[Atlantic]

This is based on a one week trip to Barranquilla, Colombia.

Although I went out two nights I relied strictly on online game and ended up getting 5 new notches in 7 nights. Twice I had a girl back over again also. The quality was decent and although I barely left the hotel I had a lot of fun. keep in mind I have very basic (zero) Spanish too.

This isn't my usual style of game but it was fun to try for a week as an experiment and see how far I could push it. Some my thoughts:

Start a week early

Pretty basic - match to everything possible on whatever sites are popular in the area. For me it was Tinder and Colombian Cupid. Some guys have auto programs for this but I had to do it all manually. On tinder (plus) I swiped right to all and on CC I clicked on the little heart icon for every girl in the area.

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Leave it for a day or two and see how much interest you get and who messages you first.

General Message

Send out 'feeler' messages a few days before.

'Hi, cute pics! I am going to be in _______ all next week and can't wait to have some fun. Lets hang out sometime. Whats your facebook/whatsapp?'

Span message everyone and then see who responses. Don't write too much back at this stage and keep it very minimal. Response to a typical reply from girl: 'Hey thanks! I am busy at the moment but I will message you when I arrive. See ya soon.'

Start collecting and organizing as many numbers/Whatsapp/Facebook as possible

All the action is going to go down when you meet so just focus on volume before you arrive. With Facebook I would message the girls instead of adding (mostly) so I don't have 20 girls popping up on my page in the space of a few days. I tell them I will add them after I meet them in person because I am careful when I travel. This is handy for a few reasons:
- Allows you to see their recent pictures so you avoid wasting time with SIF and girls using old pics
- Still keeps your Facebook secure and doesn't let girls see who else you have added or if you added some of her friends (this happen a few times)
- I find it easier to mass message over facebook on the laptop then on a smart phone. Its faster and more efficient.
- Easier to share links, photos and info with the girls.
- They feel more secure meeting you at your hotel knowing they have your Facebook details

Day off arriving...

Pick several 'best bets' for the first night

Pre-flight...
'Hey my flight might be delayed today. If I do arrive on time do you want to hang out tonight?'

Allows you to cancel on them if more than one girl is keen. Tell the other girls you were delayed and schedule for the morning.

After landing...
'Hey I just arrived but I am a little tired. Do you want to just come relax at my hotel tonight?'

Again see which girls are keen. Pick the best girl or pick two and separate by 2 hours - 8pm and 10pm. If the first works then tell the second you are crashing and are off to bed. If the first is not going well then tell her you are going to bed and clear space for the second girl.

The daily routine

In the morning send a pool side pic / breakfast smoothie / something 'cool' to all your Whatsapp contacts. On Tinder use the Moment feature and do the same. See who writes back fast and who sees it but doesn't write back. Go for the eager girls first (not necessarily the hottest) and start setting up dates.

I think the ideal way to avoid burnout is:
-Breakfast by yourself 8-10am
-Meetup 10-1
-Lunch by yourself 1
-Meetup 2-5
-Dinner 6
-Double meet up 7/9pm. Use the same approach as above. Kick the first girl out early if she is keen. Or cancel on the second if the first goes well. Or maybe both go well .

This way you can meet four girls a day but a lot of times girls will reschedule so it is more like 2/3. If a girl cancels don't take it too bad and just try get her to come the next day. If this happens a few times just write shorter and more direct messages. 'Okay- when will you be here'. Some girls will come through later in the week so don't delete them unless they are clearly wasting your time.

The Meetup

Read BlurredSevens thread. Use the same approach. Bring them right to your hotel room with whatever reason fits... drinks, movie, back massage, you have to send an email, relaxing, using google translator, show them some pictures on facebook... whatever. Just having a reason keeps them happy. Avoid if at all possible going anywhere but your hotel/accommodation. If a girl is unsure Skype her/talk on the phone/send some pics of yourself to build up comfort but keep pushing for her to meet at yours. Anyplace else is going to cost you both time and dollars. It also is going to CAUSE you to not get the notch. The first ten minutes is a lot better spent giving her a back massage rather than walking around the mall.

Once in the room...
Get physical. Build it up slowly but start right away. Kiss on the cheek, holding her hand, stroking her hair/back/legs. Go for the kiss early too and just keep it fun. Focus on her and try her having fun and comfortable. Play some local music or TV (in local language) to relax her a bit. In Colombia this was Mr. Black who has some catchy tunes.

Escalate fast but not hard and allow her lots of space if she isn't felling it right away. Try go a certain distance and then stop for five minutes. Then go again but a bit further.

Talk in English even if she doesn't understand you. Your meaning and vibe will still be communicated and it eases them a lot. The sound of your voice and can let her know you all about having fun and are a relaxed normal guy.

Pants off before Bra off. Leave the titties till you are already golden. Also if you are taking off pants go for panties in the same motion.


