[Gilgamesh]

Hi guys,
Today, I asked my neighbor out. I didn't even ask her number, figuring I would knock on her door next week.
She agreed, and when I returned back from an errand, she had left a note with her telephone number. She lives next door to me, in an apartment complex.
Should I be worried about potential complications in the future (other girls coming to my apartment)? Like most people here, I am currently not interested in a long-term commitment.

The second issue is, I don't own a car (this is new for me, and I am not planning on purchasing one). She does have a car.
Downtown is about 15-20 minutes walk. Here are the 2 different scenarios, I am thinking about:

A) The first option is that, we both walk to downtown, go to bars. Then we catch a taxi back to our apartments. I live in a small college town, I think we might have 1 or 2 taxis in the whole town. So I don't know how long it takes for taxi to show up. And that might kill her mood. I planning to go for the first night kiss, and will try to go for first night lay.

B)Option B is to use her car

Will using a taxi, elevate my status in her eyes? (in Roissy's alpha assessment test, you lose 1 point for not owning a car)

[Gmac]

(08-12-2011 11:21 PM)Gilgamesh Wrote:  

Hi guys,
Today, I asked my neighbor out. I didn't even ask her number, figuring I would knock on her door next week.
She agreed, and when I returned back from an errand, she had left a note with her telephone number. She lives next door to me, in an apartment complex.
Should I be worried about potential complications in the future (other girls coming to my apartment)? Like most people here, I am currently not interested in a long-term commitment.

The second issue is, I don't own a car (this is new for me, and I am not planning on purchasing one). She does have a car.
Downtown is about 15-20 minutes walk. Here are the 2 different scenarios, I am thinking about:

A) The first option is that, we both walk to downtown, go to bars. Then we catch a taxi back to our apartments. I live in a small college town, I think we might have 1 or 2 taxis in the whole town. So I don't know how long it takes for taxi to show up. And that might kill her mood. I planning to go for the first night kiss, and will try to go for first night lay.

B)Option B is to use her car

Will using a taxi, elevate my status in her eyes? (in Roissy's alpha assessment test, you lose 1 point for not owning a car)

Or you could casually invite her over for drinks/bbq.

[AN87]

and if bbq is not applicable you can use her car and make a lie about you being in between cars right now!!( sold the old one.. thinking about the new one!)..
waiting for cabs will definitely kill the mood if she's tipsy and horny for it.
just make sure you dont drive drunk

[boxwino]

Gmac Wrote:

Or you could casually invite her over for drinks/bbq.

^ this

I'd ignore going out. If she texts or asks you later whats up. Just tell her 'drinks, thursday, my place 9pm.'

If she has any issues with it, either reframe it and she can join you or just ignore her all together.

Now pick up bottle of whiskey or go to Trader Joes, get some decent cheap red wine (Casillero del Diablo Cabernet Sauvignon is like 8 bucks), get some water crackers (.99), hummus or Sun dried Tomato and Pesto Torta (couple bucks). seedless grapes (couple bucks). All this together will cost you under 15 bucks, have it out when she comes over and if she has interest, this is far more of a chance to get laid then investing all that time into going out and around with her, save that for after getting together. I mean she is having drinks in your place, no way that happens unless she is way open to things.