I have a family member that I care about very much, great person but like with most women when they are in a problem they blame everyone but themselves and talk about how they just want to give up, fuck the world etc
I introduce her to logic, I can tell her that this is her fault and all she has to do is accept responsibility and instead of complaining do what she has to do to fix it but its pointless, all she'll do is cry and complain some more and act like its the end of the world.
Now I think I have mentioned this in another post, if this was some random bitch I could give two shits about cool but its someone I care about, and she would be there for me if need be.
How do you usually deal with situations? The most I feel I can do is make her feel a bit better but ultimately she will figure it out, if this was a male I could talk to them and make them realize my view but females are just so damn frustrating.
I introduce her to logic, I can tell her that this is her fault and all she has to do is accept responsibility and instead of complaining do what she has to do to fix it but its pointless, all she'll do is cry and complain some more and act like its the end of the world.
Now I think I have mentioned this in another post, if this was some random bitch I could give two shits about cool but its someone I care about, and she would be there for me if need be.
How do you usually deal with situations? The most I feel I can do is make her feel a bit better but ultimately she will figure it out, if this was a male I could talk to them and make them realize my view but females are just so damn frustrating.