[NovaVirtu]

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his post originally appeared in VICE UK​

We've all had the thought, Damn, I hope a lot of my previous sexual partners have a massive fight at my funeral, right? What is the point of dying if your death isn't going to make people so mad they physically assault each other? If there aren't two equally hot widows only just discovering the existence of the other as they lower you into the ground, what have you lived for? If there is not a punch-up at my funeral, I refuse to die. I haven't made enough women mad at me yet.

In Romania, it's not a fantasy. Last month, 24-year-old Lothario Daniel Decu was buried in Segarcea, in the southeast of the country, and dozens of young women turned up to mourn their lost lover. And then it emerged that he'd died of complications from HIV, and the whole thing turned into a massive, awful shouting match.

Since then, eight women have tested positive for the virus, with a rumored 40 more preparing to take the test. And that's just in Segarcea: Daniel spent a year in Italy before returning home to die, and the authorities are trying to search for his former lovers further afield.

Just a reminder if you missed it earlier: Daniel Decu was 24 when he died.

There's been a lot of finger-pointing in Romania following the Segarcea case, mainly at the freshly filled bit of ground under which Decu is buried—the Romanian media, particularly, is convinced his entire sex life was a decade-long act of criminal intent and not just a misinformed teenager sleeping around. A local doctor who discovered Decu's status when he found out he was seeing his daughter alleges he was warned off disclosing this information by Decu's mother, Elena, who threatened to sue him if he did. "I knew he had a lot of female friends," he said, "but there was nothing I could do about it."

If you're thinking, But dude, you can't just go around disclosing people's HIV status! then welcome to Romania. The country was devastated by HIV and AIDS in the late 80s and early 90s, with the true extent of the epidemic only coming to light when dictator Nicolae Ceaușescu was toppled in 1989. The problem didn't stop there, though: There were a spate of infections in the early 90s—largely among children being treated in hospitals with poor sterilization practices. These problems, wedded to a powerful Romanian Orthodox Church, meant that prejudice and social abandonment awaited anyone coming out as HIV positive.

In the early 90s, doctors were about as careful with HIV status information as they were with human blood, scrawling it large on medical reports to the point that entire neighborhoods often knew of a child's positive diagnosis before the kid did. In Romania, HIV is still largely (and wrongly) viewed as a death sentence, and those who have it are shunned.

Which is all sort of a perfect storm for developing what is now a full-blown HIV epidemic, with Daniel Decu its most high-profile victim. I asked the VICE Romania office how the country is responding to the news, and while there's been a lot of inward-facing analysis as a result of the Segarcea case, the main problem hasn't been confronted—and that's the almost total lack of sex education in the country.

"In Romania, sex ed is sometimes taught in schools at one class, from one optional subject the children's parents can sign them up for called 'Health Education,'" VICE Romania's Mihai Popescu explained. "There you learn about hormonal changes, sexuality, protecting yourself from STDs, and how to give first aid. But nobody goes to it."

Could the UK learn any lessons from the Segarcea case? In terms of HIV awareness, yup. In a Public Health England report entitled " HIV in the United ​Kingdom 2014" released this week, it was estimated that, of the 107,800 people thought to be living with HIV in the UK, 24 percent are unaware of their infection. While HIV testing facilities are improved—there is now 88 percent coverage across STI clinics in the UK, and early diagnosis is the best way of managing the virus—late diagnosis is still high, with 57 percent of the 6,000 or so diagnoses made last year being delayed due to infrequent testing. Education is still key to stopping the spread of HIV, no matter how mad your church might get at you for learning it.

Damn...I, uh....game recognized?



I'm not even sure how to react to this. You'd think a kid with this much experience would know would have at least suspected he got the Hi-Five, especially given how common it is in his country there. Possible he just knew and didn't give a fuck, in which case good riddance.

Funny, sad and all around bizarre at once.

Is HIV really that big a problem in Romania? I haven't read anything to that effect on here, it seems like certainly would have come up.


Below: The young man in question:

[Roosh]

His game must be doubly strong considering he doesn't even lift.

[TheWastelander]

I'd like to know how he caught it.

[HighSpeed_LowDrag]

(11-23-2014 03:50 PM)NovaVirtu Wrote:  

Is HIV really that big a problem in Romania? I haven't read anything to that effect on here, it seems like certainly would have come up.

Romania actually has one of the lowest rates of HIV infection in Europe: Link

What's scary is that countries that get a lot of visitation from people on this forum like Estonia, Ukraine, and Russia have prevalence rates at or over 1% in the adult population aged 15-49.

Another reason to wrap it up, guys.

HSLD

[KofiKingston]

(11-23-2014 04:06 PM)TheWastelander Wrote:  

I'd like to know how he caught it.

Probably was on the D/L, or a junkie and caught it through needle sharing.

[portofmanteau]

(11-23-2014 03:50 PM)NovaVirtu Wrote:  

I'm not even sure how to react to this. You'd think a kid with this much experience would know would have at least suspected he got the Hi-Five, especially given how common it is in his country there. Possible he just knew and didn't give a fuck, in which case good riddance.

Apparently he knew, and his mom threatened to sue his doctor after he had sex with the doctor's daughter, and the doctor wanted to publicize his infected status.

