I lost a three hour LMR battle tonight on a second date, but in it I experienced something for the first time in a very long time.
Like many others, I was driven to the game by anger. Roosh breaks it down in Bang - I'm sure many men in this forum have come here because they reached their own breaking point with women. While I had the best success ever in the game last year, this one throws me for a loop.
Maybe I am in a growing phase of my game, but I broke every rule tonight. I exhibited BF traits with this girl that I really thought I had a connection with, and she walked. Seeing myself slip, I started having this really weird red pill philosophical argument with her to mind fuck her. I don't see myself as a player, but she clearly was trying to slow down progression due to my missteps.
I think what set me over the top is how she was playing games. Even though you finger a girl, she still doesn't let you go for the bang. For some reason, this triggered past emotion and I wilted. She's texted me twice and called me once since leaving, to which I will not respond any time soon (learned my lesson).
With my back story out of the way, I think my question is simple - how do you guys deal with resurfaced anger? Does it ever go away after a certain notch count, or is this just a byproduct of the game that we have to play to get laid? If it does do resurface, is this something you learn to check with the correct frame?
Like many others, I was driven to the game by anger. Roosh breaks it down in Bang - I'm sure many men in this forum have come here because they reached their own breaking point with women. While I had the best success ever in the game last year, this one throws me for a loop.
Maybe I am in a growing phase of my game, but I broke every rule tonight. I exhibited BF traits with this girl that I really thought I had a connection with, and she walked. Seeing myself slip, I started having this really weird red pill philosophical argument with her to mind fuck her. I don't see myself as a player, but she clearly was trying to slow down progression due to my missteps.
I think what set me over the top is how she was playing games. Even though you finger a girl, she still doesn't let you go for the bang. For some reason, this triggered past emotion and I wilted. She's texted me twice and called me once since leaving, to which I will not respond any time soon (learned my lesson).
With my back story out of the way, I think my question is simple - how do you guys deal with resurfaced anger? Does it ever go away after a certain notch count, or is this just a byproduct of the game that we have to play to get laid? If it does do resurface, is this something you learn to check with the correct frame?