[XXL]

This was made from the "Patrice O'Neal & The Ladies" series on Youtube. I cried laughing a couple of times listening to it.

[Silver_Tube]

Classic.

[Captain Gh]

This should mandatory training for every Man alive, especially in the West!

[Chowder Head]

Damn thats some good shit. I always wondered why he called his show Black Phillip--now I know. Classic quote: "Oprah is an easy lay."

[VforVlad]

Damn, this guy could be churning out some of the best ROK articles ever if he was still around and a contributor.

[texas]

Shit man this is golden. Thanks. Some highlights from the beginning:

"How men chase pussy...That's how women chase our manhood. Relentlessly." @21.50, on shit tests, frame
"No, it's security. The bitch just wants to be able in case you die to continue to live and get money." @25.16, on marriage
"The one weapon against women that men don't have to understand, the one secret weapon, is not to care." @27.44, on indifference

Patrice's insight is so profound. RIP bro!

[DamienCasanova]

Patrice on hoes & hypergamy

[toejam]

hilarious.
i need to give a full listen to the first one though

[XXL]

There's a lot of truth is what he's saying especially about setting and maintaining boundaries in relationship. So that's cool but at the same time I'm not going to take seriously a swinger guy who openly shares his woman with other men and then gives her salty goodnight kiss. It's funny how Patrice disses some truck driver guy who is away 7,5 days out of 6 from his wife saying that he would rather work in a warehouse just to be around his beautiful woman he loves but at at the same time he lets other guys bang his woman in front of him. Really? Cool story bro.

[Vincent Chase]

This guy is incredible.

"Her having 100 dicks is as easy as you having these bag of chips"

[birthday cat]

(02-13-2016 04:19 PM)Captain Gh Wrote:  

This should mandatory training for every Man alive, especially in the West!

I couldn't agree more. It's a long video but hilarious. If I had to introduce a blue pill guy to game this is first thing I would give him.

I suggest downloading it as an mp3 and putting it on your phone so you can listen to it anywhere at anytime.

[TrifeLife]

I would major in women's and gender studies if Patrice O'Neal was in all of my classes.

[XXL]

A lot of good topics here too..

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL...3JiqX41Zxr

[PapayaTapper]

Every time someone brings this cat up I get a tear in my eye. I found out he'd died when I went to search if he was on tour so I could catch him. Fortunately he left a lot of his genius on Youtube and such but...Fuck I truly miss him.

[Fitzgerald]

Heard a few rants from Saint Patrice before (I especially like the one with the European porn chick who got a PhD and wrote a "game" guide for men. Opie and Anthony kiss her ass the whole time, and Patrice doesn't give a fuck who she is or what she looks like), but not this one. It is truly a Game Masterclass, and must be given a place in the Official Canon of Game. I'd write more, but I want to get back to the show.

[DamienCasanova]

A great fan made documentary on Patrice called "Brutally Honest"

Hilarious stuff, with some great game to be learned here as well

[Benoit]

Every time I'm reminded he's no longer around, it saddens me greatly.

Patrice always delivered a masterclass of frame control with women in these clips.

[XXL]

His shit works like a charm and it still blows my mind how it's possible. Look..

I decided to test out his approach with my GF. She's very feminine and emotional so she tends to be all over the place with her feelings which often causes arguments between us. She accused me of being heartless, stone cold and not affectionate enough and of course she didn't bring it up normally, she had make a fuss about it. My usual way to deal with shit like that was either go with the flow using drama stuff to blow it up, control the fire and then put it out.. or go kind of ghost on her until she calms down and start missing me.

Now I took Patrice's approach or to be precise something similar to his. I'd describe it as a combination of possessiveness, dictatorship, affection and care. I like to call it Boss/Daddy. Basically I started talking to her as if I was her bossy dad talking to his little girl. I've never taken such approach before until now and I think I was missing out a lot. It's interesting how girl's attitude changes if talk to her from the position of power, regardless whether you have any power over her or not. I don't. She's free human being, I cannot force her to do anyting. However, I've noticed that playing role of boss/daddy was putting her in a certain role as well.

Random texts examples:

Yes, if you're with me you belong to me and you're under my control. Appreciate it.

I was absolutely owning you otherwise I'd not even want you at all. Woman belong to her man. I feel sorry for your girl friends with boyfriends who don't care about them.

I'm not talking about objectification dummy. I mean my woman is MY woman. period. if you're mine you're loyal honest and fully devoted and i'm in full control of what is going on with you. wanna feel taken care of then then act like a woman and fucking let me. you didn't want to so i didn't want to be supportive. simple as that.

I want to know what's about everything about going on now no exception and you will tell me

Don't talk to me like i'm a sucker. *I* will tell you when it's too late. now promise me you will be nice and wish me a good night now

If you're good to me everything will be alright with you and with us. can you do it?

