What am I doing wrong?
Tonight...
Start out dolo on alternative nightclub. Beforehand: opened a 6 and a hot blond 7.5 (both 18y) as practice outside, didn't come in. Seemed engaged and laughed at my humour, IOI.
Get in the club, grab a drink, still a bit weak, start to look around. Try and open some girls unsucessfully. Go to first floor. Open an apparently lone young girl close to the toilet. She is with a guy I know that suddenly appears, but the same thread is used to a girl she knows who is around; a 6, somewhere on her late 20s, seems drunk and interested, full of IOIs. Lets call her girl 1. Talk to her for 10 min, seems very interested, but as it is early, I mark her as my back up plan and leave, saying cordially that I'll meet her later. Go out to the smokers zone, make phone call to 2 friends who are about to come in. After call, open succesfully a mixed 6-7 set with 3 cute girls. Start a deep and thorough conversation with a really nice 7 (21y dark skinned), lets call her girl 2. We get along really well, and when she finished her beer, I invite her in, telling her I'll pay her another one. She says she'd go, but as a "friend'. I tell aloud to her beta orbiter who suddenly appears that I "have enough friends already" and disapear into the club.
Two friends of mine arrive (one of them a decent wing). We proceed with the heavy work. Open some snobish 7.5 subtly but somewhat unsucessfully. Work, work, work. Next to the top floor, reopen a big set of 5 girls, who are from another brazilian state (Goiás). As all leave, one of them (6.5 dyed redhead) falls into my game and start giving IOI, kino, and small talk. Let´s call her girl 3. She is staying for another 2 weeks in Rio, in a hostel very close to where I live. I hand her my cel, she types her number and calls (!) as a guarantee she'll have my number when she reaches her hostel. She leaves saying she has to stick to her girlfriends. I cordially let her go, sending an sms so she'll remember.
Walk around a bit, chat with my friends, try to unsuccesfully reopen some sets.
First floor: bump into girl 1. She says she is leaving, but still seems interested. Follow her outside. She's with a friend that insisted to leave. I tell her I'd buy her a drink if she sticks around. Seems very tempted, stays at least 3min pondering about it, but cockblocker friend hurries her and she leaves, without a number or anything.
Work work work. Inside, realise that girl 3 is with a boring looking guy. Is it so? Not sure. Work work work.
A girl (6.5) who is a "friend" of my wingman that I disliked for her bitchy attitude remembers my name and talks to me. Seems interested. I play her accordingly, insist, but she tells me she is hooking up with this other friend of mine (I'm sure he couldn't care less) and backs off.
Go out a bit and realise girl 2 (my fav) is leaving. She has lost her cel phone, and says I could add her on facebook. We live really close and I charmingly tell her we could go out for coffee one day. She seems open to the idea. Chat her some more before she leaves.
Go inside. Girl 3 definitely is hooking with a beta type. Dislike. I see my wingman hooking up with the same girl he's been working for ages. I feel sutpid for not having persistend on any of the previous girls. Feel that is something wrong with the world, than leave the venue almost at 5am, working the following morning.
I consider myself as having decent game; I am very good at talking, and wonder what is wrong. Is it me? The venue? The girls? The day (thursday night)? Similar situations happened before.
Is it lack of persistence and focus with a girl? Should I instead of planting seeds be pushing more on a girl that is already open? Should I be contempted with the first thing I see? Is always thinking I can do better hindering me? Am I getting lazy by already be banging a girl on the reg and setting dates with another? Am I too elegant/oldschool?
As of now, my game runs as smooth/direct/lighthearted/aloof. I am somewhat lost, wondering what would be the next logical step.
Thanks a lot for those who read and could give any advice... Feeling as if I'm hitting a big wall here.
Tonight...
Start out dolo on alternative nightclub. Beforehand: opened a 6 and a hot blond 7.5 (both 18y) as practice outside, didn't come in. Seemed engaged and laughed at my humour, IOI.
Get in the club, grab a drink, still a bit weak, start to look around. Try and open some girls unsucessfully. Go to first floor. Open an apparently lone young girl close to the toilet. She is with a guy I know that suddenly appears, but the same thread is used to a girl she knows who is around; a 6, somewhere on her late 20s, seems drunk and interested, full of IOIs. Lets call her girl 1. Talk to her for 10 min, seems very interested, but as it is early, I mark her as my back up plan and leave, saying cordially that I'll meet her later. Go out to the smokers zone, make phone call to 2 friends who are about to come in. After call, open succesfully a mixed 6-7 set with 3 cute girls. Start a deep and thorough conversation with a really nice 7 (21y dark skinned), lets call her girl 2. We get along really well, and when she finished her beer, I invite her in, telling her I'll pay her another one. She says she'd go, but as a "friend'. I tell aloud to her beta orbiter who suddenly appears that I "have enough friends already" and disapear into the club.
Two friends of mine arrive (one of them a decent wing). We proceed with the heavy work. Open some snobish 7.5 subtly but somewhat unsucessfully. Work, work, work. Next to the top floor, reopen a big set of 5 girls, who are from another brazilian state (Goiás). As all leave, one of them (6.5 dyed redhead) falls into my game and start giving IOI, kino, and small talk. Let´s call her girl 3. She is staying for another 2 weeks in Rio, in a hostel very close to where I live. I hand her my cel, she types her number and calls (!) as a guarantee she'll have my number when she reaches her hostel. She leaves saying she has to stick to her girlfriends. I cordially let her go, sending an sms so she'll remember.
Walk around a bit, chat with my friends, try to unsuccesfully reopen some sets.
First floor: bump into girl 1. She says she is leaving, but still seems interested. Follow her outside. She's with a friend that insisted to leave. I tell her I'd buy her a drink if she sticks around. Seems very tempted, stays at least 3min pondering about it, but cockblocker friend hurries her and she leaves, without a number or anything.
Work work work. Inside, realise that girl 3 is with a boring looking guy. Is it so? Not sure. Work work work.
A girl (6.5) who is a "friend" of my wingman that I disliked for her bitchy attitude remembers my name and talks to me. Seems interested. I play her accordingly, insist, but she tells me she is hooking up with this other friend of mine (I'm sure he couldn't care less) and backs off.
Go out a bit and realise girl 2 (my fav) is leaving. She has lost her cel phone, and says I could add her on facebook. We live really close and I charmingly tell her we could go out for coffee one day. She seems open to the idea. Chat her some more before she leaves.
Go inside. Girl 3 definitely is hooking with a beta type. Dislike. I see my wingman hooking up with the same girl he's been working for ages. I feel sutpid for not having persistend on any of the previous girls. Feel that is something wrong with the world, than leave the venue almost at 5am, working the following morning.
I consider myself as having decent game; I am very good at talking, and wonder what is wrong. Is it me? The venue? The girls? The day (thursday night)? Similar situations happened before.
Is it lack of persistence and focus with a girl? Should I instead of planting seeds be pushing more on a girl that is already open? Should I be contempted with the first thing I see? Is always thinking I can do better hindering me? Am I getting lazy by already be banging a girl on the reg and setting dates with another? Am I too elegant/oldschool?
As of now, my game runs as smooth/direct/lighthearted/aloof. I am somewhat lost, wondering what would be the next logical step.
Thanks a lot for those who read and could give any advice... Feeling as if I'm hitting a big wall here.