[Tai]

Hi everyone,
I am an international student in an American college and I have found a disturbing trend almost all girls that I am interested in(skinny, cute face, tight ass) have boyfriends. This is very annoying, as before I came to to America, most articles/posts I read online(not Roosh V but other sites) would tell me how college was the paradise to get laid. What they forgot to mention is that most of the bangable material, was probably all the uglier girls. It's kinda like saying all you can eat at Mcdonalds!

What are your thoughts about this?

[Kaleb]

College girls are very apt to cheat on their boyfriends. Almost every girl I've been with since I've started college has had a boyfriend.

[Rang off the Pipe]

For one thing, the quality of girls and their inclinations vary wildly with each school. And that doesn't include other factors such as nightlife and academics. The best advice I can give you is to find the right niche so that you can meet more attractive girls to game. Hopefully those girls are single.

[Grit]

or morr specifically IRT

Five minutes on the forum and you would know girls say all kinds of shit. None of which is true, just thrown in as stumbling blocks.

[Cattle Rustler]

They don't have boyfriends, they have providers.

[Tai]

(09-20-2014 11:32 PM)Grit Wrote:  

or morr specifically IRT

Five minutes on the forum and you would know girls say all kinds of shit. None of which is true, just thrown in as stumbling blocks.

No troll man. I actually have met their boyfriends. One of this girls was my RA, and I was trying to step up my game to snatch her from her bf.I didn't work out.

[Nomad77]

As the quality in America drops the demand for decent looking girls raises. A lot of guys are willing to do a lot of shit to keep these girls around.

[Dantes]

(09-20-2014 10:12 PM)Tai Wrote:  

Hi everyone,
I am an international student in an American college and I have found a disturbing trend almost all girls that I am interested in(skinny, cute face, tight ass) have boyfriends. This is very annoying, as before I came to to America, most articles/posts I read online(not Roosh V but other sites) would tell me how college was the paradise to get laid. What they forgot to mention is that most of the bangable material, was probably all the uglier girls. It's kinda like saying all you can eat at Mcdonalds!

What are your thoughts about this?

Women are relationship minded. High quality women are in demand and therefore have plenty of opportunities to develop relationships. However, this does not mean that they can't be gamed and banged particularly during this phase of their life in which they are likely to experiment.

[Nomad77]

It is possible that any girl, whether she has a boyfriend or is married, can be available for sex with the RIGHT guy AT the right time. But you basically have to get lucky at being that right guy at that right time.

[Mr terrible]

Don't go for the 7.5 and up. Go for the 6-7 and you can bang all day long. Of course, hot girls are going to have boyfriends.

[BDawg]

The term "boyfriend" is very purple nowadays.

[Dantes]

(09-21-2014 10:58 AM)Mr terrible Wrote:  

Don't go for the 7.5 and up. Go for the 6-7 and you can bang all day long. Of course, hot girls are going to have boyfriends.

I disagree. There is nothing wrong with banging 6-7, but don't limit yourself. Why impose limitations on yourself because it is hard? It is bad psychologically and for confidence. Go for gold and believe that you deserve nothing less that an attractive, high quality woman.

[Comte De St. Germain]

Keep those with boyfriends on the backburner. The second the boyfriend disappears and they are on the "rebound"(aka new dick) provide them with alcohol and a dominating presence. They will grab your dick and never let go.

[keysersoze]

This is so true. ^

There was a girl who lived in an apartment across from mine last year. We partied together and she was definitely attracted to me, but she wouldn't cheat on her boyfriend. Eventually, they broke up and she seemed like the thirstiest girl I've ever met. Hooked up me and several guys I know and now has a new relationship. This is all in the span of about 2 months.

Point is, most of these relationships end at some point. These relationship girls need a guy. They can't go without one (or many). Keep your eyes open and keep working.

[Statsi]

Why do you care? You don't owe girls their fidelity, just go for the ones you like. If you are discreet and private then there's no problem.

[Comte De St. Germain]

(09-21-2014 12:46 PM)keysersoze Wrote:  

Point is, most of these relationships end at some point. These relationship girls need a guy. They can't go without one (or many). Keep your eyes open and keep working.

THIS. All the hot girls are constantly looking for a new guy to pose with for Instagram or to brag to their friends about after a break up.

[Tai]

Hey guys do you know how to work this specific type of girl? My approach so far has been to play it cool, and also be friendly to her boyfriend.

For instance, I went with this girl, her friend and boyfriend to Bryan Park and was just chill, talking about movies and stuff. I did not diss her boyfriend or anything like that since that would make her antagonistic towards me. I still have not figured the right approach, I am just waiting in the dark to jump when sometimes happens.

[BDawg]

(09-21-2014 03:41 PM)Tai Wrote:  

Hey guys do you know how to work this specific type of girl? My approach so far has been to play it cool, and also be friendly to her boyfriend.

For instance, I went with this girl, her friend and boyfriend to Bryan Park and was just chill, talking about movies and stuff. I did not diss her boyfriend or anything like that since that would make her antagonistic towards me. I still have not figured the right approach, I am just waiting in the dark to jump when sometimes happens.

Clarity of intent will have you avoid the label of being creepy.

I'm guessing you are talking about Bryant Park in NYC. South of 14th street is where all the fun is. Manhattan is style sensitive, but an H&M blazer with a dress shirt that complements your complexion could be the trick, for example. Nice leather shoes and then you can daygame.

When you meetup with a girl's friend, it is like a second opinion on a home. It is human nature to have a negative angle and many times you will be disqualified.

Meet up with their friends after sex and Oxycontin bonding with eclipse this.

