A girl I've been seeing for a few months (main girl of my harem) pulled some bullshit last night. I'm curious what you all recommend I do.
We saw a film "Locke" (which was fucking awesome, highly recommend, Hardy kills it) and I got the tickets. When we sat down, I smiled and told her some popcorn would be delicious. She gets it, I'm happy, I reward positive behavior and we watch the film.
Afterward it's 9:30pm and we walk to our cars and as we're about to go home she says she can't, and she's bummed about it. Turns out her sisters coerced her into going to some bachelorette party earlier that day. My girl said she already had a date, but her sisters have a strong influence over her and told her she could meet them after at 10pm.
I gave her a dissapointed look and told her it's rude to ditch someone in the middle of a date. At the very least, she should have told me beforehand. She looked pretty bummed and said she'd make it up to me. I said she could try, gave her a goodbye and walked away.
I had a slightly evil smirk later because I could tell she felt guilty.
I'm leaning toward letting it slide over as this is her first slip up. A day of radio silence and if she hits me up, she can make me a feast.
Thoughts?
We saw a film "Locke" (which was fucking awesome, highly recommend, Hardy kills it) and I got the tickets. When we sat down, I smiled and told her some popcorn would be delicious. She gets it, I'm happy, I reward positive behavior and we watch the film.
Afterward it's 9:30pm and we walk to our cars and as we're about to go home she says she can't, and she's bummed about it. Turns out her sisters coerced her into going to some bachelorette party earlier that day. My girl said she already had a date, but her sisters have a strong influence over her and told her she could meet them after at 10pm.
I gave her a dissapointed look and told her it's rude to ditch someone in the middle of a date. At the very least, she should have told me beforehand. She looked pretty bummed and said she'd make it up to me. I said she could try, gave her a goodbye and walked away.
I had a slightly evil smirk later because I could tell she felt guilty.
I'm leaning toward letting it slide over as this is her first slip up. A day of radio silence and if she hits me up, she can make me a feast.
Thoughts?
"Desserts are like mistresses. They are bad for you. So if you are having one, you might as well have two." - Alain Ducasse