Just turned 27 in September, been with a girl for about 5 months now and its going great, that isnt the point of this thread though.
I always had a bunch of jobs but they were all shitty pay, I moved here to PA from NY close to a year now, I had a few more shitty jobs but finally landed a decent one 2 weeks ago, its a factory job but its not hard work and I'll be getting close to $600 every week, I plan on working for a while until I can pay off any debts I have (credit cards from when I was partying a few years back with no plans) and see where I go from there.
Now it would be easy to make a life with this girl, keep working and move up in the company but I dont know if thats me.
So I am close to Penn State, I could take up some classes/courses, I could start looking into a trade school of some sort, I debated the military for a while but ultimately decided against it, I really dont want to be treated like a kid and have them have complete control of everything I do.
So yea things have been going pretty decent for me as of late and this job has been great so far but I cant stay in one place for too long I need to keep things moving, I need to feel like I am moving forward and accomplishing something in my life.
I would mention the fact that I want a kid and many of my friends and family my age have had or are having kids but I dont think its the right time, sometimes it feels like there is this pressure though, not really sure where it comes from but sometimes I get this feeling "man when am I gonna have a kid? Am I getting too old?"
So any ideas? I may not be doing the best for a 27 year old right now but at least I am doing a lot better compared to 24-25 when I didnt care about much other than partying, messing with chicks and substances.
I always had a bunch of jobs but they were all shitty pay, I moved here to PA from NY close to a year now, I had a few more shitty jobs but finally landed a decent one 2 weeks ago, its a factory job but its not hard work and I'll be getting close to $600 every week, I plan on working for a while until I can pay off any debts I have (credit cards from when I was partying a few years back with no plans) and see where I go from there.
Now it would be easy to make a life with this girl, keep working and move up in the company but I dont know if thats me.
So I am close to Penn State, I could take up some classes/courses, I could start looking into a trade school of some sort, I debated the military for a while but ultimately decided against it, I really dont want to be treated like a kid and have them have complete control of everything I do.
So yea things have been going pretty decent for me as of late and this job has been great so far but I cant stay in one place for too long I need to keep things moving, I need to feel like I am moving forward and accomplishing something in my life.
I would mention the fact that I want a kid and many of my friends and family my age have had or are having kids but I dont think its the right time, sometimes it feels like there is this pressure though, not really sure where it comes from but sometimes I get this feeling "man when am I gonna have a kid? Am I getting too old?"
So any ideas? I may not be doing the best for a 27 year old right now but at least I am doing a lot better compared to 24-25 when I didnt care about much other than partying, messing with chicks and substances.