[jariel]

"Fake it till you make it"

I understand the sentiment behind that phrase, but honestly, that's just a euphemism for frontin'.

We're men, so at least there's a goal behind that, to portray yourself as something that you're actually working towards being.

Women do the opposite.

They just fake it.

Fake Swag

American women are walking around with a ton fake swag.

Some of their fake swag stems from their individual accomplishments, such as education, that they think will make men desire and respect them more. They have all these degrees, but can't make pancakes.

Some women are literally dedicating their lives to looking as good as they possibly can -- you can find them on Instagram, Tumblr, etc. but you shouldn't. But those looks are all they have. Most of them still have to suck a dick to get by, and outside of being fuck toys, they have nothing to offer which is why most of them are constantly in and out of relationships.

Fat American women might have the most fake swag of them all. Most of these women have big titties and big asses, and a lot of men like big titties and big asses, so they know that even though they are fat, that's not stopping them from getting opportunities to have sex. As a result, their fake swag stems from the fact that they know they can get dick, even though it's mostly dick they don't really want.

However, these women are conscious of the fact that being fat is not good for them physically nor mentally. Moreover, they hate themselves for knowing their physical states and the fact they've resigned themselves to the reality that they're not going to do a damn thing about it.

There are men out here with fake swag as well.

I live in a city with a million photographers, talent agents, "producers", etc. and none of them are worth shit. They're using their fake swag to get some pussy, but they're not taking pictures of anyone who matters. They're not representing anyone who matters. They're not producing shit. They're just looking for suckers to buy into their bullshit, and at the end of the day, the best thing they can say is "I fucked her".

Pussy isn't an accomplishment, it's entertainment.

You don't want fake swag. Fake swag is pretending to believe you're the shit while secretly hating yourself for knowing that who you are is who you're always going to be, and that ultimately, you're only going to get worse. There isn't always going to be someone who buys into your bullshit, and at some point, you'll hit rock bottom once you stop buying into it as well.

Swag on F

Swag on F is the opposite of Fake Swag. The former is based off real work while the latter is based on lying to yourself because it's easier and it makes you feel better.

It's easier to be a fat ass and tell yourself "fat is beautiful" than it is to hit the fuckin' gym like church and maintain a healthy nutritional routine that in tandem will transform you into a brand-new person.

Let me say it again, Swag on F is based off real work.

You have to constantly lift yourself up so that you can feel good about who you are as a man and your ability to ultimately live the life that you want to lead.

Looking good is not just important for picking up women.

This community doesn't encourage its members to hit the gym just so that they look more physically attractive to women. While that is a by-product of the hard work, it's not the motivation.

We encourage you to do so because it enables you to build a positive mindset.

When you can prove to yourself that you're going to keep promises you've made to yourself to take some time to be completely unavailable to the world so that you can take care of your body, then you will believe you can push yourself to do anything that you want to do.

When you have money, take the time to do something for yourself. Buy yourself a new pair of shoes, a new pair of jeans, a nice shirt, get a haircut from someone who can make you look good.

These things may cost a little extra money, but the extra expense is worth it in what it will do for you mentally.

Some people will think to themselves that what I'm talking about could cost them hundreds of dollars. Stop. We need to change the way we think about money.

The money it may cost you to purchase a new outfit and get a great haircut is probably the same money you're spending on weed, liquor, club entry fees, and other bullshit that doesn't do anything to help you get into a better place mentally nor physically.

When you know you look good, how much confidence will you have that the girl you want to step to in Starbucks will actually be interested in what you have to say?

When you know you look good, how much confidence will you have when you sit down in front of an HR person for a job interview?

You want your Swag on F because to win in life, you have to actually believe that you can conquer anything that you set your mind to. That belief comes from putting in work and seeing the results. The more work you do, the better results you'll get, and ultimately, the more you'll get addicted to doing that work so you can get those results, then one day you'll wake up and realize you're a force to be reckoned with.