Evening fellas, I'd like to share a situation with you all that I find somewhat unsettling.
A friend of mine is friend's with this girl who is due to be married in 6 weeks. She's been in a relationship with the dude for 8 years. The chick is quite attractive, 7/10, tall, slim body, late 20s but looks good for her age. She could pass for 23 quite easily. According to my friend, this girl is a diva and loves to be treated like a princess. The fiancé earns a lot of money and he spoils her rotten with all the luxuries you could think of; fancy restaurants, extravagant birthday celebrations, expensive holidays, etc. Now this dude is supposedly average looking, mid-30s, slightly overweight, short and has an introverted personality.
Last year the chick went on a girls' holiday to Ibiza. She meets some dude from the US. She confided in my friend that they kissed but didn't bang which he and I suspect is probably bullshit.
Earlier this year the chick goes on some sort of bachelorette party with her girls across the US, all probably funded by her boyfriend. Whilst in Vegas she keeps texting my friend complaining that a bunch of hot guys keep hitting on her and that she needs him to protect her (he's a big, strong guy). He is jokingly outraged by this and tells her she should be telling this to her boyfriend back in London, not him. Just so you guys know, my friend and this girl have a strictly platonic relationship. They've been friends for a long time and he's no stranger to either game or the nature of women.
Before she returned to London, she 'just happened' to visit the same city the dude she met in Ibiza is from. Again, she denied anything of significance happened. The fiancé of course has no knowledge of this. I actually feel bad for the guy. The marriage seems destined to fail, like most and it's situations like this that further reiterate my stance on women and relationships:
- Keep your chick on lock at all times. Be the boss. Call her out when she acts up.
- Be willing to walk away from any situation. If the odds swing in her favour, there's usually very little you can do to swing it back.
- Make sure she knows that your time and presence is a privilege to her which is something she needs to earn. Being overly available is anti-game.
For those of you in a serious relationship, how do you manage things?
A friend of mine is friend's with this girl who is due to be married in 6 weeks. She's been in a relationship with the dude for 8 years. The chick is quite attractive, 7/10, tall, slim body, late 20s but looks good for her age. She could pass for 23 quite easily. According to my friend, this girl is a diva and loves to be treated like a princess. The fiancé earns a lot of money and he spoils her rotten with all the luxuries you could think of; fancy restaurants, extravagant birthday celebrations, expensive holidays, etc. Now this dude is supposedly average looking, mid-30s, slightly overweight, short and has an introverted personality.
Last year the chick went on a girls' holiday to Ibiza. She meets some dude from the US. She confided in my friend that they kissed but didn't bang which he and I suspect is probably bullshit.
Earlier this year the chick goes on some sort of bachelorette party with her girls across the US, all probably funded by her boyfriend. Whilst in Vegas she keeps texting my friend complaining that a bunch of hot guys keep hitting on her and that she needs him to protect her (he's a big, strong guy). He is jokingly outraged by this and tells her she should be telling this to her boyfriend back in London, not him. Just so you guys know, my friend and this girl have a strictly platonic relationship. They've been friends for a long time and he's no stranger to either game or the nature of women.
Before she returned to London, she 'just happened' to visit the same city the dude she met in Ibiza is from. Again, she denied anything of significance happened. The fiancé of course has no knowledge of this. I actually feel bad for the guy. The marriage seems destined to fail, like most and it's situations like this that further reiterate my stance on women and relationships:
- Keep your chick on lock at all times. Be the boss. Call her out when she acts up.
- Be willing to walk away from any situation. If the odds swing in her favour, there's usually very little you can do to swing it back.
- Make sure she knows that your time and presence is a privilege to her which is something she needs to earn. Being overly available is anti-game.
For those of you in a serious relationship, how do you manage things?