Quote: (02-20-2015 10:12 AM)floridamedellin Wrote:
Quote: (02-20-2015 09:06 AM)Gosh900 Wrote:
Quote: (02-04-2015 11:51 AM)floridamedellin Wrote:
Hello I was hoping to get advice on what might be the best place to live for someone in my situation.
I am a 40 years old, have an athletic body, maybe a little above average looking and most think Im somewhere in the mid 30's. I am financially secure and have income from my business in Florida and some rentals. I currently have a home in Medellin where I spend 6 months a year and I have a home and business in SW Florida where I try my best to avoid at all costs haha.
I spent 3 months in Europe last year checking out different cities to see where I might want to buy a home and live in the spring and summer or perhaps summer and fall. I feel like all Europe is open to me because I can choose what months to live there however a mild winter would defiantly be a plus. When I was in Europe I spent time in Barcelona, Paris, Prague, Amsterdam, Budapest and Bucharest. I felt the most comfortable in Bucharest with the people probably because of the English ability of the people but I made some good friends there. I think why I hesitate is the lifestyle of the people is not quite what Im looking for. Seemed like I was back to smoking a pack a day again and I quite 10 years ago. Otherwise I enjoyed Prague a lot and probably met the nicest Women there and got laid the least![[Image: smile.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/smile.gif)
So what im looking for is a picturesque city in eastern Europe with intelligent, attractive Women to date for shorter and longer lasting relationships.
Medellin to add to my background is great for dating multiple Women but even though I speak conversational Spanish I find them to be homogenous and not exactly dynamic. In other words 95 percent bore me so much I usually dont go for a second date.
So I was hoping for advice on a city where I would have good opportunities to meet attractive, educated, intelligent Women to date and for possible long term relationships. So far from this forum I think in late March I will visit the Baltics, Balkans, Ukraine and specifically Odessa, check out Moldova and Belarus and perhaps get my visa to Russia. I heard saint Petersburg is nice. I also plan on learning a third language so while long term that will make things easy it will probably take at least 2 summers to begin to feel comfortable in the native language.
Thanks for taking time to read this post. Any ideas on second tier cities or countries I should concentrate on I thank you in advance.
Poland or the Baltics if you want real and gorgeous girls (they also speak english).
Russia may be cool but you need a visa and moscow is fucking expensive (but it probably has the most beautiful girls).
Ukraine is good if you want a cheap whore, a trophy woman, a girl full of complexes, gold diggers or women that desperately want you to take them out of their country.
I would never advise anyone to live there, especially if you're a normal guy and you can bang girls outside of the third world.
Thanks for the input. Its interesting to see the divergence of Opinion on Ukraine. I think thats important for me to see because I would try to match the persons opinion with the lifestyle that closest matches mine.
Do you consider Ukraine a poor choice because the desperation and poverty breeds Women that are untrustworthy and deceptive, or are you referring to the quality of life in that country overall? Im a high net worth person so i can make a good life wherever I go and tend to find the less Westernized places generally friendlier and easier to make friends and of course date Women.
I do however have problems with certain aspects of the third world mindset. for instance here in Medellin the culture does not have a strong tendency twords honesty. Women lie constantly here and it appears to be a cultural thing more than anything else. Its hard to get a handle on sometimes but then I simply need to remember that it is after all a game and I have a goal and I suppose they do as well. Do you think I will encounter pretty much the same thing in Ukraine with the Women?
Can I ask you about your lifestyle? Are you a partier or more health and fitness type like myself? Do you enjoy dating multiple girls or relationships? Im trying to get an idea of how your opionon is shaped. Thanks for the input
I didn't like Ukraine for different reasons, I'll try to list them here:
1) The language barrier: few ukrainian girls speak fluent english.
Many people here underestimate the negative consequences of this but a large group of girls are unapproachable because they speak no english at all, some others speak only basic english and it's a pain in the ass to interact with them. I really don't like it because I want to have fun when I approach someone, tell stories, make jokes, use double entendres ecc...with ukrainian girls all this can't be done.
2) Even when they speak a bit of english they are boring!! This is probably the biggest problem I have with them. I'm used to approach italian girls and I have lots of fun with them, sometimes things don't go in the direction I want but almost anytime I have fun.
Good luck to have fun with ukrainian girls! It looks like you speak to a wall.
They tend to suppress emotions and have few or nothing to share.
3) They are full of complexes. They don't see sex as something normal that happens between a guy and a girl, they see it like a prize to a man, as if they don't enjoy the sex. How stupid and annoying. They use it like a weapon to control men and it sucks
I know that girls tend to protect their reputation when it comes to sex but there is a difference between normal girls (who have sex if you establish the right privacy for them) and psycho girls (who will drag things on and on until you basically lose interest).
As a consequence ONS with decent looking girls are rare.
4) They are gold diggers. For the most part, not every girl but a good proportion of them. They enjoy luxury things, places, clothes, restaurants ecc and of course the culture there is that the man pays for everything. I can accept it on a short term basis (when we start dating), but they want it long term and I can't accept it.
5) They are deceptive, really. They want someone that take them out from their country and the majority of them are willing to do whatever it takes to reach that goal.
Some men are incredibly stupid and think that their "girlfriends" are true sweethearts! LOL.
And yeah, at a superficial level it appears it's like that because they'll cook for you, they take care of you, they act very sweet and girly but deep down those are just tools they use to appear like "perfect wife material". Once a man stupidly marry her and take her out of her country who know what will happen! Most of the time something bad happens and I can link you an italian site who is solely dedicated on ruined relationships with ukranian girls. There are really hundreds of stories and they all share the common traits listed above.
There are of course some men who have healthy relationships with them even after the marriage but the astounding amount of ruined relationships shouldn't be taken lightly.
6) Money=status. This may be bad or not, depends on your take about it. Personally I don't like it. A girl to me should have other values. If I wanna a girl who just care about money I would hire an escort rather than go to Ukraine. Of course not every girl is like that but if we consider that we'll meet the vast majority of the girls in some clubs, well...a huge % of girls in those clubs are exactly like that.
7) Food sucks.
Well, there are other reasons why I don't like Ukraine but these ones are enough to make my point.
Consider, anyway, that I'm a 23 yo guy. I seek fun and adventure and not just beauty.
When I'll be older I may change my mind and like Ukraine, but for now well, I like western girls more even though they are more difficult to score (but easier for ONS).
Poland and the Baltics are more developed than Ukraine and I like them a lot more.
P.S: I absolutely love fitness! I go to the gym 5 times a week (split workout) and I eat as best as I can. I have a very strict diet and I basically eat just organic meat, fruits and vegetables, wild caught alaskan salmon, tuna (not so much for the mercury risk), nuts and seeds.
I'm not into relationships now and I won't be for the foreseeable future, I just want to enjoy my age and the freedom.
Good luck, keep in mind that my opinion is personal and lots of guys here don't agree with me. We have different tastes.