Quote: (07-27-2016 05:42 AM)H1N1 Wrote:
Honestly, far better than doing MAs is simply to get much bigger and stronger...
I work part-time as a doorman at a nightclub – partly because my friend and training partner runs the security there, and is short of people, and partly because it's a good way to be out amongst people without drinking or spending hard-earned cash.
I honestly have no desire to hurt or bully anyone, and treat the job like adult babysitting. That doesn't mean I don't meet around 5-8 smaller guys a month who want nothing more than to be able to tell the story of how they fucked up the big bear looking guy at the club. Most of them harbour a combination of hyper-competitiveness, pride and a genuine chip on their collective shoulders.
Some of them have been a real handful, but with me operating at around 40% aggression (to protect my liberty, more than anything else, cops aren't on my side and courts certainly wouldn't be) – I'm talking a fraction of the state I get into to lift a big weight – I have yet to come across one that doesn't succumb or gas themselves out trying to wrestle free of me to throw a punch. If I need to get a lock or lever on I just manhandle them into position.
I 'fight' (it's not really fighting on my part, as I intend no damage) close up, where most guys don't expect to find me, and can't get the kinetic energy to 'swing' at me. I've met the odd guy who punches in straight-lines from the hip (Kenpo/Karate style) but they're not commonplace, especially when alcohol is onboard.
So I agree, mass, well-developed proprioception from sports/martial arts/training and the ability to tap your aggression but control your reaction to adrenaline (at least 'till afterwards) are the key skills you'll need.
Ironically, you need all of the above to operate any of the 'weapons' mentioned in this thread anyway, so might as well get the groundwork done.
BTW, 'the door' is kind of a last frontier/proving ground for most of us Western males. You can't call for endless (and escalating) back-up like cops. You can't be armed, even if your opponents have makeshift weapons. You can't run, so you have to hold your own. You can't fall apart when under threat or attack, so you quickly learn to think 'under fire' – figuratively speaking.
Plus, they pay you for it, and in my pre-marital days it was where I scored 90% of my lifelong sexual conquest 'numbers'... you'd have to be Quasimodo not to get laid!
Rick