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"Rape By Deception" Would almost be funny if it wasn't true
03-22-2015, 10:44 AM
Rape by deception is a crime in which the perpetrator has the victim's sexual consent and compliance, but gains it through deception or fraudulent statements or actions.
The media may also refer to this type of rape as "rape by fraud",[1] "rape by impersonation" or "rape by trickery"[
Not sure if you guys have heard about this but there's a new legal theory actually being used and tried in courts called rape by deception. Basically if you lie to a women and sleep with her, the theory says she couldn't consent to sex with you because she didn't truly know who you were or what you were about.
To me this is absolutely crazy. I feel like certain things though maybe morally and ethically wrong should not become criminal matters and especially not of this serious nature. This essentially says if you lie to a women and sleep with her you can be charged with rape.
I actually learned of this watching a dateline mystery show called "The Mystery Man" its on Youtube if anyone wants to watch it; where a bigomist guy lied about his identity, was married to this women for years, had a child with her and later was tried for rape about lying about who he was.
Now granted he was a conman and this was a pretty aggregious case, but it's a slippery slope. If lying can be turned into rape, how far do they take it?
If a guy overinflates his income to a women to impress her and then sleeps with her is he a rapist? If a guy says he wants kids and later decides he doesn't can he be charged with rape 5 years into the relationship for lying?
At the end of hte dateline show they talked about how in addition to bigamy and all the other stuff the guy was being charged with they mentioned rape by deception and said it's a new legal theory people are now just starting to be tried for. I really could not believe it this is insane to me.
What's your thoughts?
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03-22-2015, 10:50 AM
Are there any precedents besides that one married guy's case?
You call it a legal "theory" but is it actually a law? It seems it would have to be an established law to be worried about.
However, I also believe a legal precedent could be basis for "enforcing" this absurd idea.
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03-22-2015, 10:52 AM
This is policing people based on thoughts that they verbalize, very concerning.
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03-22-2015, 11:00 AM
Two people connect online.
Guy says he is white.
Chick wants to bang blindfolded.
They bang consensually.
Guy turns out to be Indian.
She cries rape.
There's a thread in everything else about this Australian case
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03-22-2015, 11:01 AM
Guy says I'll pull out, he doesn't
Chick ends up pregnant.
Deception?
Crime?
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03-22-2015, 11:02 AM
Girl says she's on the pill, she's not.
Guy pays child's support. Theft? extortion?
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03-22-2015, 11:22 AM
Quote: (03-22-2015 11:01 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Guy says I'll pull out, he doesn't
Chick ends up pregnant.
Deception?
Crime?
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Good points WIA.
Unfortunately, we live in times that are more and more devoid of common sense with each passing day.
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03-22-2015, 12:15 PM
Its only because they know that telling a chick what she wants to hear is how you pull them in the first place.
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03-22-2015, 02:08 PM
Now I can't use my "I'm a helicopter pilot and I just rescued 24 children stuck on a mountain top" line anymore. That one even worked when there were no mountains for the next 500 kilometers.
But seriously, this is nuts.
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03-22-2015, 02:27 PM
There have been such cases of guys saying they are pilots but turns out he's not a pilot but a cleaner or something. The woman finds out after sex and gets a lawyer.
If you needed hard proof that women are interested in money then this is it (if you didn't know it already). This is a judge essentially saying that the girl has slept with the guy based on his wealthy status and if you take that away she wouldn't be sleeping with him.
These cases are very rare however.
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03-22-2015, 06:12 PM
Sex by fraudulent means or subterfuge actually has deep historical precedent, and has been and is a crime throughout much of the world.
However, it is generally applicable only to maidens below a certain age. Because societies throughout history have understood that carousel riders and spinsters tend to just drain resources when they are extended such protections.
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03-22-2015, 06:20 PM
I do remember hearing in Mexico this was a crime for girls under a certain age, the idea being that men would promise girls they would get married and then never follow through.
The mindset behind that law is hilarious. Girls obviously would never fuck anyone without a promise of marriage. The false rape accusation of yesteryear was so much more innocent
"I swear mama, he said he had the ring but just forgot it at home!"
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"Rape By Deception" Would almost be funny if it wasn't true
03-22-2015, 08:12 PM
Quote: (03-22-2015 06:20 PM)Sonsowey Wrote:
I do remember hearing in Mexico this was a crime for girls under a certain age, the idea being that men would promise girls they would get married and then never follow through.
The mindset behind that law is hilarious. Girls obviously would never fuck anyone without a promise of marriage. The false rape accusation of yesteryear was so much more innocent
"I swear mama, he said he had the ring but just forgot it at home!"
Sex under a false promise of marriage, if the girl is 18-20 years old, is still a crime in Venezuela punishable by a year in jail. Venezuelan girls are supposedly some of the most beautiful in the world (along with Colombians), so the players had better be warned: no lying about marriage intentions!
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03-23-2015, 02:04 PM
Quote: (03-22-2015 06:01 PM)samsamsam Wrote:
Quote: (03-22-2015 02:27 PM)Vincent Chase Wrote:
There have been such cases of guys saying they are pilots but turns out he's not a pilot but a cleaner or something. The woman finds out after sex and gets a lawyer.
Do you have any links? I'd like to read that stuff.
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03-23-2015, 03:00 PM
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03-25-2015, 04:26 PM
Back in the mid-2000s, I remember a website where you could print up fake ATM receipts. Basically, when you meet a girl, you'd rummage through your pockets for paper, and write your Number on the flipside of the Receipt.
Being that girls are nosy, they of course are gonna take a look on the other side when they get home. Some guys on the Misc tried it, and they had girls that wouldn't leave them alone after they saw the 5 digit account balance.
Also, back when I was researching the Entertainment Industry, there was a guy named Victor Paleologus who would pretend to be an executive of certain Film companies. He had the technical jargon/lingo down pat and was knowledgable of all the intracacies of the business. He did this for almost 15 years without too much trouble, the only reason he received notoriety, is because a few of the aspiring girls he approached ended up becoming notable actresses.
I'd like to hear/see if anyone is successful w/ using these methods in the modern Era.
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"Rape By Deception" Would almost be funny if it wasn't true
03-25-2015, 05:00 PM
Girl dates an identical twin brother. Doesn't realise he has a brother that looks just like him.
The unknown brother pretends to be the guy she's dating. She fucks him, thinking it's someone else. He knows she is unaware of his true identity.
According to Australian criminal law, that constitutes a rape offence.