[HeyPete]

30 years married? Even if this wife was 18 when she got married, she's late 40's now. What kind of partying is this bitch doing?

I'm in my 40's and loathe women my age. They are not fun, most are man haters and they all-around suck and are miserable to be around.

[Captainstabbin]

(05-26-2016 01:36 PM)HeyPete Wrote:  

30 years married? Even if this wife was 18 when she got married, she's late 40's now. What kind of partying is this bitch doing?

I'm in my 40's and loathe women my age. They are not fun, most are man haters and they all-around suck and are miserable to be around.

It's crazy that a late 40s woman still thinks she can Eat, Pray, Love her family and stick the landing. She might get slammed a few times by dudes looking for low hanging fruit at 1am but that's it. But, in her mind, she's expecting to upgrade her husband and be cheered for being brave enough to follow her heart and find happiness. So brave, so very brave...

[Days of Broken Arrows]

How to be an advice columnist in two easy steps:

Man cheats: "OMG! Bad husband!"

Women cheats: "OMG! Bad husband! What did he do to make her want to cheat?!"

The end.

[Sandstorm]

Perhaps marriage should be replaced by a 20-year "family contract" whereby a man and a woman who want children agree to stay together for a minimum of 20 years to raise the children to adulthood and then they can decide what to do. Hopefully they will stay close friends and spend lots of time with each other and their kids but are free to lead individual lives again should they choose to.

Me - I don't plan on getting a family together until I am 50 - way too much living to do before then. It sounds old, but is it? My grandmother was born in like 1913 or something and lived until 2010, something like that. 97 fucking years. I was born late 70s. That's 60 years after her. That gives me a realistic life expectation of maybe 125 or something, what with modern medicine, assuming I stay in shape and eat well (Hmmm.... )

Kids at 50 - "married" 20 years - that still leaves me another 55 years to master my hobbies/life skills and generally be a Hugh Hefner, until I final give up the ghost, surrounded by a loving family.

[birthday cat]

(05-26-2016 03:54 PM)Sandstorm Wrote:  

Perhaps marriage should be replaced by a 20-year "family contract" whereby a man and a woman who want children agree to stay together for a minimum of 20 years to raise the children to adulthood and then they can decide what to do. Hopefully they will stay close friends and spend lots of time with each other and their kids but are free to lead individual lives again should they choose to.

I think this is the type of creative thinking the manosphere needs. The system is broken in a way that penalizes us but that doesn't mean men won't still want families. We need to think of new solutions.

[BillyTalented]

At the end of the day, a lot of us are putting the onus on the guy not because it is his fault, (it's 100% on her in this case) but because in today's world with all the shit influences and with the way women behave, a man as a leader must be prepared and act accordingly or he may face this. Of course this isn't right, and women are impressionable, so as a man and a leader you need to always hold the frame and be prepared to drop any commitments to a woman on a whim. The disturbing part is that he has children who face it all. It is tough because when this guy was getting married this stuff wasn't as easily available as it is now.

[LeeEnfield303]

(05-26-2016 03:51 PM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  

How to be an advice columnist in two easy steps:

Man cheats: "OMG! Bad husband!"

Women cheats: "OMG! Bad husband! What did he do to make her want to cheat?!"

The end.

   

[EDantes]

(05-26-2016 01:36 PM)HeyPete Wrote:  

30 years married? Even if this wife was 18 when she got married, she's late 40's now. What kind of partying is this bitch doing?

I'm in my 40's and loathe women my age. They are not fun, most are man haters and they all-around suck and are miserable to be around.

She must think she's Madonna or something.

[eradicator]

(05-27-2016 06:19 PM)EDantes Wrote:  

(05-26-2016 01:36 PM)HeyPete Wrote:  

30 years married? Even if this wife was 18 when she got married, she's late 40's now. What kind of partying is this bitch doing?

I'm in my 40's and loathe women my age. They are not fun, most are man haters and they all-around suck and are miserable to be around.

She must think she's Madonna or something.

I won't post a recent pic of Madonna, but WNB. 30 years ago sure.