[Gentleman Josiah Crown]

Aight, so real quick back story.
Was engaged. We broke up tore me apart Yada Yada. I had a Rough time, but it's over and done with. So I jumped into the game with both feet. I had three girls I was talking to, one I fucked, one flaked, and one I'm still fucking. This has been a little over a year ago when this all went down. So, while seeing both of these girls, I was getting ready to leave the country for work. (I work as a contractor overseas) I ended up letting one go due to the fact she was a special snowflake in disguise, as well as the fact I felt a little weird seeing two separate women. which left the third. Sweet girl and we're talking still. The issue I'm having is it seems that every time I start to see someone semi seriously I start catching feelings.
Not only that, while I have no problem with ONSs and going out. If I get to know the women, I immediately begin to feel terrible for seeing others. (My only guess is that I had a super religious upbringing and that might have something to do with it.)

Has anyone else dealt with this before? And if so how did you kill the emotional guilt to allow yourself freedom to enjoy the experience of meeting and having relationships withultiple women?

[kaotic]

(08-12-2016 04:59 PM)Gentleman Josiah Crown Wrote:  

The issue I'm having is it seems that every time I start to see someone semi seriously I start catching feelings.
Not only that, while I have no problem with ONSs and going out. If I get to know the women, I immediately begin to feel terrible for seeing others. (My only guess is that I had a super religious upbringing and that might have something to do with it.)

No it doesn't have to do with religion.

When you see a girl for awhile you get comfortable, you might lower your shield, be more intimate than sex, actually enjoy things with her than just banging.

Catching feelings happens, especially if it's a cool chick that makes it past your filters.

Putting those feelings in check is what's important.

I love women, I love sex, I love having fun and laughing with them.

It doesn't mean I'm in love with every single women or have feelings for every single women I bang or are plates.

Learning to control your emotions/feelings/lust etc is apart of the game.

If you guys aren't official you shouldn't feel a single ounce of guilt for it.

A bit of how you were raised is holding you back on this OR you still have some good qualities left in you.

I left that part of me long ago and have no problem sleeping with other girls while in an LTR. You're the better man for that.

Perhaps you has to be somewhat of sociopath (have no morals, not the anti social part) in order to conquer your conscience.

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Has anyone else dealt with this before? And if so how did you kill the emotional guilt to allow yourself freedom to enjoy the experience of meeting and having relationships withultiple women?

You have to unchain yourself and deprogram yourself with what you were taught growing up.

It's completely fine to have relations with multiple women, BUT you have to control your emotions, cool/calm/collective.

Maintaining 3 mini LTR's or 2 mini LTR's and 1 main LTR can be exhausting.

I wouldn't see it as relationships with them, just fuck buddies you have fun with. Just be careful and watch yourself from having one of them become a default girlfriend.

I have a feeling part of you is looking for a quality LTR and the other part of you wants to have sex with multiple women, but your conscience is being torn by this.

[Gentleman Josiah Crown]

"I have a feeling part of you is looking for a quality LTR and the other part of you wants to have sex with multiple women, but your conscience is being torn by this."


Sir, imma need you to get out of my head lol

[jay_weedner]

There is only one woman in the world. One woman with many faces