Never heard of a law like this:

"Aids[sic] remains the only disease specifically mentioned in a Romanian criminal law, where it says the transmission of the virus by a person who already knows he or she is infected can be punishable with a jail term of between five and 15 years."

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-...-Aids.html

As an aside, pretty funny that the daily news team writes it as "Aids".

[Pizdetz]

Did he share a needle?
I can not see it happening through sex.................
Unless there is blood sucking involved...
Afterall - itz iz Roumaniaaa..!!

[Foolsgo1d]

I hope nobody calls this guy alpha. Willingly raw dogging that many women when you suspect you have something is negligent.

[Brian Shima]

I know heroin is still considered chic and hip in a lot of European art communities

[Peregrine]

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I hope nobody calls this guy alpha. Willingly raw dogging that many women when you suspect you have something is negligent.

Since when did alpha = saint?

http://therationalmale.com/2011/10/20/alpha/

[civpro]

Crazy, I guess Romania is a very easy place.

[Nonpareil]

'Alpha' or not (), rawdogging a bunch of chicks when you suspect you have something is pretty damn shady...

[Soberane]

(11-23-2014 04:03 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

His game must be doubly strong considering he doesn't even lift.

Knowing he has a disease and will die any time soon, he probable had a "I don't give a fuck" aptitude, borderline suicidal girls love.

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And incredibly, it was also revealed that when a local doctor in the town of Segarcea, in south-eastern Romania's Dolj County, tried to warn people he was suffering from the disease, he was threatened with a lawsuit by the man's mother.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexy_son_hypothesis




His Facebook is still up


Here he is, the one keeling next to the girl in purple


The guy knows how to stand


Notice the chick holding both but leaning toward him, how difference are both guys body language



Here is the girl in the DailyMail picture in full body

[samsamsam]

The thing that probably got him laid was the Asian character tattoos. They probably mean chopstick or something similar but the girls thought they were badass.

[kaotic]

Great read, shitty he got HIV, but that's his own doing, kinda fucked upped about passing HIV onto his lovers.

Then again we do some stupid shit for pussy, including passing on STD's, clearly he didn't give a shit about that.

[General Stalin]

I need to get my ass to EE, obviously.

[civpro]

Yeah, looking at the extended series of photos it seems my suspicions are confirmed - Romania has to be EXTREMELY easy. Standard issue skinny mousey looking slav - in the west he'd either be pussywhipped/cucked by a long term girlfriend within his community... or dating an Asian girl. Guess all it takes there is a small bit of charm and low inhibition and you're propelled to slayer status.

[Truck'n]

(11-23-2014 04:03 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

His game must be doubly strong considering he doesn't even lift.

no shit.

he looks short too. maybe he had an abnormally sized dick?

[spokepoker]

I doubt he was needle sharing, but considering how prevalent the virus is in that country, it's either from a single positive lay, or the horrible hospital conditions.

[Jackr]

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If you're thinking, But dude, you can't just go around disclosing people's HIV status! then welcome to Romania.

If you're thinking, "But dude, you can't just go around disclosing to someone's likely sexual partners that he's carrying a communicable virus that's in many cases deadly and in any case very difficult and costly to manage," you may be a fucking brainwashed nancy.

This author's take on HIV is incredible. If he's right that HIV is easy to avoid when you take precautions—and my understanding is that is correct—then what's the big deal if everyone knows someone has the virus? Don't share needles with him and don't fuck him without a condom, and you're good.

But the combination of HIV IS NO BIG DEAL, BIGOTS and HIV IS NO ONE ELSE'S BUSINESS is insane and contradictory, and enables guys like this to pass it along to 10+ people. You don't need a national registry of HIV patients, but it's the very height of negligence to tell people not to protect others in their communities by passing along what they know.

[infowarrior1]

(11-24-2014 04:18 PM)Soberane Wrote:  

(11-23-2014 04:03 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

His game must be doubly strong considering he doesn't even lift.

Knowing he has a disease and will die any time soon, he probable had a "I don't give a fuck" aptitude, borderline suicidal girls love.

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And incredibly, it was also revealed that when a local doctor in the town of Segarcea, in south-eastern Romania's Dolj County, tried to warn people he was suffering from the disease, he was threatened with a lawsuit by the man's mother.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexy_son_hypothesis




His Facebook is still up


Here he is, the one keeling next to the girl in purple


The guy knows how to stand


Notice the chick holding both but leaning toward him, how difference are both guys body language



Here is the girl in the DailyMail picture in full body

If they have HIV the world will be deprived of those hot chicks pretty soon

[VolandoVengoVolandoVoy]

It's neither hard nor impressive to rack up numbers when you are banging a bunch of 5s and 6s. And that's being generous, some of those girls are plain ugly.

[Vronsky]

This is the sort of shit that would get a person shot, or at the very least hung. Knowing you have a virus like HIV and continuing to bang women without communicating it? If I was the doctor I would be very tempted to break the infected guy's legs and his mother's too.

[AntiTrace]

hate all you want, this is funeral a player deserves. this is the funeral I want.]

minus the whole HIV thing. I want to die from a heart attack getting a blumpkin