Hey folk,
A friend of mine and I made a bet: he thinks I wont be able to go out on a date with an unknown - hot - girl that I contact via facebook.
I tried.
I contacted 5 "hotties", 2 replied, 3 didnt.
Among the 2 that replied (my opening is quite lame, but not threatening "Did I meet you at xxxxx club, last friday), with 1 I managed to overcome the initial defenses.
We actually e-mailed back and forth, about 9 times within 3 weeks.
She is a waitress (argh, Roosh, dont scold me, I didnt know!) ;-).
She is hot, has never been outside the US (ergo I DHV thank to being well traveled, speaking 4 languages etc), she is nice but not exactly Einstein.
It worked out quite well and I found out she is single.
When I finally asked her out (after 4 e-mails), she replied with the typical:
"I'm actually seeing someone...we will see, in case it doesnt work out we will go for a coffee".
Instead of taking it as a no - as I used to do before - I pushed even further the cocky funny with something in the vein of:
"Lol, so, you turn me down? do you really believe I take no for an answer? hahah, foolish girl. I wouldnt even be born if my dad stopped pursuing my mum after the first time she said no! Actually, half the population of my country wouldnt exist if we werent persistent. The guy got to earn his date! Watch out girl, I'll ask u out again. Now instead tell me about that....blah blah blah...".
She loved it and kept e-mailing me back on and on.
This week I'm leaving the US to go back to my country for Xmas, therefore I e-mailed her again, with non-chalance, to say I'm soooo eager to leave the States.
She replied as usual ("Soo great you travel so much, lucky you, I havent even ever been out of the US, except Mexico!") and, surprisingly, asked me what I'm doing this week before I leave.
Taking it as an opening - as every normal man would - I suggested a coffee.
I havent heard back since.
6 days passed (included the "coffee" day, of course).
Usually she replies within 1-2.
I think the window of opportunity closed, for whatever reason, and I should just move on.
Please enlighten me if you see/understand the blatant mistake I made.
The paradox is, now, my friend (that should root against me to win the bet, LOL) is all fired up and argues that I should try a different, less direct approach, like add her as a friend on facebook (so we can chat online), or ask for her number "so we can talk and I can finally hear your voice".
This way, he argues, I will ease my way in, until she is more comfortable and will agree to come out on a date.
Personally I'm more tempted to simply move on.
Thoughts, suggestions?
Change of tactic for a last approach or instead, "Next!"?
As usual, thanks for your inputs folks.
A friend of mine and I made a bet: he thinks I wont be able to go out on a date with an unknown - hot - girl that I contact via facebook.
I tried.
I contacted 5 "hotties", 2 replied, 3 didnt.
Among the 2 that replied (my opening is quite lame, but not threatening "Did I meet you at xxxxx club, last friday), with 1 I managed to overcome the initial defenses.
We actually e-mailed back and forth, about 9 times within 3 weeks.
She is a waitress (argh, Roosh, dont scold me, I didnt know!) ;-).
She is hot, has never been outside the US (ergo I DHV thank to being well traveled, speaking 4 languages etc), she is nice but not exactly Einstein.
It worked out quite well and I found out she is single.
When I finally asked her out (after 4 e-mails), she replied with the typical:
"I'm actually seeing someone...we will see, in case it doesnt work out we will go for a coffee".
Instead of taking it as a no - as I used to do before - I pushed even further the cocky funny with something in the vein of:
"Lol, so, you turn me down? do you really believe I take no for an answer? hahah, foolish girl. I wouldnt even be born if my dad stopped pursuing my mum after the first time she said no! Actually, half the population of my country wouldnt exist if we werent persistent. The guy got to earn his date! Watch out girl, I'll ask u out again. Now instead tell me about that....blah blah blah...".
She loved it and kept e-mailing me back on and on.
This week I'm leaving the US to go back to my country for Xmas, therefore I e-mailed her again, with non-chalance, to say I'm soooo eager to leave the States.
She replied as usual ("Soo great you travel so much, lucky you, I havent even ever been out of the US, except Mexico!") and, surprisingly, asked me what I'm doing this week before I leave.
Taking it as an opening - as every normal man would - I suggested a coffee.
I havent heard back since.
6 days passed (included the "coffee" day, of course).
Usually she replies within 1-2.
I think the window of opportunity closed, for whatever reason, and I should just move on.
Please enlighten me if you see/understand the blatant mistake I made.
The paradox is, now, my friend (that should root against me to win the bet, LOL) is all fired up and argues that I should try a different, less direct approach, like add her as a friend on facebook (so we can chat online), or ask for her number "so we can talk and I can finally hear your voice".
This way, he argues, I will ease my way in, until she is more comfortable and will agree to come out on a date.
Personally I'm more tempted to simply move on.
Thoughts, suggestions?
Change of tactic for a last approach or instead, "Next!"?
As usual, thanks for your inputs folks.