[tallandblonde]

I spent 4 years at a college where all the hot girls (which were admittedly far and few in between) generally either went through a variety of "committed" relationship or were incredibly picky about who they got with. It's amazing what an ego these girls get when given a lack of competition.

Some will cheat on their boyfriends, others will stay faithful. I guess it's totally your call whether or not you get with girls that aren't single. I had a pretty sour experience this past spring after banging a girl with a boyfriend for like 2+ months. She was hot, and her huge fat ass bf never found out, but she took the fact that she was cheating out on me. Overall wasn't worth the emotional drama. Should have just pumped and dumped.

[Noir]

re: OP

They have boyfriends to show face. It's usually status. College is incestuously narcissistic in that manner. They aren't looking for others but they are open to auditions.

(09-21-2014 03:41 PM)Tai Wrote:  

Hey guys do you know how to work this specific type of girl? My approach so far has been to play it cool, and also be friendly to her boyfriend.

This age group is easy. Realize the power of discretion.

- see her when her boyfriend is not there, never mention him, he is a figment of her imagination

- aloof in social context, indirect verbally, direct nonverbally (body language)

- charming to others social context and to her in private context (transition from aloof to charming is her reward, that's what hooks them)

- drop subtle hints that you don't kiss and tell.

- what part of me attracts her the most and polarizes her boyfriend? She wants me because I am nothing like her boyfriend and elicit different emotions and make her pussy tingle. Amplify this. If I like her, she will automatically bring it out in me, akin to a venn diagram intersecting.

- flirt with her single friends. All of them.

It is much easier than you think, generally. This is what works for me. I noticed most repeat-bangs over the past 12 months were girls with boyfriends.

I can break it down post-sex as well if you want but really, it is just you accepting/declining her advances. I never overtly make moves on girls with boyfriends, I just backstage charm her and amplify my status in light of her boyfriend.

She is always gonna compare me with him and because she likes me, she will justify this to herself and come up with new reasons for why I am awesome and it perpetuates.

[heavy]

Lowers the anxiety involved with constantly having to assess every guy on campus. There's a reason they're so good at body language and indirect communication.

Pretend you were in a world where half of the people checked you out constantly and would love to violate your body...oh and half the people are bigger, stronger, faster, more aggressive, and really horny.

You'd probably partner up with one of those guys too.

[Seth_Rose]

(09-24-2014 11:37 AM)Noir Wrote:  

They have boyfriends to show face. It's usually status. College is incestuously narcissistic in that manner. They aren't looking for others but they are open to auditions.

This.

Most colleges are composed of social circles, and few people tend to venture out of those circles. If you go to a state school, many people probably know each other from high school and will stick with that group all four years.

Girls are not an exception to this rule. They'll stick with the same group of friends throughout college and only date guys preapproved by their social circle.

Do they cheat often?

I don't think so. Here's why: If a girl (with a boyfriend) goes out to a bar and a guy starts hitting on her, her friends will cockblock him to maintain the natural balance of the social circle. And that's assuming the boyfriend isn't out with her, because he probably will be as he's a clingy beta.

As for Greek Life, the hottest sorority girls date guys in the top fraternites solely for status. You should see the mugs on some of these dudes.

Your best bet is to make your way into these top social circles, and the pussy will start to flow like the Ganges.

[Tai]

Hey guys, I need your advice.
I am living in the same hall as some girl(she has a bf) I was interested last year. I think she expected me to always be paying attention to her. However, I only talked to her briefly once and have stayed aloof so far. For instance, I see her at the library or other places and don't try to approached her, just mind my own bussines. I think it this method has worked as she "bumped" into me today at the elevator, I think she might have argued with her bf or something.

How would you guys work the situation? I don't want to be the beta dude who is waiting for her or whatever, but I want to be sure that it she breaks up with him, I'll be there.

[Comte De St. Germain]

(09-24-2014 10:05 PM)Tai Wrote:  

Hey guys, I need your advice.
I am living in the same hall as some girl(she has a bf) I was interested last year. I think she expected me to always be paying attention to her. However, I only talked to her briefly once and have stayed aloof so far. For instance, I see her at the library or other places and don't try to approached her, just mind my own bussines. I think it this method has worked as she "bumped" into me today at the elevator, I think she might have argued with her bf or something.

How would you guys work the situation? I don't want to be the beta dude who is waiting for her or whatever, but I want to be sure that it she breaks up with him, I'll be there.

Someone needs to read the damned forum rules. The second you ask us advice about how to get a certain girl you've known for a while to like you is the second you have lost. Give up and move on.

[Tai]

(09-24-2014 11:22 PM)hwuzhere Wrote:  

(09-24-2014 10:05 PM)Tai Wrote:  

Hey guys, I need your advice.
I am living in the same hall as some girl(she has a bf) I was interested last year. I think she expected me to always be paying attention to her. However, I only talked to her briefly once and have stayed aloof so far. For instance, I see her at the library or other places and don't try to approached her, just mind my own bussines. I think it this method has worked as she "bumped" into me today at the elevator, I think she might have argued with her bf or something.

How would you guys work the situation? I don't want to be the beta dude who is waiting for her or whatever, but I want to be sure that it she breaks up with him, I'll be there.

Someone needs to read the damned forum rules. The second you ask us advice about how to get a certain girl you've known for a while to like you is the second you have lost. Give up and move on.

Hey man,
I read the forum rules and I am not trying to be a "one-itis troll." At the same time, I am an acquaintance of this girl and I thought she was fair game according to the "NEWB FAQ" which says "The exceptions:Girls you've known for a long-time, but never really got to know each other.....Or the girl that lives in your apartment complex that you've seen for months, but never engaged in conversation"