Some context: In general, whenever I go out to eat I tip very well. More than most people.
Fast forward to a month ago:
I love spanish food, been looking for a new spot close to home. I found a new spot within a few minutes drive from my house. I went in, ordered some items to go, paid with my amex and tipped big using cash. The bartender/waitress was a hot one, dominican with a heavy accent. She can barely speak english but its good enough to where she doesn't need a translator or anything. She was surprised at the tip but i told her it was hers. She gave a big smile.
A week later I go back, order some food to go, and as I'm waiting she makes small talk. She recommends some food items blah blah blah. She asks me when is she going to see me again, I say tomorrow.
Next day i go in, same routine, order food to go. She asks me when is she going to see me again I say give me your number and I'll see you Friday for breakfast. She writes down her number.
I call her and its the wrong number.
2 days later I go in, I'm like WTF, she says she must have gave me the wrong number. I order food, she writes down the right number, and we make plans again to go out. she told me to text her to make sure it goes through, and she gets my text, and she responds while she's standing next to me.
3 days later I text, we make plans. All in agreement.
On the day of the date I call her, no answer. I text, no answer. I text again, no answer.
2 days later I go to see whats up, she gives me an excuse about some girl called her cell and for some strange reason she thought it was my girl so she got scared and deleted my number, blah blah blah. I giver her my number and we make plans AGAIN. she gives me her address and she says come pick me up and we'll go out. I tell her, look, you need to make sure you're there 'cause i'll be picking you up on Sunday we can't have disconnect like before. She says ok dont worry just come pick me up.
On the day of i drive out to the address she gave me. i text her no answer. i call her no answer. i text her again, no answer. i honk my horn, no answer. I"m like WTF WTF W--T--F!!
It's been 2 weeks and I haven't gone back to get my usual spanish food, nor have I gone to see her and find out what the excuse is this time.
When did I lose control?
How can i salvage this, or is it even salvageable? I REALLY want to smash i mean she got a banging body. If it wasn't for that I wouldn't be here making this thread. I've been pretty stern with her and in control, but obviously i lost control somewhere. DAMNIT.
she is about mid 30's, a bit older, has a daughter.
Fast forward to a month ago:
I love spanish food, been looking for a new spot close to home. I found a new spot within a few minutes drive from my house. I went in, ordered some items to go, paid with my amex and tipped big using cash. The bartender/waitress was a hot one, dominican with a heavy accent. She can barely speak english but its good enough to where she doesn't need a translator or anything. She was surprised at the tip but i told her it was hers. She gave a big smile.
A week later I go back, order some food to go, and as I'm waiting she makes small talk. She recommends some food items blah blah blah. She asks me when is she going to see me again, I say tomorrow.
Next day i go in, same routine, order food to go. She asks me when is she going to see me again I say give me your number and I'll see you Friday for breakfast. She writes down her number.
I call her and its the wrong number.
2 days later I go in, I'm like WTF, she says she must have gave me the wrong number. I order food, she writes down the right number, and we make plans again to go out. she told me to text her to make sure it goes through, and she gets my text, and she responds while she's standing next to me.
3 days later I text, we make plans. All in agreement.
On the day of the date I call her, no answer. I text, no answer. I text again, no answer.
2 days later I go to see whats up, she gives me an excuse about some girl called her cell and for some strange reason she thought it was my girl so she got scared and deleted my number, blah blah blah. I giver her my number and we make plans AGAIN. she gives me her address and she says come pick me up and we'll go out. I tell her, look, you need to make sure you're there 'cause i'll be picking you up on Sunday we can't have disconnect like before. She says ok dont worry just come pick me up.
On the day of i drive out to the address she gave me. i text her no answer. i call her no answer. i text her again, no answer. i honk my horn, no answer. I"m like WTF WTF W--T--F!!
It's been 2 weeks and I haven't gone back to get my usual spanish food, nor have I gone to see her and find out what the excuse is this time.
When did I lose control?
How can i salvage this, or is it even salvageable? I REALLY want to smash i mean she got a banging body. If it wasn't for that I wouldn't be here making this thread. I've been pretty stern with her and in control, but obviously i lost control somewhere. DAMNIT.
she is about mid 30's, a bit older, has a daughter.
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And be A LOT more playful than "Nah, not tonight."
