I've noticed with some girls that they do this thing where they say things to kind of mess with you or say something and want you to do the opposite. This gets confusing for someone like me because not all girls do this and it can cause me to me miss out on a lay or mess up on ever getting that lay for being over zealous. How do you tell when a girl wants you to do the opposite of what they mean.
For example, I am a very touchy and personable person, I always shake hands or hug my friends. This one girl acted put off whenever I tried to hug her and always hugged me with one arm. Eventually, I found out from her friends that she loved it when I hugged her and I then would tease her and always grab her second arm and make her hug me with that both. Because of how long it took me to figure that out it almost cost me the lay.
Another example, I was working on this girl who had a boyfriend that was on the verge of breaking up and I was waiting for it to happen. A friend of mine knew her boyfriend and tried to get me to promise not to do anything to break them up. The next day I jokingly told her all of that and said that I promised him that I would not hit on her. She replied with "good". I gave it up and a week later I found out she wanted me to try something so I did and sealed the deal.
The problem is if I didn't have inside information I would have potentially missed these girls. So how do I tell when they are serious and when they are just toying with me to see if I take charge and go for them.
For example, I am a very touchy and personable person, I always shake hands or hug my friends. This one girl acted put off whenever I tried to hug her and always hugged me with one arm. Eventually, I found out from her friends that she loved it when I hugged her and I then would tease her and always grab her second arm and make her hug me with that both. Because of how long it took me to figure that out it almost cost me the lay.
Another example, I was working on this girl who had a boyfriend that was on the verge of breaking up and I was waiting for it to happen. A friend of mine knew her boyfriend and tried to get me to promise not to do anything to break them up. The next day I jokingly told her all of that and said that I promised him that I would not hit on her. She replied with "good". I gave it up and a week later I found out she wanted me to try something so I did and sealed the deal.
The problem is if I didn't have inside information I would have potentially missed these girls. So how do I tell when they are serious and when they are just toying with me to see if I take charge and go for them.
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