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Over 50 bangs @ 23 years old. Where can I go from here?
04-05-2015, 12:45 PM
Going to do some day game in the city on the weekends. Get the ball rolling. My plan is to meet a girl (likely a tourist or visitor) and invite her or her friend back to my apartment right then and there. My target would be a solo girl or two girls traveling together.
From there I can work on locals and approach to set dates to meet for drinks
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04-05-2015, 01:39 PM
There really is no need to make things harder. If you enjoy what you are doing, and clearly you seem to be great at it, why not keep gaming as is and focus your energy on other areas of your life such as wealth, education, or something else? Just do what makes you happy. If I had a successful business, would I place unnecessary restrictions on how I do business to make it harder for me to make money? Hell no. If something works and is giving me the results I desire, I'm not going to adjust anything. Instead, maybe look to other aspects of your life that do need adjusting? Game is a means to and end, not an end in and of itself.
Just my thoughts anyway.
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04-05-2015, 05:51 PM
Looking for another challenge?
Replicate that total through ONLY direct approaching
At 23 that's an impressive feat, but thanks to technology 'finding' pussy has become as easy as ordering Chinese takeout
I'm 40+ and though I'm not sure of my exact total, but I would venture a guess I hadn't reached 50 by then. Social media and dating sites were still years away, but not once do I regret the work it took so by the time it did come around it was easy pickings in comparison.
Thing is, now matter how many game goals you meet, unless you are happy with other things in life it can lead to a hollow victory. Which is why guys albeit older most times, ask themselves the same "what's next?" question
Totally agree with Samsamsam, now is the time to pay it forward. This place is a great start to doing so.
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04-05-2015, 07:38 PM
I found your post very interesting OP as I have the opposite issue. I have never done online game of any kind and likely will not due to my situation. I have only cold approached exclusively and really not that much.
I have approached about 170 or so chicks, mostly through day game or "evening" game (in a large metropolitan city). My success rate with numbers has gotten higher for sure. After so many approaches, I can honestly say I can now initiate a street approach effectively. However, that's just scratching the surface. There are many challenges during the approach that build you up in reading body language and cues, throwing bait, negging and effectively closing numbers or dates. This is a lot; yet it is still not complete. There are other levels of day game that each player can challenge himself with.
For example, I have recently been experimenting with different venues aside from the street. These include malls, Whole Foods, Mariano's, Train stations etc. especially due to the cold here in the midwest. This has been a challenge as I have not had as much success in any of these venues as I have had on the street as far as legit numbers. That's honestly how it started for me in the street too; so not surprising. In addition, I had never hit on latin girls before, nor asian girls. I have started doing that now as well.
Doing all this has sort of thrown a wrench into my actual "during the approach" game as it may be slightly different in each venue. But I have no choice because I can't go on the street during this shitty cold so in order to squeeze in enough approaches, I have to hit other venues or other niches.
My advice, hence, would be to maybe stick to one type of venue, approach the shit out of it, reflect on it, and adjust. As far as the rest you will be ahead of me in a short period of time as your logistics, date and post date stuff are locked down quite well it seems.
Happy hunting!
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04-05-2015, 11:45 PM
Quote: (04-04-2015 10:03 AM)TrueSlyr Wrote:
Let me preface this post with a key points:
-23 years old, NYC
-Most of the bangs came from Tinder/OKC here in the city or from bars
Whats next for me? Something to give game/sex a new flavor/challenge for me?
I've never done cold approach so would be interested in trying that, but i cant do day game due to my job.. Would have to game girls on the street at night
Try to score older women? Threesome game? Increase SNL rates? Just curious what you've done when you felt you needed to give yourself a new challenge when it comes to women
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04-06-2015, 03:53 PM
I can completely relate, we are essentially the same age and I feel the same sometimes. As I passed that count, I started to get more interested in foreign girls, and trying different types of game (social circle, day game etc). My results were achieved more through night game, a bit of day game and also online so I had more of a hybrid approach to it so one didn't get too saturated and boring but I'm sure if I binged online I'd want to try day and night game just to experience the feeling of pulling a girl from those situations.
To be honest though, sometimes just maintaining mini-relationships, a couple of regulars or dating a girl isn't the worst thing, you can focus on other things without the constant urge to slay new pussy. Achieving too much too soon can leave you somewhat jaded.
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04-06-2015, 04:23 PM
Trying to up your count? You've got nothing to prove.
I'd suggest try to get a team going. Get a couple of regulars and standby and see how long you can make that work for you. If your game gets really good you can even try "macking" which is when you get them to pay for stuff for you. I've seen guys with high level game get some nice perks. I've got one buddy that got a girl to deposit over a grand in his account, and when I was in the Army I had a soldier who was getting girls to pay for most of his bills. One was paying his cellphone bills, another for his car, and so on. Our late NCOIC also had a system going where he'd sign up for dating sites when he was deployed and get girls he met online to send him care packages.
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04-08-2015, 02:00 PM
50 is good, but I've know trustworthy players who had triple digits and more at 25, it's all about how young you began and the time you put in to mastery, like any discipline.
I'm surprise that people think that is a lot.
To respond to the question of the OP, my suggestion would be to go for hotter girls and if you are already doing that, go for the dimes, I don't think you can ever get tired of doing that, at least not for another decade.
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04-08-2015, 04:43 PM
Thread title is like, "Earned over 1 Mil @ 30 years old, Where Can I go from here?"
You serious dude? I think you should be posting in the lifestyle or knowledge forums about your existential questions. No one here can give you meaning.
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04-08-2015, 05:45 PM
which is the quality do you usually score? and the maximum?
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04-09-2015, 11:45 PM
"Thread title is like, "Earned over 1 Mil @ 30 years old, Where Can I go from here?"
^^ this
Over 50 bangs @ 23 years old. Where can I go from here?
04-10-2015, 04:04 AM
I feel like I'm in a similar boat as you, but I'm on 173 lays @ 23 years old. Recently I've started day gaming hard and gotten few lays from it so far. Best think about it is you can seriously get the hot ones way easier than in the clubs. Takes up your time though walking the streets. Instant dates then back to my place is my goal as of right now for day game, done it only once but didn't plow her. Also I work full time so just do it 2-3 hours after work with a friend and weekends. Also I suggest travelling overseas and building some good relationships up with a few mains. The game never stops unless you relo, the thirst is real. I'm never bored fucking lol
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04-10-2015, 08:36 PM
Jokes aside, isn't this a question for your dick?
What do you like/want?
What women are you attracted to?
What do you want out of life?
What is your mission?
It's never too early to define these things.
And yeah, to some extent the question is like Mark Zuckerberg saying, "I created Facebook when I was twenty years old. Guys what company should I start next?"
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04-11-2015, 04:47 PM
Downward spiral into alcohol or drug dependency and premature death.
Shit, do whatever you want. You can let off the gas pedal on the women by now I think.
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