I've been on 3 dates with a girl. Nice girl, 32yo, somewhat youthful appearance, thought she looked attractive/cute on the first coffee meet up, so I took her out dancing for another date and then bowling last weekend.
Problem is, she's hardcore wallflower and I think she's a hardcore Catholic. Plus, for whatever reason, she's not looking as attractive as she appeared on the first date, she's more like a 'quintessential 5'. My game is still in it's micro-embyronic stage and I haven't been able to create much escalation with her since she's so inhibited, has all the hardcore introvert hobbies: bookworm, worked in a library at university, into classical music, etc. I'm a solid introvert myself and I just never click with these girls. I'm one of those quirky, laconic, introverted-extrovert types of guys, I like some geeky hobbies, but also love going out, I've always done best with girls slightly more extrovert than myself.
We texted back and forth again yesterday, I was thinking of giving it one more shot for a little date this week; I am genuinely curious about her Catholic faith and sharing some of my Protestant/red pill beliefs. Maybe that can be my out to end it, or should I just wind it down with less texts, no calls, drift off into silence? How have you guys handled this?
Problem is, she's hardcore wallflower and I think she's a hardcore Catholic. Plus, for whatever reason, she's not looking as attractive as she appeared on the first date, she's more like a 'quintessential 5'. My game is still in it's micro-embyronic stage and I haven't been able to create much escalation with her since she's so inhibited, has all the hardcore introvert hobbies: bookworm, worked in a library at university, into classical music, etc. I'm a solid introvert myself and I just never click with these girls. I'm one of those quirky, laconic, introverted-extrovert types of guys, I like some geeky hobbies, but also love going out, I've always done best with girls slightly more extrovert than myself.
We texted back and forth again yesterday, I was thinking of giving it one more shot for a little date this week; I am genuinely curious about her Catholic faith and sharing some of my Protestant/red pill beliefs. Maybe that can be my out to end it, or should I just wind it down with less texts, no calls, drift off into silence? How have you guys handled this?
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