Been sleeping with this girl for 3 months, seeing her once a week. Naturally, she just asked me where we're at. She then told me that she's not okay with me seeing other people/going on dates with others (I haven't been mainly due to lack of time from other commitments) and if I were to do that, I have to let her know because she'd then be out of this because she doesn't want to waste her time.
I see potential with this one with some potential redflags. I reluctantly said fine I won't see anyone else but I said I won't jump into an official relationship until much later because I don't do that unless I'm fairly certain something long term can work out.
There's one aspect of not jumping onto the first woman that shows interest in you (although I was going on a bunch of dates with different women at around the same time I first met her) but another aspect is what the forums here have been talking about recently which: if you find a potentially decent one, don't give into your hedonistic impulses and move onto the next one again and again like some sort of junkie addicted to the thrill of new tail. I ended a really serious, intense LTR not too long ago which fell apart unfortunately so I'm not completely ready to jump into something serious right away. I also want to bang some hot strange tail but I realize that doesn't lead to any sort of long term happiness.
I mean if she brought this up at the one month mark I would have said been more firm with saying it's too soon to give any time of commitment but at the 3 month mark, I don't think it's too unreasonable to want some sort of exclusivity.
What do you guys think?
I see potential with this one with some potential redflags. I reluctantly said fine I won't see anyone else but I said I won't jump into an official relationship until much later because I don't do that unless I'm fairly certain something long term can work out.
There's one aspect of not jumping onto the first woman that shows interest in you (although I was going on a bunch of dates with different women at around the same time I first met her) but another aspect is what the forums here have been talking about recently which: if you find a potentially decent one, don't give into your hedonistic impulses and move onto the next one again and again like some sort of junkie addicted to the thrill of new tail. I ended a really serious, intense LTR not too long ago which fell apart unfortunately so I'm not completely ready to jump into something serious right away. I also want to bang some hot strange tail but I realize that doesn't lead to any sort of long term happiness.
I mean if she brought this up at the one month mark I would have said been more firm with saying it's too soon to give any time of commitment but at the 3 month mark, I don't think it's too unreasonable to want some sort of exclusivity.
What do you guys think?