I haven't changed. i can forget few things and give you a chance but you have to get your shit together asap. don't cry don't even try. just tell can you do it or not.

You've never felt as feel with anyone in your life as good as you feel with me because you belong to me and you know it. you're mine and you want to be mine. everything will be alright. apologize to now and be my nice polite little girl now


She was stubborn at first of course saying the same shit. When she was still trying to punk me I was putting her in the place. When she was trying to be miss independent i reminded her who's her man. etc. I was never aggressive or confrontational though, no cursing etc. I was quite surprised that after few minutes of bullshit with every text she was getting more and more calm and polite. It's like she was turning into nice girl right in front of my eyes only because I took that specific angle.

I've never done it before like that. I've seen bunch of guys treating their GFs in similar fashion and to be honest I've always thought it's lame to communicate with a girl like that. Then I got into game and found out plenty of ways to do it differently. Am I back to square one now?

[MY DETROIT PLAYAS]

@XXL you were changing the frame on your gf. Essentially she has an option-does she want to be an 'independent woman" and be out in the rainy wilderness with the rest of these unhappy, misguided harlots or does she want to come in under the strong foundation of your masculinity and guidance. It's my belief every woman wants to submit to a man she deems worthy. Sometimes to cut through the bullshit you have to spell it out in that manner. It works, I've spoken to women I've dealt with in similar terms. The real irony is that some of these unsubmitting chicks out here, are the 1st ones to quote their bible totally disregarding what it has to say on the natural order of men and woman relations.

[XXL]

True. The hard part is to frame "coming in under the strong foundation of your masculinity and guidance" as something positive a girl would enjoy. Usually it's frowned upon and viewed as ruthless control or even incapacitation.

[MY DETROIT PLAYAS]

Yes, that's the trick but by rewarding her compliance and good behavior and addressing her noncompliance as you did she is able to see how your actions are consistent with your words. It becomes a pattern, and something she can bank on as sure as the sun rises. A lot of times, that's all it takes for us to have my peace in our dealing with women. When we start being inconsistent, a guy will run into more tests and resistance from women.

[Kid Twist]

Good dialogue here, I'm enjoying your examples, stories, and suggestions.

[Kid Twist]

(02-17-2016 08:36 AM)XXL Wrote:  

There's a lot of truth is what he's saying especially about setting and maintaining boundaries in relationship. So that's cool but at the same time I'm not going to take seriously a swinger guy who openly shares his woman with other men and then gives her salty goodnight kiss. It's funny how Patrice disses some truck driver guy who is away 7,5 days out of 6 from his wife saying that he would rather work in a warehouse just to be around his beautiful woman he loves but at at the same time he lets other guys bang his woman in front of him. Really? Cool story bro.

This gets to the larger point of discernment and principle, and to truly have an ideal scenario you need to constantly work, change, improve, etc. Basically, it's life maxim. Where he went wrong is on the asshole side of things. That default works in a lot of ways, and allows him to give you good advice, but it can never be "complete" unless there is discernment of checks and balances.

I hope you guys understand this and take XXL's comments here to heart. Remember, people who don't "give a fuck about anything" or act like it to an extreme are unfulfilled. Even with the residual bonus it gives you by incorporating it into your life. A strange paradox to remember.

[XXL]

@Kid Twist

True that. I think it would be terrible to follow his way 100% however SOME of his points are really effective and those are very worthy to apply.

My girl is an angel now. Daddy's proud

[Unchained]

(02-17-2016 08:36 AM)XXL Wrote:  

I'm not going to take seriously a swinger guy who openly shares his woman with other men and then gives her salty goodnight kiss. It's funny how Patrice disses some truck driver guy who is away 7,5 days out of 6 from his wife saying that he would rather work in a warehouse just to be around his beautiful woman he loves but at at the same time he lets other guys bang his woman in front of him. Really? Cool story bro.

Patrice was on a different level than us in how he viewed women and relationships. He was on some borderline pimp shit. Redpill on steroids.

Dude was sentenced to prison as a 16 or 17 yr old for running a train on some slut at his school with his friends. The girl claimed rape after the school found out to save face even though it was consensual. They ended up in prison and one of the dudes ended up getting turned out and raped in prison and killing himself or some crazy shit. His mom had to jump through legal hoops to get him out.

Patrice was one of the first dudes to advocate going over seas. He talks about American men going to Brazil and being treated like kings by real women.

Also Patrice's girl was a hoe. He admits he had to get used to dating a hoe and adjust his game to make her his LTR.. He trained his bitch and lived a swinger lifestyle where him and his girl were bringing home other women in addition to her getting banged by other dudes. That's some next level shit mentally and spiritually.

He has lots of great advice even though some of it is extreme. His rants should be required listening for any man who wants to be a player. If I had a son I'd force him to listen to Patrice as soon as he turned 15.

His girl below.