[jonny_r]

I like going to see bands play. We have a number of good places here that tend to bring some eclectic crowds.

The last time I went out was because this great-looking blonde invited me to a celebration she was having, and we ended up sitting next to each other talking about stuff. She admitted she and her boyfriend were on rocky roads.

Here's the thing. My voice, perhaps just because of it's tone/pitch is negated in these places. Nobody hears me. You'd think that'd be a good thing because I could get closer to her and speak in her ear, but it feels like I am yelling and losing out on the opportunity to make eye contact and send non-verbal signals.

When I was dating an ex, this was no problem because there was no need to try and make small-talk, but picking up someone where my voice isn't is tough shit.

[Dash Global]

body language my friend.

grind that ass in the club, makeout. then bounce her to ur pad or hers.

[jonny_r]

Good point, but I am a horrible dancer when it comes to "freestyle" shit! Not an excuse, just a fact.

[Dash Global]

fuck the freestyle. just stick to the basic back and forth motion in the hips. aint to hard. just watch, learn, and practice.

[jonny_r]

That's kinda what I mean with the freestyle. Do I move my feet lots, or my arms? Is it dumb to have a drink in my hand? I dunno.

[Chad Daring]

If you're not comfortable on teh dancefloor stick to places that play hip-hop/house/pop music. As a guy you can get away with nothing more then putting your hands on a girls hips and just kinda rocking back and forth.

I had a revelation this weekend that, while I've been told I'm a great dancer in places playing the aforementioned type of music, I cannot dance AT ALL to white people music. Give me reggae, blues, rap, electric, I'm fine but if a band starts playing a Bon Jovi cover I'm fucked.

I do feel what your saying though. The Maryland (not DC mind you) area has a lot of bars and venues where there will be live or loud music, but no one is really dancing. So you cant use dancefloor game to grind a girl and get her going, and you cant have a normal conversation because its to loud. The night boils down to a lot of WHAT, WHAT WAS THAT, SAY THAT AGAIN. This makes me more hesitant to approach in general

[jonny_r]

That makes a lot of sense. You know, there a country bar here where the norm is to two-step. I actually enjoy that a lot more because I can find my rhythm and still embrace the person. I guess you just gotta deal with the lame music and all is a-ok.

[oldnemesis]

(05-15-2011 07:06 PM)jonny_r Wrote:  

That's kinda what I mean with the freestyle. Do I move my feet lots, or my arms? Is it dumb to have a drink in my hand? I dunno.

If you dance in a typical American club, the only thing which matters is confidence. You can be a really shitty dancer with no sense of rhythm, but as long as you dance you will stand out from the majority of other guys (who also cannot dance, but have no confidence either). Personally here in US I've been complimented as "good dancer" even when dancing on some electronic crap which had no real rhythm, and in my opinion I screwed every possible move. But it didn't matter, because almost everyone else was holding the wall.

Now if you go to a salsa club or ballroom... that's a different story.

[puckerman]

I don't know why anybody thinks clubs are a good place to go. I hate them.

[Vicious]

What's with this recent trend of bumping several years old thread with one-line comments?

[Merenguero]

(02-02-2014 05:28 PM)Vicious Wrote:  

What's with this recent trend of bumping several years old thread with one-line comments?

Also, some of the worst posts in the history of the forum are in this thread.

[All or Nothing]

(02-02-2014 05:28 PM)Vicious Wrote:  

What's with this recent trend of bumping several years old thread with one-line comments?

Look at the poster above you. This is puckerman's doing.

Even better, he's finding threads with old beefs and one's that are semi-controversial and bumping them back up to the front page.

Here are some recent bumps done by puckerman:

(02-02-2014 05:28 PM)puckerman Wrote:  

(09-13-2013 11:07 AM)bojangles Wrote:  

Mehow and Vince Kelvin are fucking gays. Mehow has no game but gay game

I'm pretty sure that Vince Kelvin has some major issues, or maybe he had some when I saw him in 2007. I am talking drugs or something like that.

(02-01-2014 09:49 PM)puckerman Wrote:  

Fetlife is a sewer. I'm kind of embarrassed I stayed there for over three years.

I found one girl from my local area who is quite attractive and in her early 20's. It was easy for me to figure out who she was in real life.

On Fetlife, she was a Gorean kajira (slave) with a master and mistress. On Facebook, she had a fiance who was a completely different person. I thought about calling her out on it, but didn't.

But it reminded of what is wrong with the whole damned thing.

(02-01-2014 09:53 PM)puckerman Wrote:  

(04-10-2013 08:29 PM)A War You Cannot Win Wrote:  

I'm going to make son enlist in the USMC infantry so we can share the wonderful joys of being a junior lance corporal in a war zone fighting for a country that absolutely despises you

My older brother was a total AFC before the Marines and after. He's over 50 and very likely still a virgin.

Bottom line, the USMC is not a cure all.

(02-02-2014 05:30 PM)puckerman Wrote:  

Take her to a strip club.

Also, here is a gem that he dropped on the forum:

(02-01-2014 09:58 PM)puckerman Wrote:  

Start encouraging dominant behavior early. When I was four, I asked another four-year-old girl to take her pants off. Of course, she did. Her parents went nuts when they found us.

Build on that.

Teach him that the world is his playground, and that girls are fun toys to play with.

[svenski7]

(02-02-2014 08:40 PM)Merenguero Wrote:  

(02-02-2014 05:28 PM)Vicious Wrote:  

What's with this recent trend of bumping several years old thread with one-line comments?

Also, some of the worst posts in the history of the forum are in this thread.

What? You don't like Dash Global's posts?

Guy is a legend.

[Thomas the Rhymer]

(02-02-2014 05:28 PM)Vicious Wrote:  

What's with this recent trend of bumping several years old thread with one-line comments?

Necrotroll.

http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-5522-p...l#pid73774