[Huey]

(07-12-2015 02:36 PM)TonySandos Wrote:  

The a girl who looks like the girl in the picture tends to hold an almost goddess like status in young, urban black male circles when it comes to their dating hierarchy. She is light-skinned, but that's not the only trait. Their example of perfection is typically; light-skinned, lots of hair which is usually natural, slim to 'slim-thick', dresses urban modern to hipster/boho.

I'm just interested in how far this phenomena goes. It's surprising how many men I've met who share this idea of "best".

It's part social conditioning, part evolution. Men (of all races) are innately attracted to fair-skinned women; that's just how it is. However, among Blacks, this attraction is heightened (at least in my opinion) because the media almost always show fair-skinned women as the ideal type of women, and fair-skinned Black women are always representative of our race on TV; you'll never see a Lupita Nyong'o in rap videos or your average cable TV show.


Huey

[TonySandos]

That's pretty self explanatory, but it doesn't touch on the commonality of attraction to wardrobe and cosmetic style

[Huey]

(07-12-2015 04:23 PM)TonySandos Wrote:  

That's pretty self explanatory, but it doesn't touch on the commonality of attraction to wardrobe and cosmetic style

That's self-explanatory as well: that's just how modern urban youths dress. We're attracted to girls who dress like that because the majority of us dress like that too. If you go to places where urban fashion is prominent (like New York and LA) you'll see a lot of girls (and guys) who dress like what you're describing. We like people who are like us.

[Yatagan]

(07-09-2015 11:59 AM)MikeS Wrote:  

Not fat. Attractive face. Long hair, but occasionally medium length or short can look good - blond, brown, black, red or various in betweens. Boobs - A cup to F+. Ass - small or larger, as long as it's reasonably firm. Legs, arms and other body parts must all be present.

Edit: Personality traits update - not bitchy, must have a sense of humour and be reasonably intelligent if I'm supposed to bang her more than a few times.

This is essentially what i go for as well, with the exception that my preferable minimum in cup size is a B.

[WestIndianArchie]

She's all over tumblr. I think she's on a TV show or something.

I've done the Badu types, the hippie white chicks, straight laced white girls, ratchet black chicks, Michelle Obama professional types, eastern euros, a few curries here and there, but this is the one that I hop out of my seat for.

Incidentally, a lot of these chicks show me love, so it's a great situation.

WIA

[samsamsam]

One with a heartbeat

I have such low standards...

[Sudden]

If we're talking standards, mine depend on the quality and recency of the last three.

If we're talking types that I generally go for Mediterranean/MiddleEastern/Latin with wide hips and a narrow waist. Of course all other qualified applicants are welcome.

[TonySandos]

(07-13-2015 11:37 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  







She's all over tumblr. I think she's on a TV show or something.

I've done the Badu types, the hippie white chicks, straight laced white girls, ratchet black chicks, Michelle Obama professional types, eastern euros, a few curries here and there, but this is the one that I hop out of my seat for.

Incidentally, a lot of these chicks show me love, so it's a great situation.

WIA

If I run through all those types will it increase my odds of getting the same love shown? I'm lacking straight lace white girl and the curries.

[TonySandos]

(07-13-2015 11:37 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  







She's all over tumblr. I think she's on a TV show or something.

I've done the Badu types, the hippie white chicks, straight laced white girls, ratchet black chicks, Michelle Obama professional types, eastern euros, a few curries here and there, but this is the one that I hop out of my seat for.

Incidentally, a lot of these chicks show me love, so it's a great situation.

WIA

If I run through all those types will it increase my odds of getting the same love shown? I'm lacking straight lace white girl and the curries.

[Driesinator]

I like cute blonde girls.

[PapayaTapper]

A nice eating disorder does it for me

[WestIndianArchie]

@Tony

The more different kinds of situations you put yourself in, the better your overall game will be.

Either you learn nuance or you learn to connect on a more basic level.

WIA

[-Snake-]

(07-13-2015 11:37 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  







She's all over tumblr. I think she's on a TV show or something.

