I've never been interested in non-romantic 'friendships' with women. The only time I have experienced them, they have been a result of my failure to adequately generate attraction and close, the involuntary state of 'friendzone', which happened to me a couple of times when I was blue-pilled and younger.
The problem I have now, is that while I have a few plates, they are all potential (or current) bangs, and I wouldn't want to stuff them up by having them around eachother, and have one of them want to PDA etc. I want to create more of a 'social circle', so I can invite my buddies around for drinks and have 5-10 women I can invite for atmosphere and social proof, other than girlfriends.
Maybe I'm just being greedy with plates and need to step up approaches, and use the individual early stage leads to come to a single event and go from there. I just think there must be a better way than this, such as deliberately signalling non-romantic intentions, meeting her friends and accessing an instant pool of several women.
Has anyone had any success outside of a university environment with getting into a 'group' of women that has a shared interest, vibe or culture that can be used for nights out etc?
Cheers
The problem I have now, is that while I have a few plates, they are all potential (or current) bangs, and I wouldn't want to stuff them up by having them around eachother, and have one of them want to PDA etc. I want to create more of a 'social circle', so I can invite my buddies around for drinks and have 5-10 women I can invite for atmosphere and social proof, other than girlfriends.
Maybe I'm just being greedy with plates and need to step up approaches, and use the individual early stage leads to come to a single event and go from there. I just think there must be a better way than this, such as deliberately signalling non-romantic intentions, meeting her friends and accessing an instant pool of several women.
Has anyone had any success outside of a university environment with getting into a 'group' of women that has a shared interest, vibe or culture that can be used for nights out etc?
Cheers