I just got back from a date where a certain incident happened and I feel like I could have handled it better .
Basically , a few months ago I had day gamed this chick that was disrespectful towards me . She flacked with last minute cancellations numerous times and on the third time I deleted her number and swiftly forgot about her .
However this girl lives in my area and so I would see her around from time to time with her cousins . I would simply say hi and keep it moving .
Today I was on a date with a certified 9 , when we ran into her and her cousins . I greeted her with a sly smile and said " Aye what's good " . She looked at my date and then punched me in my arm as if to say " damn you fucker " .
We then went into the store to buy ingredients for the homemade pizzas we were going to make .
As we exit the store , we run into them again and I don't acknowledge them as i'm in the middle of telling a joke to my date .
As we pass them for the second time , they actually stop , and start making silly noises . Also they start observing the contents of the plastic bag and start making silly remarks like " Oh he's got whisky " .
I thought about turning around , walking to where they were standing and telling them to shut the fuck up , but I wasn't sure how my date would react to a display of aggression / violence . So I choose to ignore it . ( It lasted for about 10 seconds )
Once we were clear , my date asked me " Who were those girls back there ? " and simply said , " Oh she's a friend of a friend " . And that was that .
How would you have handled the situation ?
Also , I'm sure I will run into those girls again as they live in my area . Next time I see them i'm contemplating telling them to not ever put me on blast like that ever again or there will be consequences .
Is this the right thing to do ? Or should I not even mention it and just keep it moving ?
Honestly I think that it's a good thing it happened because it shows that they were so intimidated and outmatched by my date that they felt the need to act stupid and harass us, but I feel like that sort of disrespect should not be tolerated .
Basically , a few months ago I had day gamed this chick that was disrespectful towards me . She flacked with last minute cancellations numerous times and on the third time I deleted her number and swiftly forgot about her .
However this girl lives in my area and so I would see her around from time to time with her cousins . I would simply say hi and keep it moving .
Today I was on a date with a certified 9 , when we ran into her and her cousins . I greeted her with a sly smile and said " Aye what's good " . She looked at my date and then punched me in my arm as if to say " damn you fucker " .
We then went into the store to buy ingredients for the homemade pizzas we were going to make .
As we exit the store , we run into them again and I don't acknowledge them as i'm in the middle of telling a joke to my date .
As we pass them for the second time , they actually stop , and start making silly noises . Also they start observing the contents of the plastic bag and start making silly remarks like " Oh he's got whisky " .
I thought about turning around , walking to where they were standing and telling them to shut the fuck up , but I wasn't sure how my date would react to a display of aggression / violence . So I choose to ignore it . ( It lasted for about 10 seconds )
Once we were clear , my date asked me " Who were those girls back there ? " and simply said , " Oh she's a friend of a friend " . And that was that .
How would you have handled the situation ?
Also , I'm sure I will run into those girls again as they live in my area . Next time I see them i'm contemplating telling them to not ever put me on blast like that ever again or there will be consequences .
Is this the right thing to do ? Or should I not even mention it and just keep it moving ?
Honestly I think that it's a good thing it happened because it shows that they were so intimidated and outmatched by my date that they felt the need to act stupid and harass us, but I feel like that sort of disrespect should not be tolerated .