I have a date scheduled tomorrow and the girl actually seems enthusiastic. Any quick pointers?
If only you knew how bad things really are.
Quote: (10-20-2016 04:04 PM)RunsWithScissors Wrote:
I swear I was trembling with nerves as I stripped down, but fucked like I was 19 again, two rounds in an hour. Things have gotten easier and better since then by a long shot. Just get this one out of the way and be sure to have fun.
Quote: (10-20-2016 03:07 PM)RexImperator Wrote:
I have a date scheduled tomorrow and the girl actually seems enthusiastic. Any quick pointers?
Quote: (10-20-2016 07:06 PM)Vaun Wrote:
Quote: (10-20-2016 03:07 PM)RexImperator Wrote:
I have a date scheduled tomorrow and the girl actually seems enthusiastic. Any quick pointers?
Rex, with all of the advice we've given you about improving your situation, never had a clue you were here. We've all been here, I had my first, first date after 10 years. I had to start completely over. Care to share any other details? I am sure a lot of us have had a similar situation and can help, in a big way. Wish I had the forum at that time when I started over. You've gotten a lot of good advice so far. Most of all just relax and go have some fun, it only goes up from here.
Quote: (10-20-2016 03:14 PM)Laner Wrote:
Quote: (10-20-2016 03:07 PM)RexImperator Wrote:
I have a date scheduled tomorrow and the girl actually seems enthusiastic. Any quick pointers?
Other than that, need more info. Why 12 years?
Quote: (10-20-2016 04:25 PM)kaotic Wrote:
Rex I'm seriously curious what your backstory is and how it culminated in this date.
I know we'd all love to hear it and give you a more fine tuned strategy for your date.
Quote: (10-16-2016 04:31 PM)RexImperator Wrote:
Quote: (09-25-2016 01:08 PM)RexImperator Wrote:
Properly introduced myself to a girl I've seen at the gym before. We have said "Hi" or "bye" and not much else to each other a couple times in the past. Her name was Hillary.
I joked,"ooh that's not such a good name to have at this time." Not sure that one went over so well...
Her arms were crossed while talking to her, which I read as closed body language, but when she left the gym she said, "Nice to finally meet you!"
Talked to her a few more times at the gym since then and... I actually got this girl's number today.
She's on that thick/too chubby boundary to be honest, but I'm in need of a slump-buster.
I suggested meeting up for drinks during the week. I also offered to teach her how to do barbell squats.
She works as a mental health counselor and lives with her parents. Wears porn librarian glasses.
Quote:[u] (10-20-2016 03:07 PM)RexImperator Wrote:
Quote: (10-21-2016 11:36 AM)RexImperator Wrote:
I guess the best I can do is just be relaxed and have fun, not think much about it all.
I don't know that I can see myself getting a bang on the first date or however you guys do it. This seems like a more typical slower "getting to know each other" scenario.
How should I deal with the age difference? I'm thinking just being truthful show that it doesn't phase me. Everything can be found on the web nowadays anyway.