Have the date after the bang...

Afterwards I might order room service/watch a movie/talk for a while or go for a walk. This is great for the girl who doesn't want to feel like a slut for giving it up so fast. Keep it sweet for the next guy (general traveler reputation) and avoid just kicking them right out the door. Maybe she will have a friend in your next town or maybe she has a friend in this town. Get a photo together in bed or something fun and send it to her. Write a cool message after she leaves telling her that was fun and she is a sexy girl. Basically make them feel like the whole experience was fun and they didn't just get pumped and dumped. I would usually give them some money for a taxi home too. Especially if it was later in the evening.


General tips

Keep all messages simple. No jokes, no double meanings, no sexualization. Keep it fun but don't make jokes. There is a difference.

Check on your hotels policies on guest before booking. Tell them to bring ID if needed. Don't hang out in the lobby very long with girls. If possible try to get them to get the lift to your floor themselves. This is all to save you burning out your welcome at your hotel.

Tidy the room after every girl and have things like water and a phone charger handy. Let them send a 'I am here' text to whoever but after that put their phone on your night stand. Face down and on silent if possible.

Vibe. Good music, comfortable bed set up, shoes off, low lighting - in the day cover the windows most of the way - its easier to escalate in low lighting, drinks.

Have a fresh shower and look decent when you meet them. Many times I put on a shirt and dress pants only to take it back off half an hour later. Even though it is fast sex in your hotel room dress like you are actually going somewhere.


Conclusion

Hardcore online game is not for everyone but it can work great and be fun on a limited timeline. I like using it to supplement my game but it was a good learning experience to go all in for a week. For me that is enough and I prefer a few nice girls in a rotation to having new girls everyday most of the time.

Most of my lay reports are in more detail in these two threads:

http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-46477.html

http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-45754.html

I will try get some pics up too of the girls from the week...

[world_nomad]

Hey Atlantic -- thanks for the solid and thorough post. I am in Salento right now (30 minutes outside Pereira) but probably will be heading through Pereira and Cali next. Will definitely put some of this advice to use.

[GlobeTrotter]

Nice post Atlantic! From a logistics standpoint, is there an advantage or disadvantage to staying in a hotel as opposed to staying in a bachelor pad (or even regular apartment) via Air BnB?

[Atlantic]

(04-20-2015 07:51 PM)GlobeTrotter Wrote:  

Nice post Atlantic! From a logistics standpoint, is there an advantage or disadvantage to staying in a hotel as opposed to staying in a bachelor pad (or even regular apartment) via Air BnB?

I think girls feel somewhat more comfortable coming to a hotel than a private apartment. Not that a private apartment is not suitable but a fancy hotel has that extra level of security and maybe even a certain amount of opulence too that attracts the girls. Flip side of this is that a private apartment is much more secretive and allows the girls to be more sneaky.

A very nice advantage is room service and daily maid service. The room is always clean and food and drinks are only a call away. Also the swimming pool came in handy as a reason for girls to come but none of them ever actually used it.

[Cattle Rustler]

Try opening a multiple profile tabs, then click on "interest sent" while switching tabs using ctrl + tab to do it all in one swoops.

You can also cut and paste messages using ctrl + tab, click on send message, boom. It cuts going back and forth between profiles.

[DCBoss]

This is brilliant. I need to implement something like this before my next trip.

The only question I have is in regards to choosing a hotel vs. airbnb. Do you get any hesitation from the girls to meet you at a hotel instead of an apartment? The reason why I ask this is that I found Is that a lot of girls want to know that you're going to be around for awhile (studying, working, etc.). How do you pull that off with a hotel? Or do you just tell thrn you're there on vacation?

[Atlantic]

(04-20-2015 08:56 PM)DCBoss Wrote:  

This is brilliant. I need to implement something like this before my next trip.

The only question I have is in regards to choosing a hotel vs. airbnb. Do you get any hesitation from the girls to meet you at a hotel instead of an apartment? The reason why I ask this is that I found Is that a lot of girls want to know that you're going to be around for awhile (studying, working, etc.). How do you pull that off with a hotel? Or do you just tell thrn you're there on vacation?

Ya sure I had a lot of hesitation from some girls but I didn't meet with these girls. Other girls who were unsure I would just keep in touch over the week until they did come over or until they decided they wouldn't. The sure girls I meet early in the week. I didn't stay in an apartment so I can't contrast that against a hotel but I imagine it would be somewhat harder logistically and comfort wise but I could be wrong. Depends very much on the apartment, it location and the facilities.

Giving them the one week in town thing stops some girls from coming over but it also pressures other girls to act fast. It helps on one hand but also drives some girls away.

I say I am in town for a week to consider a job opportunity. If I like the city and the job I might end up staying here longer.