[Cobra]

To think women are not confident and insecure is basically like underestimating the enemy.

There are women that are very confident. So much that they have the power to keep a man a good man, but primarily in conservative and traditional societies. Not the western ones. That same confidence is looked down upon in the west and sluttiness is encouraged in its place. This is in the name of feminism.

Good feminine confidence can get a woman very far. It's when they try to have masculine confidence that they show a lack of confidence and insecurity. Again, in the name of feminism.

This is why the forum encourages men to be more alpha so we can see the difference. Purely thinking that women are insecure and lack confidence is not providing enough appreciation for the game which is the ability to figure out how much confidence they have and use this knowledge to act upon it accordingly.

A theory like this helps none of us.

[BrewDog]

Women have half the money and all the pussy. And when you have all the pussy, it's just a matter of time before you have all the money.

[angryfuckface]

(09-07-2016 09:01 PM)StrikeBack Wrote:  

All women, from the beginning of time, are insecure and not confident. That's just their nature. Understanding and accepting this nature of theirs, and learning how to manage it, is key to having them submit to you as their authority and leader. Don't try to apply a man's mindset to a woman's. Just because we hate being insecure and not confident, and feel less of a man because of it, doesn't mean that it is the same for them. A woman would feel more like a woman when she's insecure and her man guides her through it.

This is gold right here.

I think what happened to me, was at a young age I was doing this but was super young , like high school and not getting any of the benefits so I stopped it. But it seems like a pattern with all the girls I've been with that they like this quality, but I was messing up and not always showing it.

Time to switch that up and incorporate it more often. It's also very satisfying for me as a man to do things like this for women, especially b/c I'm pretty fucking confident in my accomplishments and life experience. I've done and figured out a lot of fucking shit for my age of 28.

[TheBoom]

Good question. My guess is that they are insecure and unconfident for the most part. Confident and secure people are not obsessed with what others think of them. Women are constantly comparing themselves against others. What makes matters worse is that many of the criteria women use are subjective: who is the best looking, who is more popular, etc.

You can see how that subjective measurement hurts their confidence and happiness in studies of women's sue of social media. Studies show that the more young women use Facebook, for example, the more depressed they are. Young women and girls become convinced others are more popular than them. They look at all the smiling people in other people's posts and wonder why they don't have all those smiling friends.

One caveat though is that men are always on risky ground when they try to analyze women by logic.

[AboveAverageJoe]

Most beautiful women are extremely self-conscious and insecure about their looks.
Thus the oft-asked, "Does this make my ass look fat?"

[Euphoria]

(09-22-2016 06:14 PM)TheBoom Wrote:  

One caveat though is that men are always on risky ground when they try to analyze women by logic.

Yes. Logic and women has no connections at all.

(09-24-2016 03:59 PM)AboveAverageJoe Wrote:  

Most beautiful women are extremely self-conscious and insecure about their looks.
Thus the oft-asked, "Does this make my ass look fat?"

I wonder if they still doesnt know fat butts (wide hips) are sexier?

[The Stronger Sex]

Regardless of their superficial rhetorics and their protestations all women yearn for a strong man to be their rock so they can lean their head on and let themselves go. To put it bluntly, if a woman is a bitch to you or tries insiest in trying to antagonizing you, she doesn't see you as manly enough.

[Bobb Johnson]

Not to derail the thread but damn; AboveAverageJoe getting banned is a surprise.

I liked his posts (even in this thread); anyone know why he got banned?