[Sebastian]

I met this chick through couchsurfing several months ago. she is studying in U.S and was visiting my city. She was traveling with some american guy (she claimed they shared the bed in host's house but they are just friends) and had free accommodation set up. I just offered her to take picture of her (she looks like authentic swedish blonde with silky blonde hair), we hung out whole day and she returned to her host's house.

On valentines day weekend, she asked me if I could visit her with very short notice (6 hours drive) but I figured it's too risky (end up just being friends) and doesn't look good to drive that far to see her.

Anyways, she is going to stay at my place for 3 days before she goes home. we are planning to shoot some photos and hang out.

So far, we've been talking like friends. But I want to take a challenge to seal the deal with this chick who can be the hottest commodity in LA clubs.

When we had just one glass of wine, I saw her getting into party mood and started to dance sexy around me. This time, she won't have to return to somewhere and can drink more.
I've seen many euro chicks (usually aussie and english) looking nice girls during the day but become a slut after drinks are poured in at the hostel. So I will be the typical guy who tries to get a girl drunk. I might have a weed available too even though I don't smoke one.

The reason I am writing this thread is, it seems like they have different culture than U.S girls.
She was traveling with a guy, sharing the same bed but it is perfectly ok for her culture. I suggested we might go to the beach and spend the night there. She was down for it. I didn't get excited because they can do that at friend's level.
If it was with American girls, I know something will happen but I have no idea with this girl.
If we go to the beach and get a motel, we will sleep on a queen bed together.
If we just stay at my place, I will have to sleep on my bed, she will sleep on the big futon in the living room.

I am thinking about being a gentleman for first night and drink a lot, push as far as I can on second night without crossing fine lines.

If you have experiences with a girl in that region, please share.

[CameraXL]

If she's hot and grew up in Germany, she is used to drunken guys asking her out since she was 14years old. Heavy boozing is quite common over here, so you should make a move while sober. If she's getting drunk with you, just go with the flow.

Blondie is far from home and to her, its all a big adventure. If she's travelling for hours just to spend a few hours with you, there should be no problem. Be the man and have fun.

[Sidney Crosby]

I didn't think Germans could "dance sexy"

Motel + get her drunk + make a move = Bang

That guy that she apparently didn't bang (while sharing a bed), was probably a "gentlemen" but is now regretting being a beta and wanking to the thought of her.

[Fortis]

(05-05-2016 05:07 PM)Sebastian Wrote:  

She was traveling with a guy, sharing the same bed but it is perfectly ok for her culture.

I really hope you didn't buy that. She was traveling with an American man and slept in his bed and nothing happened?

Here's what I read:

"I banged this American guy but I don't want to tell you I fucked him so I'm going to make up this stupid lie and hope you buy that."




I am thinking about being a gentleman for the first night and drink a lot, push as far as I can on second night without crossing fine lines.

I think you are making this way harder for yourself by setting up all these rules and pedestalizing her. Who cares where she's from? She's staying at your place for three days? In most cultures that is a clear invitation to bang her. I'd never let a random chick stay at my house for three days without banging her. No way.

90% of the work has already been done for you, just escalate and win.

[kirdiesel]

(05-06-2016 01:22 AM)CameraXL Wrote:  

If she's hot and grew up in Germany, she is used to drunken guys asking her out since she was 14years old. Heavy boozing is quite common over here, so you should make a move while sober. If she's getting drunk with you, just go with the flow.

Blondie is far from home and to her, its all a big adventure. If she's travelling for hours just to spend a few hours with you, there should be no problem. Be the man and have fun.

This...... Just dont take it too seriously and have a good time. You are in a good position because its all a big adventure for her. Just make sure your logistics are conducive for sex.. make it as natural as possible.

[Wreckingball]

just whip out your würst and make her beg for it