

(11-18-2012 07:13 AM)MattC Wrote:  

Sent her "okay" this morning. She replied 10 minutes later with "okay". Salvageable.

agreed

[xmlenigma]

Even better. Just send a smiley "" Puzzles her brains out.. and then she can sort out in her mind if she is going to follow up on the good times & attraction she felt with you or the DRAMA games that went on in her head about WANTING to FEEL IMPORTANT!

[bojangles]

haha I was out with Matt, her follow up text messages are amazing. hamster wheels spinning at their finest!

[txbeachbum]

(11-18-2012 07:13 AM)MattC Wrote:  

Sent her "okay" this morning. She replied 10 minutes later with "okay". Salvageable.

no no no no no no.....sorry i just saw this thread.

Her: bla bla bla bla, I'm not what you're looking for.
You: You're exactly right

long delay wait for her to reply

Her: right about what exactly?
You: you're not what im looking for
Her: why not?
You : I'm done talking.
Her: tell me
You: bye
Her: tell me that makes me mad when people leave me hanging like that
You: bye

in about a week she will text you saying ya'll need to talk, to put closure on that shit and or drives her crazy why you don't want her.



Thats when you fuck..

It was ok when she thought she was dumping you, but "You're right" flips the shit instantly!!

Girls hate when shit ends unresolved, drives them insane.

lets practice..

her: i think we should be friends
you: You're right
Her: (in her head.....grrrzzzpp Stop the music)

her: I think we should see other people
you: You're right
her: huh?? (stop the music)

later that month/week after you fuck

her: i didn't mean what i said, i dont want to see anyone else
you: ok
her: do you?
you: do i what?
her: still want to see other people
you: yup

or if you really dont give a fuck.

my all time reply to any text from a chick i already ran through.

Her: hey stranger what you been up to, how are you bla bla
Me: shut up bitch swallow

[bojangles]

hes moved on now haha, that's a shame you replied so late lad

[relo]

I'm jealous of you guys with emojis. I got the app on my android but it looks like the girls have to have it too ):

[relo]

This is from girl on okc I havnt banged yet.
Me: I just moved out of (where she lives) a month ago.
Her: really send me a pic I think I've seen you around
Me: ya you did I joggef a lot(sends pics) (I only had 1 pic on okc)
Her:haha yea I've seen you at the grocery store
Me:really? Heh, you know that blonde that works there?
Her:the short one?
Me: that's her.
Her: yea I know her.
Her 15 mins later: so what about her?
Me: oh nothin
Me: I love a good storm, ya know?
Her: I see.

Lol dunno if this is good game but its funny. I'm picking her up Saturday night for drinks and she's been texting me every other day.