Ya all motherfuckers need to go learn salsa or Judo
JJG wanna jump in with your wisdom?
I lift girls off their feet all the time, it's almost a reflex now. Girls love being manhandled and it really shows off your masculine side, particularly since most guys are so beta they don't even dare to touch a girl.
The catch is that you need to do it without hesitation or fear. Aint no point showing masculinity and muscle if you actually struggle to lift her (you even lift bro?) or drop her on her ass.
There's so many ways to lift girls up, I'll go with the most basics:
-If you are walking side by side: suddenly stop, she should be taking one or two steps forward. Now you are right at her back. Wrap your arms around her mid back just under her arm-pit. The other arm goes directly behind her knees and sweep up FAST. For better balance you should have the leg on the side of the first arm forward. Bend down if you have to, but it's better to use the first arm to lift her up so your other arm can just sweep her up. Do it fast, if the girl has time to scream before she's flying you are doing it wrong.
-If you are talking and standing around, make a funny comment/remark and point to another direction to distract her. This by itself should be a great tease. When she turns away do the above.
-If you are both sitting, get off your chair. Put one of her arm around your neck and do as above. Hell for special effects lift her up together with the chair (not recommended for newbie... Physical pain is sure to follow). I did this from time to time and always brighten girls up.
-If you have already established comfort with the girl or she's really interested, when you first see her and she's walking toward you for a hug, hug her then step on the side, wrap your arm around her midback , lift her up and swing her body to throw her legs over your other arms. Something like this at 1:09 but catch her leg with your other arm.
-For special effects and added fun, after you do the above like the video at 1:09, spin around and swing her around. She will scream like a baby and then you will have tons of shit to neg her with. I do this by default with girls that I like and it always work like a charm.
I stretch that none of this would work if your frame is weak or you don't do it with conviction. Do this with a laugh. If she doesn't like it (she does. If not ditch the bitch) and pretend to complain neg her about it and pretend it never happens. Ex: sometimes I lift girls that are really petite and light. After the lift and swing, as they are still catching breath and I would laugh and add "damn girl you are OBESEEEEEE" Works even better if you are ripped, then she definitely knows it's an exaggerated joke. Give her shit.
If you really feeling it then do a dirty dancing style lift 3:20
Any of you fucker that drops the girl, fucking hit the gym or stop chasing fatties for fuck's sake. I'm 5"4 125lbs and I lift girls taller than me on a daily basis.