Quote: (05-24-2015 11:13 AM)tomtud Wrote:
I have lived in the Middle East (Qatar) for 2 years.... Culture is a big thing for middle easterners. Having sex for a woman out of wedlock is shameful and often times punishable. Sex before marriage and infidelity can get you killed either by the state or by some relative.
The safest way in a Sunni Muslim country is to get married, have up to 4 wives ( don't have kids as it will complicate the divorce) and have a TALAQ divorce. That s say the words
( I divorce you ) 3 times and voila....so have a stable of 4 girls legally under law. It will cost some money but if you can make it happen this would be the safest way.
In Iran, aside from the underground parties,,,, people still get stoned or hanged for infidelity or sex before marriage. If you don't have access to that scene or don't want a "marriage" they have mini marriages ( I apologize for not using a better term) ... Forgot what it's called is where you get married officially and the marriage contract is for a few days etc and expires leaving you officially single. This is legal of course. If you get stopped by the religious police and you are with your girl, you are free to go,,,, on your way. Without it good luck. Good luck getting your embassy to get you out of jail.
Returning to Baghdad,,,,promiscuity is frowned upon. Get (married) have 4 wives.... Divorce anyone as you please. Replace and repeat. Sounds harsh..... But this is legally allowed.
Can a man of any religion get 4 wives in Qatar (and other muslim countries)?
How is it viewed by the women if you take more than one wife?
No divorce rape in court?