I've done the Badu types, the hippie white chicks, straight laced white girls, ratchet black chicks, Michelle Obama professional types, eastern euros, a few curries here and there, but this is the one that I hop out of my seat for.

Incidentally, a lot of these chicks show me love, so it's a great situation.

WIA

Shes on Orange is the New Black! Also i agree, Shes a feisty one.

[michelin]

unpredictable girls, example: innocent looking chick, secretary-like, with glasses, but 2 minutes later turns into a genuine slut

[Vinny]

I like this Russian/Ukrainian type of girl with pointy nose, plump lips and beautiful smile. Saw few of this fenotype girls in Kiev, but they are rare.
Body wise, I am an ass man. Long legs, full ass, medium to large breasts, with nipples being the most important part.
Physical appearance of a pussy makes a big difference but I am not going to describe it in detail here

   

[trainwreck]

I have 2 types I've found

applies to both types:
Round firm ass, doesn't matter if big or not. medium long (strong) hair, green or blue eyes, no flappy pussy, small nipples, skinny legs

Type 1:
Short, brunette, ponytail hair, angular (russian-ish) face

Type 2:
Tall, blonde, round (swedish, northern european) face

[johnbozzz]

Thin and toned. Makes for a good LTR. Light skin, B to small c cup. White teeth, don't have to be uniformly straight, which I find boring. Grey eyes, red hair or blonde. 5'4-5'6, 120-125 pounds and painted nails. I also find reading glasses to be completely adorable.

[fiasco360]

It really depends on the girls I've been with and dated. First girl was pale skin, long thin fingers, large breasts, long legs, skinny, blue eyes.

After I slept with a number of chicks I've learned that my tastes changed. Recent girl I dated was middle eastern, about 5'6-5'7, big ass, b cup tits, thin waste and small hands.

That being said, I am on the italian/greek/middle eastern kick and a girl like this:

[SudoRoot]

I don't prefer any ethnic type over the other.
If she is a 7 or higher, she's good to go.
For me it's more about how she carries herself, her energy and her attitude. Whenever I see a cute Girl, who is having a decent feminine attitude, it awakes my hunting instincts. I hate loud or braggy Girls, because I can provide this type of energy myself, lol.

I also like it when Girls have natural Beauty and don't overdo it with the make-up. Died hair is NO GO

Often it is hard to describe what makes a Girl attractive to me. Often Girls I am attracted to just have that certain something. She doesn't even Need to be that hot.
And whenever I see a decent looking Girl, who is reading a book instead of getting sucked into her Smartphone every 30 seconds, I be like:

[Ringo]

A 5'9'', skinny, A or B cup, medium assed, angular faced and thick lipped, long haired brunette with a sweet personality and a penchant for eating my dick for breakfast.





Interestingly, I'm 100% sure that the reason I developed a taste for this combination of physical attributes is because of my best friend's sister.

She's a few years older and I remember the impression it would cause me seeing her as an 18 year old walk around his house in a bathrobe (I was 13). She's still a dime piece, but even though there's a thousand girls I'd rather bang nowadays the image has been imprinted in my mind forever.

[Oz.]

This is what i'm talking about right here.

[Comte De St. Germain]

Long Black Hair

Green or Blue eyes

Angled features

C Cups

5'10"

Skinny with a nice toned ass and pale skin.

Bubbly personality and a bit dumb socially or quiet/reserved but smart socially.

That would be perfect breeding stock. I swear to god I'll settle down if I find it immediately that second. One girl came close to this specification in my life so far. She had Bs . Damn shame damn shame.

[nomadd]

Independent, short haired, full figured.

nah...

   

[Anabasis to Desta]

Upper class, northern Ethiopian Orthodox Christian girls.

They are "my blood" so to speak. They look like me, talk like me and act like me. They even smell like me in a way. It's like i am meant to breed with them.

They feel the same way. They tend to get banged by AA and white guys a lot when they're young but I'm the type of guy they want to lock down, introduce to daddy and plaster all over their Instagram to make their friends jealous.

Not ready for kids but i wouldn't mind impregnating these girls even now.

[brazilian]

Skinny/slim, pale skin, long straight hair, feminine and young.